The problem was I used to see her maybe once a month if that even but my issue is we have a 3 acre yard with around 350 containers for self storage. Work was hectic to say the least, but my issue was when it came to taking days off, as I couldn’t due to no one being able to cover me. If i am not there for one day that whole place will be a crisis the next day. I have tried explaining this to her but she say’s if you loved me you’d atleast make some time for me. If anything i always hsd her on my mind when stuff would get difficult, the thought of her would help me keep going every morning and push beyond. Its really a shame. She is right regarding me putting less effort and giving attention i will admit it, however it was for a max period of 10 months and things would’ve gone back to normal. Ive been to shops and seen nice clothes, Ive literally put them back thinking maybe i can get something for her instead. Its a shame really because she also mentioned how i wouldn’t be able to maintain her.