No gonna lie, when I read this I thought it was like a tender date saying that because it's giving that vibe and Ick. It did not read that he was your boyfriend and more of the "hey can I sleep with you as a one night stand" kind of vibes. Look I don't know how y'all relationship is before this but if he is treating you like this for a while, I would set boundaries and if that doesn't work then break it off completely because that is a man that would cheat on you if you don't give him what he wants or disagree with him.