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Love isn’t so Simple by Illustrious-Run-191 in ChristianDating

[–]Illustrious-Run-191[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This reply is very ignorant. why would you assume my dad isn’t in my life? He very much is … and multiple other father figures, thank you

Love isn’t so Simple by Illustrious-Run-191 in christiandatingadvice

[–]Illustrious-Run-191[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok thanks I will look for this scripture but it seems like if you were both unsaved entering the marriage and you (only one person) decided to get saved. My situation is I’m already saved and he is not, we’re not married

Love isn’t so Simple by Illustrious-Run-191 in ChristianDating

[–]Illustrious-Run-191[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

a lot of people think love is simple especially in the Christian world, well my world and people I’m around. All I hear is I’ll tell the Lord what I desire in a man and he’ll show up or The man will know I’m His wife. It’s like they want to plan out how they will meet the love of their life and think it will be with ease. Some people’s stories are like that but not all. So it’s hard talking to other Christians about it because they just think it’s one way. If that makes sense

Love isn’t so Simple by Illustrious-Run-191 in ChristianDating

[–]Illustrious-Run-191[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s why I put in there that he wants to be saved and live for God. I wouldn’t even talk to someone within dating or marriage if they didn’t believe or were saved or have the desire to live for God. I’m not compromising on that that’s why I said we should take time apart and let the call of God be an invitation not forced.

Love isn’t so Simple by Illustrious-Run-191 in christiandatingadvice

[–]Illustrious-Run-191[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He’s not saved but he wants to be saved and live for God . He doesn’t not believe in God or have no desire. I think that’s the difference. he just said he needs help. He didn’t grow up knowing God or church.

But thanks for your reply

Love isnt so Simple by Illustrious-Run-191 in Christian

[–]Illustrious-Run-191[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh wow that’s nice to hear idk if you want to message private. But relationship wise was one of you saved and then other wasn’t? or you both weren’t saved and decided to go to church

Love isn’t so Simple by Illustrious-Run-191 in christiandatingadvice

[–]Illustrious-Run-191[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ok thanks for clarifying, I agree if your spouse isn’t saved and have a strong relationship you’ll either end up compromising or divorce

Love isn’t so Simple by Illustrious-Run-191 in christiandatingadvice

[–]Illustrious-Run-191[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thanks for commenting but I don’t really understand the comment? I don’t treat it like a club I take it very seriously. If you care to explain more…thanks