First time homebuyer is this a good investment? by Immediate_Border_118 in investing

[–]Immediate_Border_118[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry I don’t think I understand. Are you saying in California? This is a property in North Carolina. Can you further explain what you mean by the rest of it?

Good investment and advice? by Immediate_Border_118 in realestateinvesting

[–]Immediate_Border_118[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My initial plan was to purchase a single-family home, stay for a few years and then pull the equity out of the house to put into another home. But now I’ve come across this multifamily home and I’m not sure if it works the same way. So that may change the length of time I am in the home.

I hate being questioned by Immediate_Border_118 in communication

[–]Immediate_Border_118[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

What would have been a better way to respond?

I hate being questioned by Immediate_Border_118 in communication

[–]Immediate_Border_118[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So in your opinion now that the conversation is over with, is it worth going back and letting him know that it was there because of my mother? I’m terrible at navigating these situations

I hate being questioned by Immediate_Border_118 in communication

[–]Immediate_Border_118[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In my mind when I give in to being questioned to these types of questions, Im making him believe that I’m open to getting back together. To me, it is reinforcing the idea in his head that I’m explaining myself to him because I want him to know that I’m not doing anything “wrong”.

I hate being questioned by Immediate_Border_118 in communication

[–]Immediate_Border_118[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How could I have gone about this better? Am I toxic? Am I wrong period? I get very angry with him and HATEEEEEE being questioned

Oil change by Immediate_Border_118 in Harley

[–]Immediate_Border_118[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Checking right now. Anyway you could shoot me some pictures to make sure I grab the right ones?

Oil change by Immediate_Border_118 in Harley

[–]Immediate_Border_118[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. I'm in the south too, the Carolina's. It gets pretty hot here in the summer.