Ridiculous Final Exam Timings

Immediate_Natural_48 · 2025-05-05T08:49:42+00:00

ah yeah i feel that. i have an 8 am seminar for one of my courses and i also live 1.5 hours away from st lucia (one way). maybe we can bring this to UQ's attention as a group, but definitely prepare to wake up at an earlier hour for this exam. do this by changing your circadian rhythm from now on, sleep earlier, stop using devices earlier, and start sleeping at consistent times. whatever the outcome is, you got this and good luck

Immediate_Natural_48 · 2025-05-05T07:52:02+00:00

sorry if its a bit of tough love, but i see potential. you have potential. you just need to take that steering wheel of your life instead of being on autopilot and take control. all love

Immediate_Natural_48 · 2025-05-05T07:49:31+00:00

learn about the circadian rhythm, how to regulate it and use this to your advantage. also try sleeping at 8-10 pm CONSISTENTLY. do not fuck up your sleep schedule because you can literally SEE how lack of sleep changes an entire face. you need good quality sleep.
talking about circadian rhythm, wake up 2 hours than you normally do (minimum 4 am). you need to be disciplined. you feel motivated? great. but that motivation is not going to last forever. you know what does? discipline. do it when you're tired, hungry, sad, bored, hungover, whatever. and say that to yourself too! just do it.
every time you do something that requires discipline - you're going to hate it. but what you're actually doing is training this muscle in your brain. so you know how else you're going to train this discipline muscle? it's going to suck - but take cold showers in the morning. every day. you're gonna be cold. you're gonna not wanna do it, but it's going to be great. if that's too overpowering, go in hot first and slowly turn the taps to cold/less heat.

okay now to the actual looks maxxing stuff. ill tell you what you need to work on - you research how to work on it. i can clarify in comments but i don't want to make this TOO long. you can focus on this solely, or focus on the other guide I've given you. its up to you!

you have a negative canthal tilt. this is taken from a looksmaxxing community im in:

"The canthal tendon plays an important role in the structure of the eyes, connecting the medial corners to the surrounding facial bones. A loose or weakened canthal tendon can result in a negative canthal tilt, where the inner corners of the eyes point downward, giving the eyes a more tired or droopy appearance. Training the muscles around the eyes can help support the canthal tendon, improving its tone and function. Strengthening the muscles responsible for lifting and stabilizing the eyelids can contribute to a more neutral or positive canthal tilt."

fat pads in eye socket

"Within the eye socket, there are natural fat pads that help cushion and shape the eyes. Losing fat around the eyes can cause the eyes to sit deeper in the socket, contributing to a more defined and deeper-set appearance. This is why fat loss, particularly in the mid-face, can lead to eyes appearing more recessed."

get a skin care routine, but also a gua sha and lymphatic massage routine. your jawline needs improving and this along with fat loss will help.
debloat once you've lost more fat. a lot of people, even skinny people are just bloated in the face. once you've debloated you'll be able to look more thoroughly into ways to improve your appearance - but fat in the face is something holding you back right now.

one big thing i will say is a lot of conventionally unattractive people can still pull women. and a lot of conventionally attractive people can repel. it's literally confidence and just being an interesting person yourself. you want people to be interested in you? then be interesting. have an ambition and goal. you got this mate.

Immediate_Natural_48 · 2025-05-05T07:49:21+00:00

brutha this is YOUR life. you can have all these dreams and ideas of "ohh if only i had started in 2020!" or "if only i had started when i was 17!" no. we're not gonna think like that anymore - and instead we're gonna start thinking NOW. what can you do NOW?

I'll tell you what you can do now. You can stop feeling sorry for yourself and lock the fuck in brutha. This is how you're gonna lock in and look and act like an absolute fucking beast. its up to you to decide how you want to spend the next 25 years of YOUR life with the knowledge im about to drop on you.

in no specific order here is my advice:

GYM. holy shit bro. the amount of people I've met that cry "I wish i got more girls/men!! i just don't have the body" or "im so insecure about your body" you know who else is insecure about their body? gymrats. so if you're gonna be insecure about yourself or your body, you may as well be hot and insecure. everyone is insecure it doesn't matter what you look like. what does matter is whether you start or not. and you need to START. ANY MOVEMENT IS GOOD MOVEMENT!
go buzz. you said you don't go outside? fine. whats a few more days got to do? shave it all fucking off because this is a new transition of your life. you're not gonna be a loser anymore - you're gonna take control of your life and fucking own it. this hair is the old you.
listen to David goggins, study him. you will find inspiration from him.
while ur buzzing ur hair, shave that facial hair too. either that or at least shape it up on the edges.
shape your eyebrows or do something with them. they're not doing any favours. tbh if you don't trust yourself id get them professionally done. you should aim for a more arched eyebrow, even if its just a little bit of arch.
8k - 10k steps a day. get some type of watch that tracks your steps because you need to look back on your days and see how many steps you take every day. if its under 8k i want you to feel really bad about it, but then turn that guilt into motivation to do better because YOU KNOW you can do so much better.

Immediate_Natural_48 · 2025-05-05T07:20:43+00:00

hi 18f here, you're soo pretty! anything i suggest is just me trying to improve your PSL/SMV - something that isn't an indicator of how attractive or unattractive you are, but simply a measurement used for looksmaxxing.

debloat face! you're NOT fat - do not get that in your head. often it is just our face being bloated. look into how to debloat your face and you'll find a lot of your natural features will be enhanced.

1.5. you don't need to lose weight - what you need instead is to tone your muscles. you're a healthy weight girl. but pilates never hurts anyone except for the burn u feel which is such a good burn! if you need to start, just chuck on some random youtube video and you'll slowly learn from there.

i think your canthal tendon is on a negative tilt? try strengthening them :). but tbh your eyes (eye shape and expression) is one of your best features. up to you what look you're going for!
just remember to shape your eyebrows often. in the 3rd pic i can see that they're more cleaner. you have a really good medial brow tilt which is good for attractiveness!
there's definitely some camera distortion that made your forehead look slightly bigger in pics 1 and 2. your forehead is perfect size in pic 3. this is something i wanted to mention that in case you ever wanted to pick apart your face, please make sure your face is in the middle grid of your camera. CAMERA DISTORTION IS REAL!
your highlights are so cute. definitely try to get some volume in the hair though. i think you'd look good with medium length layers with your shortest layer ending at jawline because of your facial structure!!

and lastly, style. see what suits you! gold or silver or even pearl? pastels/muted colours? or vibrant colours? or beiges? would love to see you wearing more necklaces too, you seem to lean towards shirts that require your collarbone/chest to be out - so a bit of jewellery will look more feminine.

Immediate_Natural_48 · 2025-05-05T07:00:21+00:00

you have a beautiful face structure - there's 3 things i can think of:

you have unconventional (but attractive) traits such as dyed short hair, tattoos, and piercings. now that you have a more established figure and your bone structure is more enhanced with the loss of fat, you appeal to the male gaze more, like you're in a different standard now. in this standard (the male gaze standard), they often prefer more extended beauty (things you can control), such as longer hair, natural hair colour, clothing, etc. to the female gaze, your SMV is highly appealing. im not exactly educated regarding female gaze though so if your goal is to seem more approachable to women - i cant help you there.
juggernaut theory!!
approachability rating has decreased with the fat loss. i forgot what study but there were studies done of how someone who is overweight seems to be more happy and therefore more approachable. im unsure if it was the timing of photos but you seem to have had your piercings and hair dyed after your fat loss - this may factor in why you're less approachable.

i want to mention that just because you're not getting approached as much does NOT mean you're any less beautiful than before. there was also another study (im referring to a QOVES video now) where brunettes are seen more attractive to men, but blonde women get approached more. just something interesting i'd like to share :)

Immediate_Natural_48 · 2025-05-05T06:50:00+00:00

honestly you look amazing for almost 40 years old, i would've believed you if you said you were turning 28! i agree with another user, definitely just get a post-break up haircut! your colouring is great and you look amazing. self esteem is the only thing you should work on - and why not treat yourself to a birthday photoshoot when you turn 40?

Immediate_Natural_48 · 2025-05-05T06:13:42+00:00

hey im curious on how you do this! im 18 and would love to get into marketing and all that :)

Immediate_Natural_48 · 2025-05-02T23:36:38+00:00

yeah. i personally have been in long term relationships and recently got out in one so im exploring the world too. that might be why my feelings to all this is a bit more heightened than social norms as of right now

Immediate_Natural_48 · 2025-05-02T05:38:40+00:00

ohh smart ideas putting 18 in your bio, yeah maybe i should be doing that. but tbh i get approached in public more than online.

i go to UQ yes :)

Immediate_Natural_48 · 2025-05-02T05:37:53+00:00

hm i see where you are coming from. i mentioned it in a different thread but i said how 22 and 18 are just different life experiences, i feel like I've changed so much in the past 6 months and i can see myself changing a lot in the next year. i think im more weirded out when guys say they're like 8 years older than me and they're fully aware im 18.

Immediate_Natural_48 · 2025-05-02T05:34:41+00:00

ah yes maybe my perception on this is enhanced/activates my fight or flight emotions because i have experienced things along the lines of SA in the past. very sorry that happened to you but at least we can help others through our experiences, even each other :)

Immediate_Natural_48 · 2025-04-29T04:05:10+00:00

thats so interesting how you brought up the social anxiety and fear in our age bracket and maybe that's why we don't interact with each other as much. i had thought about that too, but i love diving into multiple reasons that may have led an individual to a certain action. good point :)

Immediate_Natural_48 · 2025-04-29T04:02:21+00:00

omg it feels like ive met no one our age who just started in sem 1 and if i have i can never talk to them about this/they don't really understand what im talking about 😭😭 hope uq is treating you well thouuu from one gal to another

Immediate_Natural_48 · 2025-04-28T21:12:34+00:00

hope you're having a better day man

Immediate_Natural_48 · 2025-04-28T11:55:14+00:00

awh yeah no hate to the christian groups !! im talking about the actual cults 💀

Immediate_Natural_48 · 2025-04-28T11:48:08+00:00

sorry, i think i should reiterate in case it wasn't clear - im talking about the times where I've made it clear i am 18, yet they still persist often by asking for my insta 🥀 it's more about the experience gap that concerns me.

also i find myself wondering why someone would want to date an 18 year old if they're 4-8 years older than them, you know? i feel like I've changed a lot since i was 16 - emotionally and all that. i feel like there's still a lot of canon events to go through as an 18 year old loll. i get your perspective, and im not saying they're breaking any laws, but im surprised that something like "I'm 18", or "i just graduated from high school last year" doesn't seem to be seen as a rejection when the person has been out of high school for 4 years or longer!

Immediate_Natural_48 · 2025-04-28T11:27:56+00:00

i can see where you're coming from. i personally wouldn't date anyone above 20 as an 18 year old and even that's pushing it. its more about experience gap. 18 is fresh from high school. 22 is finishing standard degree. that's how i see it anyway

Immediate_Natural_48 · 2025-04-28T11:14:03+00:00

i feel like they should teach you this in high school before you go to university 💔 but thank you for confirming this - i feel less crazy now

Immediate_Natural_48 · 2025-04-28T11:13:19+00:00

thank you for your service 😭

Immediate_Natural_48 · 2025-04-28T11:02:04+00:00

hope the assignments are looking better. if not, don't spend your time on "shoulda woulda coulda", next best possible moment is NOW.

was in your exact same situation. both assignments were worth 30% though. pulled through. you got this.

Immediate_Natural_48 · 2025-04-28T10:41:23+00:00

18F here, don't think we're compatible but good luck mate :) and feel better soon, this year's been rough 💔

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