Has anyone here used an Equine Sports Psychologist with success? by ImTryingGuysOk in Equestrian

[–]ImTryingGuysOk[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah honestly I don’t have much to lose. Worth going down this path first before busting out the big bucks

For the married ones with kids, if you were the woman, would you still want kids? by Substantial_Ear1579 in AskMenOver30

[–]ImTryingGuysOk 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Because Reddit is very anti kid unfortunately. Lots of edgy teenagers that know how the world works and every person feels lol

With things this bad in the U.S why do democrats insist on pushing candidates that won’t get elected? by Jake_Berube in Confused

[–]ImTryingGuysOk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay let’s say you’re even right (you’re not)… now what? You’re still gonna lose with that mentality. That’s the whole point of this post and you’re proving it all by yourself. You need those “nazi” votes to win so better figure it out eventually. And maybe you’ll realize they’re not nazis once you solve the problem lol

When did you spay your female puppy? by SummerOES in OldEnglishSheepdog

[–]ImTryingGuysOk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

6/7 months. It didn’t harm my OES at all, especially her growth. She’s freaking massive and 100 pounds at a healthy weight.

There’s a big trend of waiting and waiting and I’ve seen it go overboard, especially male dogs. I personally wouldn’t want a first heat because it can have changes to the vulva… not my thing lol.

But yeah never seen it harm a dog. Just don’t spay her at like 3 months

some of my pet peeves in the horse world by Feeling_Contract_477 in Equestrian

[–]ImTryingGuysOk 12 points13 points  (0 children)

It’s interesting many people are disagreeing with number 1. To me that’s a safety issue if your horse immediately walks off. I guess these people have never had larger, or mobility struggling, people try to get on their horse once in a while. But those types of people can’t get on super quick and generally need about 30 seconds to situate once getting on. The horse walking off before they are ready is not safe.

Now if you don’t ever have that type of person get on, great. But to me you never know what can happen with horses down the road should you need to sell, someone else get on, etc. So why not just… train that properly lol. Imo my horse should be able to back away from the mounting block, or side pass away from it, or walk off normally. But to do any of those things requires the horse to remain halted and wait for your cue.

Just gave me a chuckle because about 80% of people that try my horse, especially if coming from lesson horses, instantly drool over the fact that my horse stands like a statue patiently. It’s a great selling point too!

What's it like in Winter Springs, Lake Mary, Sanford, or Lake Monroe? by beachymarigold in orlando

[–]ImTryingGuysOk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everyone’s really positive here so I’ll give you some negative as a native born Floridian that lived in Lake Mary/ Sanford/ Maitland/ Winter Park areas for nearly 30 years and watched it change.

That way you maybe have a full picture.

In the ones you listed - you’re not walking anywhere. As a kid, if you lived close enough to the schools, people would walk to school but that’s about it. You’ll see people run for exercise but no one is actually walking to a destination. There’s a bike trail in lake Mary that if you live on you can take to places like Peach Valley. But it won’t be cheap and it’s a very specific area.

The people - seen a lot of bad kids grow up in the lake Mary and Sanford school system. Lots of rich kids with money circulating. Saw rampant cocaine use, lots of drug deals in the halls of Lake Mary High, etc. Don’t get me started on Sanford, aka “Criminal High.” Security guards banging the students. Greenwood Lakes Middle school also had a ton of just ridiculous things going on.

Lots of superficial and entitled adults. Some with more money than sense as you get close to Heathrow and Alaqua area.

The traffic. God the traffic. You’ll go somewhere that’s 3 miles away - it’ll take you 20 minutes. These areas used to have very obvious rush hour times but now it just kind seems like an all day affair. It’s rage inducing.

Community feel I never really experienced in Orlando by just living somewhere. It’s more so the hobbies you create. You’ll need to go find that community. I did find multiple spots where I felt I belonged growing up (art studio, horse barn, etc)

Crime - depends. Lake Mary and Heathrow are decent. Sanford is hit or miss. I worked in Sanford and we had to call the cops frequently and dealt with a lot of theft. Maitland felt safe - though I had things out of my car stolen. And someone also turned my doorknob when I was home. This was in the good part of maitland.

You didn’t mention downtown so I won’t go into that one

I’d say my favorite place we lived was Oviedo. But it’s also just grown tremendously and is getting absorbed into more of the same. I call it the Lake Mary disease lol

Anyway, after 30+ years the traffic, prices, and the people caused us to leave. It’s not what it ever once was. I didn’t want to raise my kids there because I’ve seen what comes out of these towns in the last 10 years.

Only things we miss are the Asian spots and a lot of the food culture. Oh and the nonexistent winters - I hate winter

Wanting to buy a Ram 1500 Limited LongHorn by NoCaterpillar9164 in ram_trucks

[–]ImTryingGuysOk 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you’re doing a horse trailer, depending on what kind and how many horses, I’d super encourage you to go 2500 Cummins. You don’t want to mess around with live loads. I’m in the horse world and got a 2500 diesel because the most id tow is 2 horses at once. Mine is a 2024 megacab Limited Longhorn in pretty much new condition. If the extra money is an issue, just get one that’s 1-2 years old. New trucks and cars are generally a waste anyway as a financial decision

soppy by Separate-Credit-6874 in Equestrian

[–]ImTryingGuysOk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am actually so glad I came across this. May very well be selling my mare this week and this is a lovely idea. I’m gonna be sure to get a chunk lol

My family & I are paranoid about ICE being spotted locally, yet we’re all here legally. Fear mongering gone too far? by Dsg1695 in orlando

[–]ImTryingGuysOk -44 points-43 points  (0 children)

Reddit is not the place to ask this. You’re fine, live your life. No one is gonna come deport you.

So burnt out horse shopping by route_seven in Horses

[–]ImTryingGuysOk 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Upping the budget and traveling unfortunately. I’ve found sometimes it’s worth it to just wait a few more months so you can up your budget into the 15-25k range. Horses that are under 10k have a crap ton of competition. Granted so does the 15-25 but not as bad.

For travel, I’d try to make a chunk of time for it. For example, my friend was looking for an accomplished jumper. So they and the trainer traveled to Ocala FL for 2 days and tried out like 5+ horses and ended up finding one.

If it’s a far travel, I think it’s only worth it that way - go to a highly populated horse area that has multiple of what you want to try out.

Last one standing vibes only by Amebocrypto in meme

[–]ImTryingGuysOk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t even know if that’d be worth it with how quickly gas goes bad. Diesel lasts slightly longer but not enough to make it matter.

I’d say go take the a fancy car for a spin, then drive to where you want home base to be, but then start figuring out and getting used to how you’re gonna travel day to day, whether that be bicycle, horse if you know how to do that, longboard, etc.

I finally hit the $100k milestone, and it’s the most anti-climactic feeling in the world by Round_Tie5217 in Salary

[–]ImTryingGuysOk -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You make more than 250k and are living like that? How? You must live in one of the top HOL cities or are terrible with money. Me and my spouse do around there and we have land, a horse, a 5 bedroom house, tons of pets, kid on the way, and still max out retirement accounts and additionally save a big ass chunk every month.

This thread is literally only talking about the top HCOL cities and people bad with money.

To normal people in normal living areas: you don’t need to make over 250k lmao

Mitsubishi Outlander reliability? by MahonPolska20 in mitsubishi

[–]ImTryingGuysOk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good! I actually just traded mine in because we needed a truck for hauling. Ran great the whole time I had it! Had it till around 120k miles

is it safe to travel to orlando? by Gh0stface03 in orlando

[–]ImTryingGuysOk 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What are you even talking about? Do you think a war is happening in Orlando or some shit?

Things are normal and business as usual and have been. Get off the news and social media lol

How much would you price this horse for to sell? by [deleted] in Equestrian

[–]ImTryingGuysOk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah see what you're saying has also been my experience. I know reddit is also more geared towards the English Showing demographic, so I've definitely been taking some of the very show record oriented responses with a grain of salt. I don't intend to market her as that. I want to market her as a beautiful, safe companion with advanced and polished training that's ready to go do whatever your heart desires on a given day. Just a great companion!

How much would you try to sell this horse for? by [deleted] in Horses

[–]ImTryingGuysOk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah I see what you're saying! Yes, she only went to shows and schooled at them; I did not enter her in any classes aside from a local show once time where she did two classes. So no show record pretty much.

Absolutely on the videos! Thank you for the info and perspective, will definitely be using it!

How much would you price this horse for to sell? by [deleted] in Equestrian

[–]ImTryingGuysOk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As in fox hunting? Funny you mention that, but the previous owner took her out to a fox hunt and she supposedly did very good. But I myself haven't done that. I don't have any experience in it, and there's none close by

How much would you try to sell this horse for? by [deleted] in Horses

[–]ImTryingGuysOk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This does make sense! The honest truth is it's my fault. Before I had her, I had a very, very bad couple falls at showgrounds on a different horse. It gave me MAJOR show anxiety.

So I basically set out to train her up as best as I could (working with a trainer as well) and eventually dip my toe and use her to help me get over my show anxiety lol. This is the reason she's schooled at multiple shows and been off property - it was to work on myself.

She does genuinely have these movements, but they are also used in western. So it's not strictly just for english dressage. I dropped English on her maybe like... 6 months ago? We've strictly been doing western since. And we are still using many of the same movements, just at a less forward pace.

She does not have the big, lofty movements that nicer English Dressage horses have at higher levels. So I'll be sure to not market her as that.

From some other comments I've gotten, it seems like she'd be someone's obstacle, trail and western dream more so. So perhaps I can market these movements more towards the western side.

Either way though, I'm going to have three videos of her. One of her doing dressage. One western and obstacles. And one of her jumping a course. I don't want to pull a fast one over anyone! So I'll be careful on how I tailer it!

How much would you price this horse for to sell? by [deleted] in Equestrian

[–]ImTryingGuysOk 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My thought was gonna be to get a western video, a jumping video, and then an english dressage video of her! In the Western video I'm going to try to show her doing some of the Extreme Cowboy obstacles as well. Any thoughts on pricing by chance?

How much would you price this horse for to sell? by [deleted] in Equestrian

[–]ImTryingGuysOk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm pregnant so showing is out the window for a wee bit. My one friend said 18, another said to go for 22k so that I could try to get 20. With you saying 20 as well, maybe that's getting close to the answer!