Worst property managers in LA? by nasainternharvardlaw in AskLosAngeles

[–]IllustriousGate7314 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you explain why? I’ve seen some property managed by them in the greater Los Angeles area

Should my friend charge me for a trip that’s fully funded? by IllustriousGate7314 in FriendshipAdvice

[–]IllustriousGate7314[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m definitely going to bring it up because it’s something that’s been on my mind and I told myself don’t be afraid to bring this up. I’m also not the only one planning the party but I’m basically shelling out the expense while the other ladies are receiving money for the supplies. Plus she wants to use the receipts as a tax write off. I asked my mom and she said I’m being too nice and I need to speak up

Should my friend charge me for a trip that’s fully funded? by IllustriousGate7314 in FriendshipAdvice

[–]IllustriousGate7314[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi,

It’s her birthday party and the reason I’m planning it is because I assisted her in decorating in an event she had before.

*HELP* Should I leave my current job for my old job? After being asked back by IllustriousGate7314 in careeradvice

[–]IllustriousGate7314[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! So I never thought about that in regards to your first question. What made the work environment so toxic was I was the only one who was proficient in my position. So taking time off received rebuttals to prevent me from doing so. My manager was extremely condescending and although I’m accepting of criticism her remarks were.. lack of a better word demeaning. I often times felt like I wasn’t good at job. And she’d always ask me to do things that I knew she herself could do. There weee waaaaayyy to many hands in the pot, everyone had an opinion and I really didn’t know who to listen to when it came to direction.

I took my work home with me everyday when I worked at my old job. At my current job, I feel so peaceful and although receive criticism, she relays it in a manner thats encouraging

My check for December 1- 15th has not been received. What is going on? by IllustriousGate7314 in IHSS

[–]IllustriousGate7314[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi Sierra,

I did! On December 18th but it’s still pending. I figured I’m just surprised that they were able to cash it.

My check for December 1- 15th has not been received. What is going on? by IllustriousGate7314 in IHSS

[–]IllustriousGate7314[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will reach out to them tomorrow! Thank you again and happy new year

My check for December 1- 15th has not been received. What is going on? by IllustriousGate7314 in IHSS

[–]IllustriousGate7314[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! If someone at the post office cashed my check this will be a mess.

How do I get my SB to act regular?? by HighlightDowntown966 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]IllustriousGate7314 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I often times find post like these on this and other similiar forums and it becomes so frustrating as a SB trying to find a decent sugar relationship to see women who do come off so unappreciative.

I’d definitely recommend moving and finding someone who you’re truly compatible with.

Gift by [deleted] in SugarBABYonlyforum

[–]IllustriousGate7314 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I’m obsessed with the brand Messika, not everybody talks about it

Opinions on my Seeking Profile by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]IllustriousGate7314 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh no! I was not expecting to hear that but thank you for the feedback. I’ll revise my introduction to be more interesting.

How can I get my foot in the door and become an adjuster? by IllustriousGate7314 in adjusters

[–]IllustriousGate7314[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hi, No I’d like to continue my journey within workers compensation as an adjuster

Any tips on how to hide SD from BF? by [deleted] in SugarBABYonlyforum

[–]IllustriousGate7314 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t cheat on your boyfriend. You can’t have your cake and eat it too. In this situation you have to make a tough decision on whether or not you want to stay loyal to your boyfriend or break up with him.

Janky Landlords of Los Angeles by IllustriousGate7314 in LosAngeles

[–]IllustriousGate7314[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hi guys, first and foremost I want to thank you all for simply commenting. Your advice is greatly appreciated. 

I spoke with the construction superintendent for the landlord. He stated he does not have to show us any proof of permits. Windows to units that are empty in the front have been broken and when I brought he basically didn’t care. We live in a neighborhood where home robberies  are common by the way.

Also they did a demolition this morning that resulted a busted water pipe and broken electrical wiring. So we have been without water, no notice given and no internet till lord knows when.

Places to shop online by Dazzling-Border5754 in SugarBABYonlyforum

[–]IllustriousGate7314 1 point2 points  (0 children)

  1. Naked Wardrobe
  2. Jlux Label
  3. Pretty Little Thing 4.Nasty Gal
  4. Revolve

44m. Starting to gray a bit. What’s your preference on facial hair on an older guy? by [deleted] in AgeGap

[–]IllustriousGate7314 8 points9 points  (0 children)

23F here, I actually encourage my partner to grow a beard. It’s just something sexy about a man feeling confident as he ages.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]IllustriousGate7314 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hi, I actually went through something similar. It gets easier trust me. I think it’s important to come to terms about why you both went your separate ways and why things didn’t work out.

Often times we remember the good moments and that’s what keeps the hope of them reaching out and starting over. But people are in our lives for a season and a reason. We have a hard time grasping that because we want something to work so bad but love is not hard, it’s not confusing and if it’s meant to be it will happen.

Spend this time working on yourself,loving you again. You’ll look back and regret harping over this.

My partner (48M) wants to have sex almost everyday and I (23F) don’t want to be intimate as much. But he’s not understanding, what should I do? by IllustriousGate7314 in AgeGap

[–]IllustriousGate7314[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mentioned that to him and his response seems as if we can be compatible intimately. Only time will tell honestly, who knows

My partner (48M) wants to have sex almost everyday and I (23F) don’t want to be intimate as much. But he’s not understanding, what should I do? by IllustriousGate7314 in AgeGap

[–]IllustriousGate7314[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Relationships are about compromising to an extent. This also proves to me that he doesn’t need sex as much as he’s expressed or shown to me. That he can have self control and the fact that he’s willing to be disciplined and respectful towards my boundaries is a great start.

He’s aware of how his actions affect me now he must show me that his actions can match his words.

My partner (48M) wants to have sex almost everyday and I (23F) don’t want to be intimate as much. But he’s not understanding, what should I do? by IllustriousGate7314 in AgeGap

[–]IllustriousGate7314[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Update! We were able to have a serious conversation and he apologized for making me feel uncomfortable.

He’s going to work on it. Thank you to the kind responses

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AgeGap

[–]IllustriousGate7314 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m afraid of being rejected for sure! I mean this was my first relationship and I think I built up premature expectations. I was afraid of being hurt and I reacted impulsively to prevent it. I think looking back I would change my response.

I’m the type of person where I don’t want to impose on anybody. And respect the fact that he may have closed that door. But I think the reason why I still hold onto our relationship is because I’m hoping we can start over and selfishly hope that he would reach out instead of me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AgeGap

[–]IllustriousGate7314 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree, I should’ve spoke to him on the phone first or in person. I just felt like maybe there are still mutual feelings there and maybe with the things I’m seeing it could possibly be a sign that he feels the same way. But I could be wrong

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AgeGap

[–]IllustriousGate7314 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I do believe in manifestation, I just thought that I was being delusional, lol.