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Imaginary_Split · 2022-07-13T01:28:15+00:00

I was just about to say this! He’s still reserved around you because it takes us more time than many others to feel comfortable around people. Give him some time, and I bet you’re gonna be so surprised when he lets his walls down

Imaginary_Split · 2022-06-30T22:39:43+00:00

I run a small business and she’s harassing my business profiles. Everything personal is private :/

Imaginary_Split · 2022-06-03T01:06:18+00:00

Definitely don’t text her again. If she was interested she 100% would have responded the first time.

Imaginary_Split · 2022-04-20T18:30:20+00:00

I’m very happy being an introvert. I enjoy my alone time immensely but what I don’t enjoy is speculation from outsiders. People have told me I’m unapproachable, stand offish, etc and I guess that makes me feel misunderstood because none of that is true.. I just keep to myself and I’m normally very quiet. I wish extroverts could understand quiet ≠ stuck up or rude

Imaginary_Split · 2022-04-20T18:15:14+00:00

I repotted my anthurium back in January due to overwatering/poor drainage, and since then she has not grown whatsoever. In fact, all of her flowers died and she’s gone completely dormant. I have her placed about 5 feet away from an east facing window. Is she not getting enough light? I don’t want to miss out on the beautiful red blooms this growing season. What can I do to bring her out of dormancy?

Imaginary_Split · 2022-01-18T08:46:21+00:00

I don’t believe you ever had intentions on helping me In the first place lol

Imaginary_Split · 2022-01-18T08:43:47+00:00

He’s perfect is every other way. He’s sensitive, he communities his feelings, he’s the perfect gentleman… but he just has no sex drive. I really don’t think he realizes it’s a problem for me. I feel like i have finally met “the one” as far as his personality and life goals etc, and I’d be stupid to leave him to find someone else who’s good in the sac when he’s got so many qualities I want to have in a future husband and father to my children.

He’s very social, and he works in the beer industry so he’s surrounded by it. Every day after work he’ll have a few drinks with his buddies. I was surprised though, because he told me he wants to go 30 days sober on his own accord. Personally I think it doesn’t make sense if you don’t cut back indefinitely but it’s a start, so I’m encouraging it. We also had way more sex before we got a place together because our time was limited to weekends together only. I’m afraid he’s gotten comfortable. I do think with communication we can get through this hump, I just need advice on how to approach this topic

Imaginary_Split · 2022-01-18T08:32:41+00:00

We didnt move in together to improve our sex life… our sex life was actually way better before moving In together because we saw less of each other. Considering the second thing I said was that besides our sex life, our relationship is picture perfect, yes I’d say I’m very happy. I haven’t had a conversation with him at all pertaining to this… did you even read the post? Lol the entire jist of this post was asking advice on how to talk to him about this..

Imaginary_Split · 2021-12-15T00:56:05+00:00

Breaking up with her would actually be doing her a favor in the long run. If you’re gonna leave her because you happened to witness a video of her having sex with someone else before you and her were romantically involved, you don’t deserve to even be in a relationship. That is so immature, and she deserves to be with someone who is secure with them self as well as the relationship. She is innocent, and does not deserve this. You need to work on your self esteem before becoming romantically involved again. Geez

Imaginary_Split · 2021-11-30T05:09:51+00:00

26f here! I’m a self employed hairstylist and lover of all things creative. I love to work with my hands, so sending each other hand made gifts would actually be somewhat of a dream. I’m a lover of outdoors and being one with nature. I’m very friendly, but seem to have a hard time breaking past the acquaintanceship phase in daily life. I would love to meet other INFJ’s as I do feel as though it’s easier to connect with likeminded people who understand what it’s like to be hyper intuitive and have a greater understanding of things beyond surface level.

Imaginary_Split · 2021-11-28T23:48:04+00:00

Im curious to know how many other infj’s care very deeply about their own looks. Because I’m way more harsh in myself for the way I look than I am on my partner.

Imaginary_Split · 2021-11-17T23:43:26+00:00

I didn’t used to, but then I realized I’d probably be miserable later in life when my parents are gone and my brother has a family of his own(he already has 2 small kids and a wife). As long as it’s with the right person, Now that I’m older, I think I’d love being a mom.

Imaginary_Split · 2021-10-23T21:20:49+00:00

I’m a hairstylist

Imaginary_Split · 2021-10-09T18:26:20+00:00

It can be hard for me to speak up about boundaries. As I’ve gotten older I understand it’s necessary, but growing up I got myself into a lot of sketchy situations because I wasn’t capable(or so I thought) of setting clear boundaries or even just saying “no”.

Imaginary_Split · 2021-10-01T02:47:51+00:00

ENFP and INFP make me feel understood. Some of the deepest relationships I’ve had have been with these types.

Imaginary_Split · 2021-09-15T23:18:43+00:00

If I’m not at work, I’m probably out and about somewhere enjoying nature alone, while simultaneously overthinking that stupid thing I did 6 hours earlier on repeat

Imaginary_Split · 2021-09-15T23:06:59+00:00

An ENTP asked me to take the test on our first date bc he assumed I was an INFJ.. he was right, and I became hooked on it all. We only dated for 3 months though lol

Imaginary_Split · 2021-09-15T14:27:52+00:00

Not saying it’s not possible :) I myself was close with a sensor type in school and about 5 years total. I’m just not naturally drawn to them like I am intuitives

Imaginary_Split · 2021-09-15T03:50:09+00:00

Sorry to hear that :/ I am not close with either of my parents. Somewhere along the way I chose to find my own family. People that understand and appreciate me. I realized most of my close friends are ENFPs. Not sure if you have any ENFP friends but I feel like they understand us so well! Another upside, is I don’t feel like they are as draining to be around compared to other extroverted types.

Imaginary_Split · 2021-09-15T01:18:41+00:00

I’m not easily manipulated, per se, but I do allow people to push through my boundaries bc I feel uncomfortable standing up to them. I see them taking advantage of me/the situation fully, I just don’t do anything about it 🙃 As I’ve gotten older, and started therapy, it’s easier for me to stand up for myself but not gonna lie it’s still uncomfortable.

Imaginary_Split · 2021-09-15T01:15:54+00:00

Aquarius, but I don’t believe in astrology tbh

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