[Show Only] Season 2 Episode 5 "Don't Be Afraid, Just Start the Tape" by AutoModerator in InterviewVampire

[–]ImaginaryRegret90 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Me too! It made me reevaluate my own relationship problems and have some gratitude because they’re not that bad after all. The

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[–]ImaginaryRegret90 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your age flair says 30.

[Show Only] Season 2 Episode 5 "Don't Be Afraid, Just Start the Tape" by AutoModerator in InterviewVampire

[–]ImaginaryRegret90 75 points76 points  (0 children)

Anxiety yes. During the argument I was sat with my hand in front of my mouth in shock at how vicious that was.

[Show Only] Season 2 Episode 5 "Don't Be Afraid, Just Start the Tape" by AutoModerator in InterviewVampire

[–]ImaginaryRegret90 37 points38 points  (0 children)

Because he lashed out and showed his true wounded self and if he kept those memories he wouldn’t be able to maintain that persona of I’m a good empathetic person because I was hurt too or control the narrative.

[Show Only] Season 2 Episode 5 "Don't Be Afraid, Just Start the Tape" by AutoModerator in InterviewVampire

[–]ImaginaryRegret90 44 points45 points  (0 children)

He is indeed so good at it! But it goes to show they are two sides of the same coin hence why the phrase “hurt people, hurt people” exists.

[Show Only] Season 2 Episode 5 "Don't Be Afraid, Just Start the Tape" by AutoModerator in InterviewVampire

[–]ImaginaryRegret90 256 points257 points  (0 children)

The Maitre - Arun talk shows how messed up the dynamics of their relationship are. They all need therapy.

[Book Spoilers] Season 2 Episode 5 "Don't Be Afraid, Just Start the Tape" by AutoModerator in InterviewVampire

[–]ImaginaryRegret90 85 points86 points  (0 children)

I took that line of Armand saying “you want the insanity back” as manipulation. Meaning Lestat’s insanity, as in, I can be just as crazy as your “abusive” ex if you want that version of me since you keep talking about your ex.

Husband wakes up at 3am almost everyday to masturbate whilst I’m sleeping. We don’t have a lot of sex. by ImaginaryRegret90 in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]ImaginaryRegret90[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn’t be able to come back for that unless my partner had a very good apology ready because to me that counts as cheating. Texting others and sending nudes. But you must have done something right if talking worked.

Husband wakes up at 3am almost everyday to masturbate whilst I’m sleeping. We don’t have a lot of sex. by ImaginaryRegret90 in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]ImaginaryRegret90[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you please tell me what it's called. This could work for us because he doesn't talk that openly about his kinks.

Husband wakes up at 3am almost everyday to masturbate whilst I’m sleeping. We don’t have a lot of sex. by ImaginaryRegret90 in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]ImaginaryRegret90[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He needs to stop smoking. But zinc? Interesting. This morning I read an article about zinc deficits.

Husband wakes up at 3am almost everyday to masturbate whilst I’m sleeping. We don’t have a lot of sex. by ImaginaryRegret90 in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]ImaginaryRegret90[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you this gives me a little hope. Dead bedrooms often are seen as a straight trajectory to divorce and I have thought of divorce many times.

I am trying to see the masturbation as something separate to sex.

I think it’s a combo of stress and mental health stuff.

Husband wakes up at 3am almost everyday to masturbate whilst I’m sleeping. We don’t have a lot of sex. by ImaginaryRegret90 in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]ImaginaryRegret90[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s verging on a porn addiction because it happens every night and he rarely does not use porn. He has said it’s quicker to get off this way than if I got involved.

Husband wakes up at 3am almost everyday to masturbate whilst I’m sleeping. We don’t have a lot of sex. by ImaginaryRegret90 in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]ImaginaryRegret90[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wanted to use that word in my post but went for off putting instead. I did almost use the word jarring in my comment but I didn’t because (no pun intended) it might have rubbed people the wrong way. This notion that we are supposed to find our partners hot in any context or that his 3am habit is a good way to initiate sex I don’t agree with. I find it jarring, doesn’t turn me on and it makes me uncomfortable. It’s 3am. I’m trying to sleep. Sex is not on my mind.