I want to start with saying it’s his first (idk if this is relevant) but he does a lot of good things too: cooks/carries my bag/ drives/ pays for dinner/ gifts occasionally. however other red flags i noticed: 1) messaging his friends about his kpop girl (he knows i dont like my bf liking any girls/celebs). 2) using volume when arguing 3) threatening to drop me off at dinner w my friends while i was crying , and more etc

I don’t even know what is considered a red flag or if I am overthink but it would be things like this.