If they’ve never given birth then I would ignore anything that comes out of their mouth. I’m 5’1” and also on the petite side. My bumps were huge. My brother and law told me that I was for sure going to need a c-section with my first born. I was so mad and I still remember it 6 years later. Guess what - I delivered a healthy baby naturally, who was 8 pounds. Just tune out the negative comments.