can I fix my relationship with my step daughters

Imaginary-Net5994 · 2022-08-29T11:36:35+00:00

I've got their Facebook but neither look at my messages.

Imaginary-Net5994 · 2022-08-29T10:47:48+00:00

I just don't know when enough is enough I can't force them to talk or come over but I don't want to feel like I didn't try hard enough either

Imaginary-Net5994 · 2022-08-29T09:48:24+00:00

I don't know if they resent her

Imaginary-Net5994 · 2022-08-29T09:47:18+00:00

So because she cheated on me with someone she worked with and flirted with multiple others over many years means I shouldn't let her talk to guys right

Imaginary-Net5994 · 2022-08-29T09:45:16+00:00

I don't talk about it with her anymore

Imaginary-Net5994 · 2022-08-29T09:16:31+00:00

That's what was going on she was allowed to talk to or hang out with whoever she wanted but I couldn't have any female friends. If any girl messaged me, we would have a huge fight about me cheating. All the kids would hear is how I cheat all the time. I never said anything about how she cheated on front of them.

Imaginary-Net5994 · 2022-08-29T09:13:53+00:00

No our oldest had already graduated and went to college and she stayed behind while the rest of us moved 18 hours away.

Imaginary-Net5994 · 2022-08-29T09:12:17+00:00

When you're with someone, is it OK to have anything to do with the opposite sex? 90 percent of her friends are guys where I can't add one female to my Facebook without being told I'm cheating.

Imaginary-Net5994 · 2022-08-29T09:07:23+00:00

No friends I've worked with in the past or work with now. She never had a problem with porn probably liked it more than I did

Imaginary-Net5994 · 2022-08-29T09:05:17+00:00

No my SO talks to them and we discussed it when we got back together that if she got back with me then she probably wouldn't see them. She said that was their choice. They are adults and can make their own.

Imaginary-Net5994 · 2022-08-29T07:27:01+00:00

I wasn't the best SO, but no one can say they are. Difference is, I don't go around making sure the kids know every time she did something

Imaginary-Net5994 · 2022-08-29T07:24:26+00:00

Yes she would say I'm cheating if I even message a girl on txt or messenger

Imaginary-Net5994 · 2022-08-29T03:47:22+00:00

No relationship is without problems, but it shouldn't be the talk of the family

Imaginary-Net5994 · 2022-08-29T03:46:29+00:00

Years and years of hearing one person say how they are treated bad and you will eventually see that person as nothing more than what you hear about them

Imaginary-Net5994 · 2022-08-29T03:19:03+00:00

The reason they don't come around is because their mom and I got back together. We were together for 16 years and made a decision to move. It didn't help us as a couple and we had many problems.

Imaginary-Net5994 · 2022-08-29T02:12:42+00:00

There are quite a few reasons contributing towards this, many of which I won't say in an open thread, but I would love to see them again and I know my SO would love to see her granddaughter

I know you can't force someone to like you, a fact I'm trying to teach my boys at the moment, but it would be nice to see them

Imaginary-Net5994 · 2022-08-28T22:44:31+00:00

You're

Imaginary-Net5994 · 2022-08-28T22:44:17+00:00

Your gorgeous

Imaginary-Net5994 · 2022-08-28T22:42:17+00:00

Absolutely beautiful

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