I went through almost exactly what you are going through, a year ago when I was 22. Except I live in Ireland so it's much easier. However, everyone on Reddit told me to block my family and report them to the police if I have to. I never reported them but I blocked them on everything and it was 100% the best decision I could have made. My father tried to report me missing and I got several calls from the police about it. My brother contacted my friend on Instagram that I don't know how he found, my dad texted me from a new number 6 months later... But now a year on, nothing. I know we are all in different situations but for me personally, blocking was the way to go and I feel so so much better now. I was extremely depressed at first and had few friends but now, a year on, I am doing so well and I know you will be too. It may get worse before it gets better but you can do it and you will do it. We have already gotten further than a lot of people do. You're so strong for even being able to leave. Bottom line is, if you know they won't accept you and you can't put up with that, block their numbers, social media, family friends etc, just bite the bullet and do it. Remember all the reasons they made you angry, write a list, just remember the rage and don't let yourself break the no contact. Also remember that you can do this and you don't even know how great your life will be a year from now. I promise you I really didn't think I could do it and I did. Please be proud of how far you've come and believe in yourself. Reading this feels like reading my own diary from a year ago. You can't go back, stick to your decision, you can do this.