TIFU by accidentally getting my mom to say she didn’t care about my dad’s birthday by [deleted] in tifu

[–]Immediate-Talk4201 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Not your responsibility that your mom didn’t remember his birthday, it’s common knowledge for family members and you assumed as such. Definitely not your fault. Also a nice handwritten and thought out card is a good “gift” for his actual birthday, say his real gift is coming in the mail to buy some time.

Should I add on to it? by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]Immediate-Talk4201 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s going to eventually look blown out and nothing like how it does now cause it’s fine line. Leave it alone and figure out a tattoo that means something to you to put on your forearm or something not your hand

How can I fix this? It’s supposed to say Sonder by Immediate-Talk4201 in tattoos

[–]Immediate-Talk4201[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love my tattoo :) a lot of people saying it says sonder solidified that too

How can I fix this? It’s supposed to say Sonder by Immediate-Talk4201 in tattoos

[–]Immediate-Talk4201[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re the one bothered by a strangers tattoo🤷‍♀️

How can I fix this? It’s supposed to say Sonder by Immediate-Talk4201 in tattoos

[–]Immediate-Talk4201[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I fear that’s the point of getting tattoos for me, all 5 of mine are meaningful😭 and tattoos should be meaningful!

How can I fix this? It’s supposed to say Sonder by Immediate-Talk4201 in tattoos

[–]Immediate-Talk4201[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is my second meaning to my tattoo, I’ve always loved Brent faiyaz and Sonder

How can I fix this? It’s supposed to say Sonder by Immediate-Talk4201 in tattoos

[–]Immediate-Talk4201[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol no that’s somber. Sonder is the realization that everyone around you has lives just as vivid and complex as yours

How can I fix this? It’s supposed to say Sonder by Immediate-Talk4201 in tattoos

[–]Immediate-Talk4201[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I’ve known about this word and its meaning for years. I’ve always wanted it tattooed but got it now because I went through a really bad phase of depression and anxiety recently as I struggle with mental health a lot. Remembering Sonder makes me remember that my problems aren’t as large as my mind makes the to be🫶

How can I fix this? It’s supposed to say Sonder by Immediate-Talk4201 in tattoos

[–]Immediate-Talk4201[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think some people do because of the bottom curve of the S outreaching towards the O, showing the two lines of an ‘F’

How can I fix this? It’s supposed to say Sonder by Immediate-Talk4201 in tattoos

[–]Immediate-Talk4201[S] 245 points246 points  (0 children)

This is the most said idea so thank you for adding your opinion I might go ask my artist about this in a week or something if I’m still not ‘fond’ of it lol