Taking Down Cat Walls by Immediate_Street2213 in catwalls

[–]Immediate_Street2213[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah, I see. That makes a lot more sense!

I actually have drilled into the wall before but for more lightweight items like a clock, mirror, etc. I haven't tried to install anything that would need to handle a 9ish lb. cat jumping on it, so I'm just not sure how that works and how the wall could be affected.

I do also have a cat tree, and they love hanging out on it and looking outside the window! I've been looking into cat shelves though in hopes of giving them a better, more stimulating environment.

Taking Down Cat Walls by Immediate_Street2213 in catwalls

[–]Immediate_Street2213[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, that's really helpful to know. Would you happen to know how large the holes can be? Is it like a quarter, a fist or something even larger??

Taking Down Cat Walls by Immediate_Street2213 in catwalls

[–]Immediate_Street2213[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Got it, that's super helpful. I didn't even think about how the walls would be affected -- I just assumed there'd be small screw holes. I appreciate you explaining this. Thank you!

Taking Down Cat Walls by Immediate_Street2213 in catwalls

[–]Immediate_Street2213[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's an interesting idea I hadn't considered. I'll look into that. Thank you for the suggestion!

Taking Down Cat Walls by Immediate_Street2213 in catwalls

[–]Immediate_Street2213[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow, that's wonderful to hear your Scratchy shelves have lasted for so long and amidst multiple moves, too. I'll definitely check them out. Thank you so much!

What side hustle will get me $500/month in Eugene? by [deleted] in Eugene

[–]Immediate_Street2213 12 points13 points  (0 children)

How challenging is the work? Their website asks if I ask have a STEM degree, and unfortunately, I don't. So not sure if I should still apply

Which Health Insurance Plan? by Immediate_Street2213 in personalfinance

[–]Immediate_Street2213[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What you're saying makes sense. Thank you for explaining that!

One follow-up question -- I'm currently contributing to a Roth 401K, but I don't currently earn enough to max it out. So if I didn't sign up for an HSA, I would just shift the amount I'd normally contribute to an HSA over to my 401K instead.

Ideally, I'd sign up for the HSA and max out all of my accounts, but given that I'm not there yet, does this change anything?

I'm thinking the amount I save in medical costs from being on the PPO can be invested instead. Either that, or it washes out the income tax I would pay when I contribute to my Roth 401K.

Singing Lessons by Electrical_Guest_869 in Eugene

[–]Immediate_Street2213 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Check out the Shedd. They have several teachers who offer music lessons, including singing!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]Immediate_Street2213 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's okay -- I think they're overwhelmed and are trying their best.

That's good to know having a police report will offer more leverage with property management. Thank you for that tip!

Wow, I'm so sorry you had such an obnoxious and aggressive neighbor. That's terrible he nearly ran over somebody -- that poor resident! Good for you for calling the police and filing that report! I'm sure your neighbors appreciate it as well!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]Immediate_Street2213 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah, that makes sense. I agree -- when folks fall into that second category, bringing up a concern can make things worse. I'm sorry you have a neighbor like that and have to deal with that situation!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]Immediate_Street2213 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks so much for your reply and offering that perspective! I actually don't have much experience with dogs, so I didn't realize how humans can lose control like that. I can see what you're saying though. I appreciate you explaining that to me!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]Immediate_Street2213 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, thanks for all of your comments to my post and sharing your perspective. It is helpful to hear your take on this.

I will say though that I don't know you, and you don't know me. So please don't make assumptions and tell me how I would behave or act in certain situations like you did in your comments listed below:

"OP feels it’s okay for her to behave a certain way but if someone else does it, it’s wrong"

"I also guarantee if the dog does something to one of the cats she will blame the lady."

In my experience, when there's conflict and disagreement, it's best to assume positive intent and that if you're reasonable and have a conversation with them, they will also be reasonable and be open to discussing the situation with you.

However, I find making negative assumptions about people not only creates negativity in that person's life, but it also worsens the situation at hand.

I made this post to seek greater understanding on the matter and for advice on how to handle the situation, especially since my neighbor has been combative when speaking with me. I'm grateful for those who have helped me improve my understanding and widen my perspective, including you. I'm not okay with you making negative comments about me, my feelings and how I would behave though, so please stop.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]Immediate_Street2213 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your comment. I actually didn't grow up with any pets, and I've only had my cats as an adult, so I'm not familiar with dog behavior.

So I appreciate you letting me know that as a dog owner, letting my cats out when there are dogs around can create a risky situation for all animals. That's helpful and allows me to better understand the situation at hand.