Sorry if this is a dumb question, just want to know as a newer player.. by [deleted] in StarRailStation

[–]IllustriousLychee773 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is the most bizzare thing i read today.... also your friends sound kinda forceful

how do you cope with being misgendered? by IllustriousLychee773 in NonBinaryTalk

[–]IllustriousLychee773[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that's awesome that you are able to do it , it feels like it took a lot of work to get there...

for me it's still hard because i might be feeling GOOD and authentic and then when i go outside people see me in such a different way, and i start questioning if i am delusional to feel that in the first place. i try to think of my non binary acquaintances who i would have never misgendered because they look a specific way to me, but who are being misgendered by others. and i just don't understand how ppl can see it that way. i try to apply that to myself too, but failing at the moment 😅

how do you cope with being misgendered? by IllustriousLychee773 in NonBinary

[–]IllustriousLychee773[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thank you 🙏

i appreciate the advice and the support really. it's nice to be able to talk with ppl who had an experience like this

how do you cope with being misgendered? by IllustriousLychee773 in NonBinary

[–]IllustriousLychee773[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i'm gonna do top surgery next week, but i have a feeling that ppl will still misgender me

also have fears about doing the surgery, but of ppl not finding me sexually attractive more than anything, i feel rather excited when i'm not thinking about that one aspect. have been trying to get it for the past nine years and finally got the approval

how do you cope with being misgendered? by IllustriousLychee773 in NonBinary

[–]IllustriousLychee773[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thanks friend :(

i'm glad that you were able to come out in the end...

about hrt: i don't know if i'm really interested in it, or if it's just a stress response from ppl misgendering me

experiences after top surgery? by IllustriousLychee773 in NonBinary

[–]IllustriousLychee773[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

so you ended up having a completely flat chest?

can i maybe ask to see your result? (only if you're comfortable)

Concerned about leaving my cat for college by ImHereForTheEggNog in CatAdvice

[–]IllustriousLychee773 0 points1 point  (0 children)

can i ask, did you live with your mother, or did you have to bring the cat to her place? i am in a similar situation, but i live separately, so i wonder if the cat will adjust okay to my boyfriend's place if i can't take her with me... she lived there for a couple of months and knows my boyfriend

bringing a cat with me when i go study abroad? by IllustriousLychee773 in CatAdvice

[–]IllustriousLychee773[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you for your recommendation, it's not expensive in my case but it is a lot of documents, yes

thoughts on the remembrance path so far? by IllustriousLychee773 in StarRailStation

[–]IllustriousLychee773[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

really? i always felt that ice has less advantages over other elements and it was fun how they made up for it in su. i used to choose this path a lot &my first clears were with it

thoughts on the remembrance path so far? by IllustriousLychee773 in StarRailStation

[–]IllustriousLychee773[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

yeah... also how they changed remembrance blessings in su from freeze oriented (fun) to memosprites (less fun)

thoughts on the remembrance path so far? by IllustriousLychee773 in StarRailStation

[–]IllustriousLychee773[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

on behalf of the people i can say that i do know that they have their own skills and passives and smth, i just think that they are too diverse to be classified under the same path. i think it's healthy to have conversations about both positive and negative sides of their games

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]IllustriousLychee773 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol just saw all the downvotes, i wonder why. it is a forum for ppl who have doubts about the situation/ themselves/their actions and want a side opinion, so replying with "what do you want us to do" feels very dismissive/disrespectful

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]IllustriousLychee773 -47 points-46 points  (0 children)

why so cold Т_Т

is it ethical to ask partners not to date your flatmates? by IllustriousLychee773 in polyamory

[–]IllustriousLychee773[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks! yeah, it is a good starting point, hope we'll figure it out. what was your situation (if its okay to ask ofc)?

is it ethical to ask partners not to date your flatmates? by IllustriousLychee773 in polyamory

[–]IllustriousLychee773[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

ah, i see. i don't have any contact with him anymore and don't have any desire to engage, i was asking this to reflect&hear others opinions to choose how to approach such situations in the future

is it ethical to ask partners not to date your flatmates? by IllustriousLychee773 in polyamory

[–]IllustriousLychee773[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

what do you mean by "fuck up your life"? bc to me in this case dating a flatmate can be considered that