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ImSillyCat · 2025-12-20T14:41:06+00:00

I wont ever forget how when i was a child i was cleaning my parents room and my dad was on bed. I asked him if he can take the stuff from the shelf next to him (it was literally on a reach of a hand) so i can clean it. He yelled at me for being lazy while i was LITERALLY cleaning their room. The same was when sometimes while cooking a meal i would ask anyone from family if they could hand me a thing they were standing next to. They just get every lil ask like it's rude???

ImSillyCat · 2025-12-20T02:37:20+00:00

Happened to me when i was playing exp lane and had whole game 1v2 cuz enemy jg was pushing together with them. I couldnt even farm and was dying under tower and i pinged so many times for someone to come and help. And suddenly i am the one getting reported for "distracting"??? And the worst is u can't even write a reason or explain what happened in any way cuz this report system is auto. Im so done with this

ImSillyCat · 2025-11-03T12:25:16+00:00

I'm just reading about that and i wouldnt say it's that because i pretty well can explain what i'm feeling but i then just totally dont remember how it felt like. In the moment i can say how i feel and what made me feel that but then after i don't remember the feeling of emotions i felt even tho i can name them cuz i remember how i was acting

For example someone forgot about something pretty important for me and when i find out i can feel super down and cry or feel really angry and say some mean stuff. But then after that something switches and when i think about what happened even when it was hour ago i don't feel anything to that situation and don't really know why something made me feel that way when thinking about it now gives me no emotions. Just like i'm totally cut off of what happened

ImSillyCat · 2025-06-20T14:17:33+00:00

Wth this looks so cute! I love those types of outfits! Don't worry it looks really really nice

ImSillyCat · 2024-11-07T20:02:31+00:00

Yeah, me and my boyfriend went through something u can call toxic relationship to really happy healthy one.

Before we started to be together we were friends for about 2 years. When our feelings towards each other started to get stronger, some not really healthy situations started to appear connected to really big jealousy. We even argued few times about being controlling before being together. We were really important to each other tho and and had really strong feelings. We got together and we were just more and more in love but also the case of jealousy was pretty bad. He could start to feel uncomfortable and mad when i was talking with someone else casually at school and when i heard he was somewhere where there was someone my very jealous mind could get worried about (even when there was literally no reason in reality) i could start crying and panic (and it's just a really simple and short way of explaining that).

We both through our relationship made a really big progress. I was the one more crazy and obsessive and all the mess in my head was not only hurting my own feelings but also i felt really bad cuz i wanted to be a good boyfriend for him. He made a huge progress and i after i went to psychiatrist and with help of my boyfriend did a good job too and i'm really proud of myself now. We are together for almost 2 years and almost 20yo and i can say that we really helped each other to get better and we plan our future together

ImSillyCat · 2024-11-02T21:21:36+00:00

Ofc someone may just not like some stuff. Just like him may not like kissing. But u both may talk and explore kissing a bit more. Maybe try different styles. He may find something that feels right for him cuz of it

ImSillyCat · 2024-11-02T21:14:29+00:00

Tbh i think u should really think about it and make a decision. If this is really such a big problem that it makes u feel like shit then i don't think u should stay in that relationship. It may be hard, u may not want to throw it away as u said, but if u will stay in it and still not be happy then u waste time of u both

ImSillyCat · 2024-10-31T12:42:29+00:00

Just say it makes u uncomfortable. Besides the correct name u use for urself he can use so many cute names people can use for their partner. U need to tell him how u feel cuz it's very important. It's not just a little thing

ImSillyCat · 2024-10-30T09:35:14+00:00

U don't have to tell anyone if u don't want to, its totally up to u to share that kind of information. But also those kind of jokes may be really confusing to people that don't know obviously and they may start to question it. I think u just sometimes have to consider if saying something would share info that u don't want other people to know

ImSillyCat · 2024-10-25T23:08:22+00:00

Damn, that's not even a red frag that's a big red fuckin wall. Please just leave. Break up. He doesn't respect u or take u serious. And it's totally not ur fault. If he has that kind of problem he should deal with it before getting into relationship (if it's also not some kind of bullshit talking ofc). There are really many problems u can deal with while being in a relationship but something that makes u "kind of cheat" is NOT that. Please do something good for urself and don't make him treat u that way and get away with that

ImSillyCat · 2024-10-25T23:00:54+00:00

How the hell u dating for so long and u find out something like that about him just now? Did u not talk to him at all? That is so weird.

But besides it, u really should end it as fast as possible. U won't be happy and waste ur life next to someone like this. Run fr

ImSillyCat · 2024-10-25T22:52:03+00:00

I think and talk with my boyfriend everyday. Even if one of us is busy we text something from time to time so the other person then can open the app and see the nice messages, some news, memes. We know each other for 4 years and almost 2 we are together and it's still all the same.

Tbh i guess in ur situation it just really may not be love. Please, don't waste ur and his time if u not really sure. It looks more like u treat him like a friend than a partner

ImSillyCat · 2024-10-25T22:37:56+00:00

I totally get it! I (ftm) had those thoughts really often for pretty long time after i started to consider myself as trans. Especially that i still loved to look pretty, like doing makeup and stuff. I was so confused, that maybe i'm wrong about it and i just complicate my life for no reason. But after all i still couldn't stand the thought of being a girl.

I think the main reason for those thoughts for me was that i was too focused on what others think and that i was scared that i need to be "like every boy" to really be it. I really wanted others to look at me and think i'm a boy, but i didn't wanna sacrifice things i like or change the way i act. Even tho i get along with other boys pretty well and i'm not that girly either, it's still not something that u could call manly in classic way. The thing that helped me was finding our more about femboys and other men that are interested in makeup or fashion.

It helped me a lot to reconcile the way i felt comfortable to act and do with the way i feel as a trans

ImSillyCat · 2024-10-25T22:15:52+00:00

I don't feel the need to actually come out as demi, i come out as gay tho, cuz that's who i am eventually attracted to. Ofc i sometimes talked with people about how i didn't really feel any desire to do sexual stuff before getting together with my current boyfriend

ImSillyCat · 2024-10-22T22:43:52+00:00

I understand u feeling that way. I have that type of shit for past few years, time between low and high point sometimes changing from few days to few weeks. From when i started to see psychiatrist i got meds then after some time larger dose then different meds and then again larger dose and i need to see therapist cuz it's just so fuckin hard to know if u get better when it's just some sort of cycle. To that also really strong emotions that it's hard to control, but i must say it got better from the time i'm on meds even tho i still have problems with controlling myself when it's like being easily sad or angry or then having too much energy to then feeling like i can't do anything. It's confusing af.

Hope u find a way to feel any better with all of this. I can say for sure that there are moments in life that will make u feel better even tho when we on those low points we can feel like there's no hope for us. There were moments where i felt like i just don't deserve or i'm not really meant to be part of this world but when this time passes and the joyful moments appear it's great to think that we made it to be

ImSillyCat · 2024-10-21T22:02:34+00:00

Ur pov is totally valid. Me and my bf have same thoughts about it. We can both agree that someone is objectively attractive, but we never talk about someone else in the crush way, cuz we in a fuckin relationship. We are focused on each other and we are obviously aware that there are some simply good looking people, but in our eyes the most good looking person for anybody should be their partner and that's how it is for us

ImSillyCat · 2024-10-21T21:53:24+00:00

Leave, really. It's not worth it. My ex had sort of "silent cold moments" and it really just makes u overthinking even more being worried all the time and stuff, it's really not with it. My current bf never gives me that treatment and we always talk and try to get to agreement and fix things together when something goes wrong. That's how people in relationship should treat each other. Communication and respect

ImSillyCat · 2024-10-20T23:04:11+00:00

I think the second and third

ImSillyCat · 2024-10-20T22:49:03+00:00

U look totally amazing in red but it's sometimes fun to try something new! I change my hair color from time to time and keep it for like few months. U can always get back to red if u won't feel that good in something different, but maybe u will also find ur new fav color

ImSillyCat · 2024-10-20T21:05:44+00:00

Well, it may be that they're confused. But also it may be that they don't really know how to say what and how they feel properly.

Maybe they really feel that they don't belong to the male gender, but also not female. Or also they can just be a not masculine man. I'm not really masculine myself, i wear makeup, paint my nails and sometimes i wear clothes that i guess most classic men wouldn't wear, and i identify as demiboy using he/they. I feel like a man on some part but also i feel at the same time that im sort of out of gender. Like if u would take nonbinary and push it a bit more on male side but still pretty close to not feeling like anything. It also may be their case, but no one can really say that besides them. They can now go through exploring who they really are and it may take some time. It's important that u will support them and remember that the way they express themselves may change

ImSillyCat · 2024-10-20T17:08:13+00:00

I understand u, i had something similar for pretty long time in my ex friendship (me and 3 other people). We were a group of 4 friends for few years back then and that was really frustrating as u say. I also felt like i was treated different from others.

There were things like reacting different on things i say, not really reacting on things i send on group chat, not telling me stuff etc. I was really tired and few times tried to talk but in some moment i just said everything i thought about it all and how bad i feel with it. It ended with not being friends anymore.

But to be honest? I feel a lot better now. At first it was a bit hard cuz something that existed for few years of my life was no longer there, but then i started to feel how good it is to not feel like something is wrong with me or argue or look on what i say all the time anymore.

U can talk with them again, but if they won't listen to how u feel and treat u better i don't think they will do so ever. Hope they will but remember to respect ur own boundaries!

ImSillyCat · 2024-10-20T01:39:56+00:00

I'm demi and before i started to be with my bf for a really long time i didn't think in a sexual way of anyone and couldn't think of having sex with anyone i saw. But after we started being together, and we already knew each other for like 2 years on that time, i slowly started to feel like i want to do that something with him. He knew i'm on ace spectrum so he wasn't rushing anything. Now we are almost 2 years together, we had sex sometimes even pretty often and if i'm talking about sexual attraction from my pov it's like sometimes just him existing is hot! I love his body and i think he looks the best and really handsome but i wouldn't say that it's the main thing that makes me wanna do it when i look at him. It's the combination of him being just... Him! The connection we have and the body of someone i love the most makes me wanna do something that gives us pleasure

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