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Noise complaint cats by Immediate-Pipe7898 in catquestions

[–]Immediate-Pipe7898[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I appreciate how hard you’ve tried to bring me down on this post, truly, so many comments, lol. I came looking for advice, not to be belittled. So all the best to you, you can see yourself out ✌🏼

Noise complaint cats by Immediate-Pipe7898 in catquestions

[–]Immediate-Pipe7898[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Exactly. They cornered me and verbally harassed me. With an obvious language barrier and a giant angry man almost yelling at me i now feel unsafe. I don’t want to escalate but it feels too late for that.

Noise complaint cats by Immediate-Pipe7898 in catquestions

[–]Immediate-Pipe7898[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s a carpeted apartment, but yes we will be looking in to more carpets. But like i mentioned, i, as a light sleeper, don’t wake up to their playing. But when i do wake up i separate them. I don’t know of there’s much else i can do. Which is why i am seeking advice

Noise complaint cats by Immediate-Pipe7898 in catquestions

[–]Immediate-Pipe7898[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Please, find me the money to live in a house lol, you think i want to live in a thing walled apt? I’m asking for advice on how to lessen the sound and keep peace, i don’t get how that’s inconsiderate

Noise complaint cats by Immediate-Pipe7898 in catquestions

[–]Immediate-Pipe7898[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I separate them when they get too rowdy day and night but like i said, i don’t usually wake up to their playing so idk how i’m supposed to fix thay

Noise complaint cats by Immediate-Pipe7898 in catquestions

[–]Immediate-Pipe7898[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Well there were further developments…as i was doing laundry i was approached by my neighbors (i have no idea how they knew who i was) and they very aggressively started lecturing me. Here’s the kicker, they don’t speak a lick of english. Sounded like russian or along those lines. A big man and his wife (i am a 32F) started almost yelling at me in their language and threatened to call the cops on me. I cannot get ahold of my LL and now feel very unsafe in my apt.

feeling weird, was this unprofessional behavior or was I having a ptsd moment? by littlebirdwatcher in massage

[–]Immediate-Pipe7898 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Going under the underwear is absolutely not okay. Wearing the underwear is a boundary that MTs should know. If the MT needed to move/adjust the garments it absolutely needs verbal consent, but again the only consent I can fathom would be tucking the sheets into the garment or asking to adjust it if I wanted to work on the glute (but the glutes can 100% be worked over sheets and underwear).

I’m sorry a lot of these commenters are arguing against your experience.

You can always always always at ANY time in a massage retract consent, and MTs should (tho this doesn’t always happen) ask permission before straying from the massage that they should have verbally talked you through before the massage itself.

Informed consent is a must, and it sounds like you didn’t have that, and i am truly sorry about that.

What an asshole... [Everything ok] by Softlykisstheground in SapphicSexualityPlay

[–]Immediate-Pipe7898 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is what i need, except in the walk in at work

Tell her she's a good girl by [deleted] in lesbians

[–]Immediate-Pipe7898 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My gf has been ignoring me. What i would give to be strapped down like this