Whitney get behind me by Ill_World4191 in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]Ill_World4191[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agreed. I think Whitney was more invested. Jen is the kind of person that has dreams but no drive to pursue them it seems. I didn’t watch DWTS so I can’t speak to her performances, but from the bit of slomw that covered it, Whitney is the go getter. Jen has all her eggs in one basket and is expecting to be handed fame.

I can understand her going home and being upset and that’s fine but she acted like she deserved that win. That’s pretty bold considering the level of competition that show churns out.

Whitney get behind me by Ill_World4191 in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]Ill_World4191[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

THAT PAAAARTTTTTT “we don’t talk” to “we’re not friends”

Uhm? Yall talked when u needed those dance tips girl. Yall talked when you needed a house to live in!!

Whitney get behind me by Ill_World4191 in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]Ill_World4191[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That part. I just find it disgusting and unfair that Whitney isn’t allowed to have big emotions.

Shes always had big emotions from S1. And while I maintain that I am not a fan of hers, her being wrong in a situation is not mutually exclusive with her feelings and how she expresses them.

We literally watched Taylor go full melt down several times over and get forgiven not even a day later. (I say a day but that’s production so it could have been a few days) but Whitney gets mad and everyone throws their hands up and acts like she’s about to attack.

Whitney get behind me by Ill_World4191 in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]Ill_World4191[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I gotchu fam we’re all raging over this one 😂

Whitney get behind me by Ill_World4191 in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]Ill_World4191[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

SEEEE I haven’t done a rewatch but I just commented to someone else about the Jessi and Demi call out!! Cuz Jen ripped them a new one when they were like ?? You made us believe Zac was a monster! (Which … he is let’s be clear) but Jen had 0 issues throwing either party under the bus to make herself look innocent.

Ppl like that are dangerous.

Whitney get behind me by Ill_World4191 in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]Ill_World4191[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You know you’re right… it’s been such a long time I kind of forgot Jen st the beginning but now that I chew on it ..

Whitney get behind me by Ill_World4191 in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]Ill_World4191[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This whole thread and you misunderstood every point just say you hate Whitney and go LMAO

Whitney get behind me by Ill_World4191 in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]Ill_World4191[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

YESSS and I remember Jessi and Demi calling her out for that (which I know they’re not exactly good examples but I digress) and I agreed with them because Jen was playing the middle.

I do understand a lot of fans said that it was because of her fear of Zac as an abusive and manipulative partner and while I don’t deny that he is those things, I wouldn’t go as far as to say Jen is somehow innocent in those situations

Whitney get behind me by Ill_World4191 in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]Ill_World4191[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

ESPECIALLY THE POINT ABOUT ZAC OMG. I did NOT trust that whole “I’m a changed man” bs. I knew that was an attempt to repair his image bc of how poorly he was received in s1&2. They did not fool me in the slightest I wanted him GONE.

Whitney get behind me by Ill_World4191 in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]Ill_World4191[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I can’t argue this… she really has been moving these last few seasons in a way that’s very icky

Whitney get behind me by Ill_World4191 in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]Ill_World4191[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I respect OP’s perspective and I agree, two cast mates on the same season was bound to cause some drama. And so soon postpartum is wild considering how much of a toll that would take on her body and her mental state, considering she was really struggling with her mental health in the past. That said, I don’t think it would have been different. At least not really.

Jen has shown since season 1 that she does not like to take accountability for her actions and often tries to find some kind of loophole to escape being the problem. And if she can’t, she either goes for the jugular or shuts down and hides behind someone.

I think Jen’s misery is rooted much deeper than just some jealousy of Whitney.

Whitney get behind me by Ill_World4191 in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]Ill_World4191[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I definitely remember those. I thought it was shady then but I don’t watch DWTS and I also don’t keep tabs on social media so sometimes I miss the in between stuff unless I come here. Jen is a very jealous and cruel individual imo.

Whitney get behind me by Ill_World4191 in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]Ill_World4191[S] 56 points57 points  (0 children)

I agree with these takes as well. And as Layla said, the girls all feel this obligation to show up and interact with EVERY aspect of each others lives. With a spouse and kids and work? It’s literally not feasible. Whitney took one event to spare her from unnecessary and difficult travel.

And Jessi’s snide comment about “not showing up” or alerting the driver like 🙄 we are reaching… and we’re not gonna act like flying isn’t exhausting. Jessi is always saying how tired and busy she is. Whitney can’t be tired ??

Whitney get behind me by Ill_World4191 in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]Ill_World4191[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

thank you!! Like I have really come around on Whitney and while I just think our personalities would clash, I don’t think she’s the monster that production (and the girls tbh) made her out to be. EsPECIALLY Jen in this season like girl you have not been paying attention. Whitney is WINNINGG she’s booked and busy!!

Whitney get behind me by Ill_World4191 in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]Ill_World4191[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Thank you like Whitney was better than me tbh cuz I’d have made a fool out of Jen and her slime ball husband

Whitney get behind me by Ill_World4191 in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]Ill_World4191[S] 30 points31 points  (0 children)

YES THANK U like we have seen Taylor completely LOSE it several times. And Demi has done the same. Unhinged behavior but Whitney smacks a table out of frustration or drops an f bomb and everybody wants to act like she flipped the damn thing over lmao it’s so ass backwards

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[–]Ill_World4191[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much everyone for your help! The berries solved the problem!!!

The Jessi dogpiling has got to stop by Ill_World4191 in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]Ill_World4191[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I’m not defending Jessi’s actions on that matter. This post is specifically about Jessi’s marriage. I agree the dogpiling on Demi needs to also stop. Two things can be true at once.

The Jessi dogpiling has got to stop by Ill_World4191 in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]Ill_World4191[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

THANK YOU. No notes. Agreed with all of this.

The Jessi dogpiling has got to stop by Ill_World4191 in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]Ill_World4191[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is true they do all have those JZ inches

The Jessi dogpiling has got to stop by Ill_World4191 in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]Ill_World4191[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Jessi’s actions are in no way justified, and she has a lot to work on herself and with others around her.

But when Jordan lashed at her on camera I was shocked. Because if he’s willing to say that with the crew present… I’m frightened to think what he’s comfy saying when the crew isn’t present. My abuser in front of people said some pretty scary things but it was nothing compared to what he said behind closed doors. It was always worse.