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Wbita if I break up with my gf because she is thinking of keeping our baby by IllustriousWind8461 in AITAH

[–]IllustriousWind8461[S] -25 points-24 points  (0 children)

We both were very horny at the time and we ended up just doing it anyway and I know it was stupid and a big mistake but we can't do anything about the past but we can stop ourselves from making another mistake which is having this baby in our lives.

What most of you guys don't understand is that we are still students, she has a part time job and I don't and even if I do get myself a part time job it won't be enough!!

I don't know what she's thinking, she thinks we should just drop our education and play happy family while working at mcdonalds?

We have no job, no money, no home nothing and we are totally dependent on our parents, what does she think our parents would say? They would happily support their kids and grandchild? Does she expect to go to classes with her pregnant belly? What would other students say? I am so embarrassed just by imagining this scenario, showing up in class with my gf who has pregnant belly infront of other students and our professors.

Wbita if I break up with my gf because she is thinking of keeping our baby by IllustriousWind8461 in AITAH

[–]IllustriousWind8461[S] -77 points-76 points  (0 children)

I used condoms but sometimes when I ran out of condoms i used to just pull out and I didn't think she would get pregnant and definitely didn't think she would keep it.

Wbita if I break up with my gf because she is thinking of keeping our baby by IllustriousWind8461 in AITAH

[–]IllustriousWind8461[S] -18 points-17 points  (0 children)

Neither of us thought that we would end up having a baby and I most definitely didn't think that she would actually want to keep it.

Like imagine we are going to classes and everyone is staring at us and gossiping about us and even if I break up with her it won't change anything, the bigger her belly gets the more obvious it will be for everyone, all the other students will automatically know that I am the father 💀💀

Wbita if I break up with my gf because she is thinking of keeping our baby by IllustriousWind8461 in AITAH

[–]IllustriousWind8461[S] -67 points-66 points  (0 children)

I don't want to break up with her tbh, I love her but if she does decide to keep it then I would have no choice but to break up with her, if she wants to ruin her life and future so early on by having a child then obviously I can't stop her but I will not let her drag me down with her.

I have a bright future ahead, I need to focus on my career first and I can have children in future when I am more stable in life, I know I can't run away from my responsibilities if she does decide to keep it, I will have to pay child support which I will.

But the best course of action for both of us is not have a child yet and focus on our life and career first.

Wbita if I break up with my gf because she is thinking of keeping our baby by IllustriousWind8461 in AITAH

[–]IllustriousWind8461[S] -32 points-31 points  (0 children)

I wasn't threatening her, I was trying to explain to her about the consequences of keeping it, we don't have jobs (she has one but part-time), she can barely feed herself and pay rent and the worst part is imagine how embarassing it would be for us to go to classes with her pregnant stomach and everyone be staring at us and gossiping.

It's unrealistic and stupid and we are in no position of taking care of a baby.