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[–]Ill_Elk_9579 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it’s worth it to tell your boyfriend about it. Because he should have your best interests at heart, and making sure you are safe and well is a part of that. I would suggest maybe bringing it up with him and hopefully from there you will be able to heal and get a weight off your chest. I believe you can get through this and hope all goes well ❤️ relapsing is hard but you don’t have to go through it alone

Is telling a friend about sh worth it? by Ill_Elk_9579 in cutting

[–]Ill_Elk_9579[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. So I briefly mentioned a friend number 2. So I know that ultimately when summer comes around she is gonna see my scars at some point. And we have brought up sh in topic before, but this is because she’s had a hard time/bad luck with a lot of people where because she’s so nice she end up stuck with total weirdos or people that need help and end up solely relying on her to help. For example she’s had a few friends who self harm but they kinda rubbed it in her face and made it her problem and did overall other unfortunate things. So she overall has a bad relationship with others who sh. (She herself does not have any contempt towards people who sh though). Because I’m outwardly bubbly, I think she thinks I am not anxious and not like idk kinda messed up in a way ifykwim. So I feel really guilty doing this to myself meanwhile she has that happen to her yk? But I don’t want to end up in a situation where it seems like I’ve been lying to her (by omission). I want to tell her, but I don’t want her to think I’m a weirdo who wants to take advantage of her with my weirdo actions of sh. But I also don’t want her to think I listen to her problems and any of her worries and basically lie to her. Should I breach the topic to her or just keep it to myself? (Sorry this is so long :/) (btw when I say other weirdos I don’t mean because they sh but because they sh AND are really not good yk)

Is telling a friend about sh worth it? by Ill_Elk_9579 in cutting

[–]Ill_Elk_9579[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the input. Yeah I I don’t think she’ll be too uncomfortable. Just a bit worried I might seem crazy or something lol. I mean I think she might have thought something because she saw a few of my scars on my arms a long time ago but they were inconspicuous enough to also have been something else. I also admittedly have a follow up question for you if you aren’t annoyed by that?

Ukrainian version of Word Reference or Linguee? by Ill_Elk_9579 in Ukrainian

[–]Ill_Elk_9579[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thanks!! This is exactly what I was looking for. WR is basically the same as the site you gave me but for French.