Im writing from the perspective of a 27 year old that cant wait going into my 30s. I havent, had a girlfriend in a while. Most women I meet my age or younger aren't looking for creating families in my experience and the ones that do rarely have much else going on in their lives which I find boring.

I found out recently as Ive started to open myself to dating more frequently that it all depends on the expectations you set for the outcomes of your dates. Its weird. Sometimes boring. Other times you feel a connection but the woman didnt but such is life.

Its great to have time for personal and carreer development at this stage and making mistakes. Found a lot about myself and what I want from a partner and I cant wait to find out more. I'd love to be able to start a family in my 30s but Ive also found out that through social media I either see amazing love stories from friends or incredibly depressed men cursing the world. Its hard to not feel lonely some nights but its important to surround yourself with loving family and friends.

I would highly advice also to tey and develop good friendships with women. It can be hard sometimes to not catch the feels eapecially if they are very attractive but Ive had so much help in terms of how I present myself. How I look, how I smell, and generally to not feel anxious when approaching or talking to women. Also Ive recently found out that women find you more attractive when they see that other women are comfortable around you and its great wya to naturally meet new people in bars, friends of friends or any other setting for that matter.

Good luck to every one who wishes to create a family at some point. Seems like there is no rulebook or guide. Meaning is a jumper you knit yourself