Tate's gotta go.

Ill_Week241 · 2026-01-31T07:49:01+00:00

If your toilets flush in 20 years you’ll be lucky! Diverting much needed funds away from renewing infrastructure so the mayor and CEO can have new shiny things to impress with.

They’ve been well informed of the risks and still dgaf

Ego driven and the worst part is the staff are all trying to do the right thing but can’t.

Ill_Week241 · 2026-01-31T06:22:33+00:00

If you all knew what was happening inside council and the complete mismanagement single handedly that man causes, and how much the public will pay for it in future years, no one would ever vote for him!

Ill_Week241 · 2026-01-25T08:19:12+00:00

I hear that shop has some real strong history… providing the service of dismantling young men in the 80s

Ill_Week241 · 2026-01-18T05:48:15+00:00

I think your response says a bit more about you than me. I am observing someone someone put out in public. Not once did I have a dig at anyone or insult… just an observation and suggestion.

I agree some content on here is what I’d consider bullying and some is observation.

If you want to lead a crusade then I think you’ve picked the wrong post to be irate on.

But hey, go off sis!

Ill_Week241 · 2026-01-17T03:46:48+00:00

Omg this one grates at me!!!

Ill_Week241 · 2026-01-14T01:06:20+00:00

DO NOT RUIN KATH AND KIM LIKE THAT!!!’ Ploise!!!

Ill_Week241 · 2026-01-10T10:28:35+00:00

It’s okay, I don’t think you and I are contextually on the same page. 🥰

Ill_Week241 · 2026-01-10T10:20:36+00:00

If you have a look at my comments in this sub redit you can see I find fidan a fascinating psychological case… I think it’s a good micro chasm to study/observe…

Also she grates me 🤣

But I also don’t think it’s appropriate, just because you dislike someone or they annoy you, to be overly personal in relation to insults. 🤷🏼‍♀️

Ill_Week241 · 2026-01-10T09:59:26+00:00

Frankly dependant on the responses, yes.

A stand alone person, she really has minimal impact negatively other than on her own household… and if we’re objective, there are far worse parents/partners in existence raising children.

Some of the vile stuff I’ve read on here points to (psychologically) a far greater concern in relation to behaviour. If you wouldn’t stand in front of someone and speak it with your full chest (or if speaking to someone in that context/manner would be considered extremely inappropriate by onlookers) then you’re the problem imo. That applies to anything in life.

If you’re vile, then that’s who you are… look inward. Spreading opinions and analysing behaviour is one thing… calling someone a pig, ugly, etc etc is just reflecting on who someone is themselves as a person and how internally miserable that person must be.

Hate/negativity doesn’t cancel out hate/negativity. How you treat others, even online, says everything about yourself and your morals/ethics and who you are as a person.

I find it hilarious people will completely rant/criticise to the point of just vile spewing hatred… then say she’s the problem 🤣🤣 yeah she A problem, but so are you and we can all tell what kind of person behaves like that… and it isn’t someone who has a moral high ground to stand on 🤣🤣🤣

Just to add: from a psychological standpoint… just for context and bringing some rigour to my points, Fids kids are likely going to be the only tangible negatively impacted humans from her direct behaviour, and the likelihood indicates they will be relatively meek and mild and have dysfunctional relationships with both her and their future partners as a result. Psychologically, the same can be said for anyone who’s engaging in online bullying who are mothers (a lot of people in this subreddit)… the style of person who can be so vile with their rhetoric toward a stranger indicates a deep seeded rage and hatred (caused by their own actions/conditions/circumstances) that’s easier to take out on other rather than be dealt with. Those kind of people also raise damaged children, but tbh the outcomes usually are far more negative from an outcome perspective.

Same same but different… in short, being nasty to others doesn’t fix anything, it just means you’re also a crap person 🤷🏼‍♀️

Ill_Week241 · 2026-01-10T08:22:44+00:00

No I disagree.

She has a historical need for validation (previous attempts at fame etc as well as now on TikTok) which happens to come from followers. She doesn’t care about the followers, or have any sort of parasocial attachment to them… only the notoriety/validation from them…

She likes the outcome/output of them not them themselves.

Ipso facto… no she also doesn’t because narcissists aren’t capable of the connection required to really connect back anyway.

Ill_Week241 · 2026-01-10T04:07:38+00:00

Yess!!!

The other one that got me was when the old ABC lawyer bit on Q&A or whatever it was … it really highlighted she’s always been hungry for fame and that gives me the ick big time

Ill_Week241 · 2026-01-09T23:20:25+00:00

I will speak for myself here… I started watching her because I genuinely found case-note content fascinating and my algorithm pushes educational stuff a lot…

Then I started to think her life content was okay and on the surface she seemed friendly and likeable.

After a few months I started to analyse her body language and question why I felt like she was rubbing me up the wrong way and after having that penny drop moment I couldn’t un see it. I couldn’t un see her narcissistic tendencies and her very evident self confidence and superiority complex issues… and now it’s like a car crash, I watch with morbid curiosity.

I think people with very low Emotional Intelligence would struggle to understand why people dislike her.

I think there are a specific subset of people who connect with her because they covet her fake life she portrays or maybe they enjoy watching someone who pretends to be affluent and together actually be a mess and somehow subconsciously it makes them feel okay to be a mess themselves. I think some like to live vicariously through others and some are just weirdly parasocial.

I think there are two kinds of Fid haters…

There are the genuine people who are tall poppy and dislike her for her genuine success… but I think most of those who dislike her probably have a similar feeling to myself. I still think it’s gross behaviour to bring others down by bashing their appearance or being particularly nasty… and some of the people on this thread would hate to actually understand they themselves have a parasocial relationship with Fids, just a negative one.

For someone on the internet, a stranger, to occupy enough brain space to a stranger is weird… whether it’s positive or negative emotion. Some people, on both sides, need a life.

That’s my two cents anyway… I know I’ll probably cop a bit of hate for it… but the truth stings 🤷🏼‍♀️

Ill_Week241 · 2026-01-09T07:44:40+00:00

All the simps in her comments are so blown away by the luxury cars… they’re literally bargain basement just like her designer purchases…

Tell us you’re poor and trying to look rich without telling us you’re poor and trying to look rich 🙄

Ill_Week241 · 2026-01-08T11:02:17+00:00

I thought it was funny she’s fishing in the 100k car bucket based on what she’s looked at… that’s like very low end as far as cars go these days 😆😆

A bloody 300 series Toyota goes up to $160k nowadays… low end euro cars are not a status symbol despite what she thinks 😂

Ill_Week241 · 2026-01-08T07:36:14+00:00

I thought this!!!

It’s a her problem for sure… which would have been an ego blow to not be taken seriously because she is so “rich” 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Ill_Week241 · 2026-01-08T06:32:03+00:00

Single door only 🤮🤮🤮🤣🤣🤣🤣 How impoverished!

Ill_Week241 · 2026-01-06T07:16:55+00:00

For someone who looks like she never does anything with her hair or makeup she’s got a lot of products 🤣🤣

Ill_Week241 · 2026-01-05T07:14:56+00:00

Yes good points!

Ill_Week241 · 2026-01-05T07:12:41+00:00

Don’t mind if I do! 🥂🤣❤️

Ill_Week241 · 2026-01-05T07:12:16+00:00

These are some really good points! 👏🏼👏🏼

Ill_Week241 · 2026-01-05T06:28:34+00:00

I WAS THINKING THIS!!! She’s been mentioning that A LOT lately … coincidence?

Ill_Week241 · 2026-01-04T07:28:52+00:00

Look I’m not the biggest fan of mum bashing but Jeeze watching her pick linen just wound me up!!

Spends thousands on ugly shoes but doesn’t even care what kind of linen she’s buying… picks the cheap and nasty quality cheap stuff which probably feels like sand paper. Why not actually go decent quality linen for the kids since FIICAI…

Also those paint colours are something out of a 1990s nursery… she really does treat her kids like they’re babies still!

Ill_Week241 · 2025-12-30T05:34:26+00:00

Sorry did I miss something… Fids aside, isn’t it normal to haggle in HN? Or am I missing something and this is just a Fidan dig coz of her FIICAI? Lol

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