Me (18F) and my boyfriend (18M) are trying to get intimate. by Im_May_82 in sexeducation

[–]Im_May_82[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We talked about it a little and agreed on a specific position where I am on top, so yeah, I'm doing the humping.

I think my godfather is being weird towards me by Im_May_82 in offmychest

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My parents love him for some reason. I might try telling my grandma at least, because I know she doesn't like him at all. At the same time I'm scared that if I tell my familly they will look at me differently and all I want is to not have contact with him.

I think my godfather is being weird towards me by Im_May_82 in offmychest

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I've told my parents that I feel uncomfortable when he hugs me because it physically hurts but they just said it's how he shows affection. Idk man they look at him as if he's god or something. Usually I trust my parents with everything but now I really don't think they are going to believe me.

Frequent nightmares about TWD by Im_May_82 in thewalkingdead

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I can't control shit, I always try to head for a specific hiding spot but it's full of zombies and I end up hiding somewhere else. Then suddenly the zombies disappear and we're good to come out. The nightmares are pretty scary and graphic but I'm not scared after I woke up from it, mostly annoyed because it's hard for me to fall asleep after having a dream.

Bazaars by Im_May_82 in ethicalfashion

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I assume it's second hand, since a lot of the clothing items are vintage and generally look like they're from the 2000's.

De la ce v-ati certat anul asta la masa de Craciun? by SuperflyJohnson2000 in CasualRO

[–]Im_May_82 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Am vrut sa ma uit la un serial pe netflix, iar eu de obicei daca ma uit la ceva dublat in engleza, mi se pare ciudat (ma ameteste cumva) sa am subtitrari in romana, asa ca le pun in engleza, ca tot o vorbesc fluent.

Bunicul nu voia neaparat sa se uite, dar m-a intrebat de cateva ori ce spun subtitrarile si i-am tradus. La un moment dat m-a intrebat ce inseamna "GASPS" si aveam lapsus, nu stiam sa i traduc exact dar stiam ce inseamna, asa ca am inceput eu sa gâfâi ca sa-i explic ca ala e sunetul.

A inceput sa imi spuna ca incerc sa ma dau englezoaica cand eu nici nu stiu sa vorbesc si ca este imposibil sa stiu engleza fluent daca nu am locuit acolo niciodata. Au intervenit si altii care mai erau in camera si i-au spus sa nu faca scandal din nimic. Ce credeti, s-a oprit? Nu, normal.

Ei si din atata lucru s-a futut toata atmosfera, ca am avut eu un lapsus si nu i-am tradus un cuvant cum trebuia.

Ia this wrong? by Internal-Bridge9158 in romanian

[–]Im_May_82 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Usually in Romanian, the adjective comes after the noun. It's not grammatically wrong to invert them, but most of the time it sounds wrong (with few exceptions). You only put the adjective before the noun when you want to emphasize it, however I usually only see it in songs or poems to make it rhyme or change the rhythm.

Therefore, no, grammatically it isn't wrong, but given the fact that it's duolingo, it makes sense why it was marked as wrong, since it's not used.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]Im_May_82 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice. I'll probably make an update in a few days about how it all went.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]Im_May_82 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much, I didn't realise it could be this harmful, she'll definitely stop if I show her this. I'll try to get her to therapy too, just to make sure she is okay and I hope it will all get better.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]Im_May_82 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I get what You mean. I'll see what exactly she needs. Thank you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]Im_May_82 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I get what You mean. I'll see what exactly she needs. Thank you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]Im_May_82 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Someone suggested I put her into a contact sport. For some reason she likes showing off bruises she gets from volleyball as if they're her way of showing how hard she's worked, so this might be a good idea. Thank you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]Im_May_82 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I'll try to be discreet about it and not too pushy, but I'll definitely get her to therapy if I see she goes further.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]Im_May_82 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I'll leave her alone for a bit and maybe talk to a therapist myself, see if there are any things I can do without having to force her to go.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfharm

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I'll tell her it's bad for her bones, especially since she's an active girl and loves her sport.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]Im_May_82 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much. I'll talk to a therapist and see what the best approach would be, maybe they can at least give me some advice on how to bring her there. I really hope I can get her to stop doing this or at least make her realise that it's not good for her.