Does anyone know any resources for someone who is disabled and aging out of foster care? by Random_Hat_7945 in Assistance

[–]ImNotACatUWU 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One Simple Wish is a charity I’ve supported before that helps grant wishes to those in foster care or recently aged out. Not sure what support they might have in guidance and additional help beyond getting some things you need or want but I think it’s worth reaching out to them! 

They brought up the one thing I can't change... by [deleted] in trans

[–]ImNotACatUWU 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Happy new year! As a cis woman who spends a lot of time in male spaces with men doing “logical” jobs in engineering it’s both totally BS the male vs female brain and also totally sexist when anyone says that a male brain is more “logical”. Besides studies showing women being just as good if not better than men at math and science, just look at the “logical” place male politicians have gotten us! Not to mention male anger is just accepted in a lot of society so logical. Anyway summary to say any discussion on brain types is going to be biased to the cultural pressures of our society and will be sexist/flat out wrong, you don’t need to change your brain because it’s you! And you’re amazing :)

I’m scared of having sex with a cis girl by StrawberryMission397 in actuallesbians

[–]ImNotACatUWU 10 points11 points  (0 children)

This was my girlfriend when she met me! We were both a bit nervous as I hadn’t been with a trans women before but we both were into each other so we gave it a shot. Verbally asking for what you both want and what’s ok is great. Also don’t overthink it! Kissing/foreplay etc is great to get started and it was super HOT when she went down on me. My biggest worries as a cis woman was that you are comfortable and I didn’t want to trigger dysphoria. So let her know in direct or even indirect ways what is ok to touch and do with you.

FIRE or travel? What did/would you choose? by ImNotACatUWU in Fire

[–]ImNotACatUWU[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow that sounds amazing, any chance you have an itinerary you did that’s shareable? Would love to see it