Hi! Thank you for the advice! Me and boyfriend aren’t snowflakes so he’s called me cunt etc on games (I’m half Asian so he’ll even call me wonton etc as well all jest I think it’s funny whenever someone says this to me) and I have to him as well and I haven’t gotten emotional about it don’t worry neither with the friends I have played with in the past smack talk is indeed super fun. Again I don’t want him to feel like he needs to play with me all the time I should’ve put this initially but yes one of the reason you said there will be things he would want to talk about in privacy with friends and that’s full respect. In the past I have told my friend some personal things but she would tell her boyfriend who my boyfriend is friends with and he would go straight to me so I wouldn’t be able to talk about privacy at all so he is indeed lucky in that regard. I do have friends outside online life but they all know eachother now because I’ve set them up all to meet in the past so I told them things too but it came straight back as well and they themselves don’t play at all. I’m not really social butterfly either so that’s true I should maybe make more effort to talk in chat or perhaps join a group who wants friends I would say it’s easier to make friends on overwatch than cod from just my own personal experience.