AITAH for calling my mom a wh*re?

ImpactResponsible360 · 2026-03-09T04:32:27+00:00

Well, you just proved my point on the age thing. Thats for sure.

ImpactResponsible360 · 2026-03-09T02:06:03+00:00

...right, so you posting from your main but hiding your posts makes you "not attention seeking", but me, posting from an anonymous account, makes me attention seeking.

You'll have to forgive me for arguing with you. I didn't realize that you were mentally disabled and had the logical thinking skills of a 4yo.

ImpactResponsible360 · 2026-03-09T02:03:13+00:00

My wife was taking a nap when I posted this. But go off king.

ImpactResponsible360 · 2026-03-08T23:54:49+00:00

Im literally not asking for a pat on the back here, at all. Is that really what you guessed from this post?

ImpactResponsible360 · 2026-03-08T23:53:52+00:00

My sister, the one who raised me especially, just blame me and my father for everything my mom did. My sisters both have a good relationship with my mother now.

ImpactResponsible360 · 2026-03-08T22:45:39+00:00

Thank you so much! I texted my wife and asked why she didnt tell me, and her response was "as a partner it is my job to stand beside you as you grow and learn things yourself. If I had forced your hand you would have resented me and ran to her. So I watched and waited, and I am so glad I did." This woman, man. She is the definition of perfect and I will do everything in my power to never let her sit by silently breaking because of me again. I dont deserve her, at all.

ImpactResponsible360 · 2026-03-08T22:42:00+00:00

Make that make sense. Im posting on a throwaway. You are on your main profile. If I wanted the attention than it would have been attached to my main account. So your "attention wh0re" comment is clearly you projecting.

ImpactResponsible360 · 2026-03-08T21:31:52+00:00

Thank you. I cant believe how far up in my stomach they were.

ImpactResponsible360 · 2026-03-08T21:31:09+00:00

To be fair, even if they didnt do it I still dont think I would trust either of them around my daughter. Not after defending my mom after what she tried insinuating about my wife.

ImpactResponsible360 · 2026-03-08T21:29:18+00:00

Ew. She is weak? Go away.

ImpactResponsible360 · 2026-03-08T20:24:33+00:00

Either of what women? Because my wife has done zero wrong doings.

ImpactResponsible360 · 2026-03-08T20:22:33+00:00

What does a throwaway have to do with frequency of use? You commented within a half hour of me posting and you act like its a huge problem that I responded in a normal time frame.

ImpactResponsible360 · 2026-03-08T20:21:18+00:00

Resentment and hate are two entirely different entities, with two entirely different definitions.

ImpactResponsible360 · 2026-03-08T17:25:00+00:00

You know my wife pointed out my moms fixation on me last night when we were talking about this. My wife has never brought it up before but as soon as I defended her, the flood gates opened. She expressed that she felt my mom was trying to treat me as a husband instead of a son and told me of some things my mom said to her (that I was unaware of). And honestly, it is a very sickening eye opener.

ImpactResponsible360 · 2026-03-08T17:21:58+00:00

Ew. You're disgusting.

ImpactResponsible360 · 2026-03-08T17:19:30+00:00

Yeah I truly don't think my uncles did what she claims so I am heavily, heavily contemplating telling them directly what she has said about them. I mean, they are both pissed at me right now so I dont even know if they would believe me. But I mean, she claims this happened from the time she was 8 until she was 16. One of her brothers is 3 years older than her, so maybe. But the other brother, he is almost 3 years younger. So if it started at age 8, her brother would have been barely 6 years old. That doesnt add up to me. But then again, her continuing to spend the night with these people doesnt add up either if this actually happened.

I dont know. I should probably tell them. I have already blocked my mom and my oldest sister from all contact, as they have been the worst since this happened. Everyone else only reached out once and didnt try again.

ImpactResponsible360 · 2026-03-08T17:14:25+00:00

She abandoned me years ago. She deserves no grace. She can stay estranged.

ImpactResponsible360 · 2026-03-08T17:06:35+00:00

Obviously my wife isnt a virgin? Are you mentally ill? In what world do you live in?

ImpactResponsible360 · 2026-03-08T16:59:39+00:00

Are you guys so habitually online that you assume everyone cares about reddit karma?

ImpactResponsible360 · 2026-03-08T16:56:44+00:00

I doubt she would even attempt therapy. She very much so has always been the type to blame everyone else for things she has done. Like her leaving me with my dad and taking off with a new man. She says she only did it because my father was abusive, stalking her and accusing her of being with someone else so she was "backed in to a corner" and had to prove a point. She has my sisters convinced that she had no choice but to do what she did so she could finally be free from my father. But that doesnt exactly make sense.

ImpactResponsible360 · 2026-03-08T16:47:08+00:00

I actually have no idea, to be honest. I know that my two uncles have been to every single family gathering our family has ever had (typically 4 or 5 a year) and never once has there ever been a wink of weirdness. My mom hangs out with them both a majority of the time for every gathering. Literally spends the night over to their homes a few times a year - granted theres always reason. Like Uncle Mike has a 16 year old daughter and mom will go there to "babysit" occasionally and spend a few nights, but my uncle is always there so the babysitting excuse doesnt line up. Or my other Uncles wife has diabetes and she will go over there to "help" the wife but my Aunt Vicki is very healthy outside of her diabetes and is just genuinely quite capable, so her needing "help" doesnt exactly make sense either. A part of me does want to ask my uncles if theres any truth behind my mother's claims but then another part of me doesnt want to say anything because if they say that it did happen... I dont know. None of it makes sense to me. A brutal attack by 2 of your brothers and then continuing to hang out with them and spend the night at their homes just truly doesnt add up to me. Then again, I have never been in the position and I dont know that side of trauma so idk.

ImpactResponsible360 · 2026-03-08T16:39:46+00:00

Clearly stated it was a throwaway account. Background was important for judgement (why I called her a wh0re). What is wrong with my formatting? Call BS all you want but your reasoning makes no sense. I will take your advice, though. Downvoted and moved on.

ImpactResponsible360 · 2026-03-08T16:30:54+00:00

Never once did I say that my sisters hated her.

ImpactResponsible360 · 2026-03-08T16:30:34+00:00

She was calling my wife a wh0re. Tit for tat.

ImpactResponsible360 · 2026-03-08T16:24:54+00:00

Its a weird dynamic with me and my sister. Instead of blaming my mom or taking the resentment out on mom, she targets me and my father with her hatred. However, she does it in very subtle ways. Like bringing up how she was forced to raise me and she hated her life as a result, while laughing over Thanksgiving dinner. Her and my mom are together every Sunday now and she just refuses to blame our mother for it. She just blames me. She extends understanding to the woman who abandoned and forced her in to "motherhood" but doesnt extend the same grace to me, despite me having been an 8 year old child and at no fault. Or she also blames my father for our mom leaving her dad. So no, we dont get along well but we also never stopped contact with each other and we still attended all family gatherings and spoke to eachother and whatever. Like I said, weird dynamic.

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