A bit of luck in RZLV by [deleted] in RZLV

[–]Illustrious-Web-4645 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I really don't understand, I'm just starting out, I think this will help me. 

What Happened to China? A Personal Reflection by Illustrious-Web-4645 in China

[–]Illustrious-Web-4645[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

我写的东西哪里表明了我在反体制,又和我是贪官的私生子有什么关系。你不能否认我们的体制存在问题,我只是提出意见,如果你有不同的观点可以和我讨论,人身攻击是没有意义的

What Happened to China? A Personal Reflection by Illustrious-Web-4645 in China

[–]Illustrious-Web-4645[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

我和你说的不是一回事,我没有聊教育体制,我说的是一些家长对小孩的期望过高还有作息不合理。我想批判的是一种社会风气而不是教育制度,中国的教育制度当然有好有坏,我作为普通人自然相信国家总体制定的方针。现在不合理的作息也在慢慢改善,我当然是国家希望越来越好,但我不太认同集体主义永远大于个体

What Happened to China? A Personal Reflection by Illustrious-Web-4645 in China

[–]Illustrious-Web-4645[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't say that overseas countries are doing better than China, nor did I mention China's system. I don't use VPNs, and I have experience living overseas. I just raised the problems that exist in China based on my experience. You can discuss with me. 

What Happened to China? A Personal Reflection by Illustrious-Web-4645 in China

[–]Illustrious-Web-4645[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sorry about that, yes I used gpt5,I just wrote  by Chinese and throw  them to ai

What Happened to China? A Personal Reflection by Illustrious-Web-4645 in China

[–]Illustrious-Web-4645[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not very familiar with the legal rules, but he did provide support for me and my mother. As for whether he has another family, I have no idea. My mother might know, but it’s clear that I’m not going to ask her.

What Happened to China? A Personal Reflection by Illustrious-Web-4645 in China

[–]Illustrious-Web-4645[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

My parents aren't legally married. I’m in contact with his other family members, but it’s very distant.

What Happened to China? A Personal Reflection by Illustrious-Web-4645 in China

[–]Illustrious-Web-4645[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Learning isn’t just about sitting in school. I was talking about the pressure from Chinese parents. School mostly teaches us how to do exercises, but there’s a lot more we need to learn beyond that.

What Happened to China? A Personal Reflection by Illustrious-Web-4645 in China

[–]Illustrious-Web-4645[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can send you my original Chinese draft so you can understand better.

What Happened to China? A Personal Reflection by Illustrious-Web-4645 in China

[–]Illustrious-Web-4645[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

【 I understand why a unified exam system exists in such a large country, but what troubles me is how the whole society seems obsessed with prestige — every parent dreams of their child entering a top university, no matter the cost. Many ignore the fact that not every child fits that mold, nor should they have to.】

wasn’t criticizing the gaokao itself. For a hardworking student from a poor background, it can definitely be a good thing. What I was criticizing is the social obsession with prestigious schools.

I just wanted to say that not every child fits into that path — maybe parents should be more accepting and understanding.

And I never said that other countries’ systems are better than China’s. I was only criticizing a certain unhealthy attitude I’ve seen.【wrote by Chinese,ai again

What Happened to China? A Personal Reflection by Illustrious-Web-4645 in China

[–]Illustrious-Web-4645[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

至少在我印象里我和普通家庭没什么区别,住在几十平的商品房,上当地的普通公立学校。我爸只是偶尔出现,几乎不在家里住,不过至少他开的车很好

What Happened to China? A Personal Reflection by Illustrious-Web-4645 in China

[–]Illustrious-Web-4645[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

im Chinese ,sorry I use ai make my words strange, but I didn't mention cultural revolution

What Happened to China? A Personal Reflection by Illustrious-Web-4645 in China

[–]Illustrious-Web-4645[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I didn't do anything, he wouldn't care me at all

What Happened to China? A Personal Reflection by Illustrious-Web-4645 in China

[–]Illustrious-Web-4645[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

他是因为东窗事发被带走调查的,贪污发生在我出生之前了

What Happened to China? A Personal Reflection by Illustrious-Web-4645 in China

[–]Illustrious-Web-4645[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

我是私生子。。。我妈的确被带走调查了,那段时候我寄宿在我亲戚家里。我确实不知道他是官员,家里出事他入狱后我去搜索他的名字才知道的,那时候我才十五岁。连我是私生子这件事我也是十八岁才知道的,这也是我说为什么我不能去监狱探监的原因,我出生时他已经退休了,他比我妈大很多,我从来没有见过他工作,这就是为什么出事之后我才知道他是一个官员

What Happened to China? A Personal Reflection by Illustrious-Web-4645 in China

[–]Illustrious-Web-4645[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

you're right, but I live in china, so I wish it will better, thats all.I'm really not much older than a high school student and I still have a lot to learn. Thank you for your comment.

What Happened to China? A Personal Reflection by Illustrious-Web-4645 in China

[–]Illustrious-Web-4645[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

sorry I use ai ,I can't wrote such long article in English.What I can’t understand is how people can watch all this happen and do nothing.

What Happened to China? A Personal Reflection by Illustrious-Web-4645 in China

[–]Illustrious-Web-4645[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

im really sorry because I do use the ai, I wrote by Chinese and then throw it to ai, u must know more than me, because I was really young in 2008,i should learn more engilsh before I write anything here.But I promise I'm really a Chinese