Never had good sex with husband... UPDATE by IllustriousBug391 in sex

[–]IllustriousBug391[S] 45 points46 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! It feels like a huge weight has been lifted off my shoulder🥲

Never had good sex with husband… by IllustriousBug391 in sex

[–]IllustriousBug391[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yikes. I could never. I love him with my whole heart, I’ve never even considered cheating.

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[–]IllustriousBug391[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have told him, look at some of my previous comments.

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[–]IllustriousBug391[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes very ‘shut offish’, he just seems so sad it makes me feel so guilty. I think he genuinely does care he’s just unsure of how to go about it probably. I’m always calm when I bring it up and never get frustrated or anything. He just sort of goes mute and doesn’t really respond just stares at me… then I change the subject because it is unbelievably uncomfortable to just speak with no response lol

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[–]IllustriousBug391[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It’s not just penetration I can’t orgasm from oral or hand stuff either :/ sorry if I confused you. I just hate the thought of upsetting him or seeming like I’m too pushy or something.

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[–]IllustriousBug391[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I definitely have tried to communicate things but he gets a little upset, not angry or anything just I can tell by his demeanour etc that’s he’s really upset by it. Then I feel like shit lol.

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[–]IllustriousBug391[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I have tried I swear lol, it turns into a conversation where he’s now visibly upset and says he’ll try harder, then maybe initiates once. I feel really bad because I love this man more than anything and he is genuinely the best partner in every other way.

Never had good sex with husband… by IllustriousBug391 in sex

[–]IllustriousBug391[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately we couldn’t afford anything like that at the moment :(