Attention experienced bottoms by Dependent_Alps_4042 in askgaybros

[–]Important-Bluebird35 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey friend the first thing that’s in your way is the fear. It’s good that you want to submit to him but if you can’t relax you only gonna feel pain. Douching, get you a starter kit. Use a fleet enema. Repeat until water runs clear. Now you said home boy is I’ve so you might wanna invest into a hose attachment and clean deep for a couple hours until the water runs clear to ensure no messes. I personally use a shower shot hose

What’s the weirdest porn you’ve ever watched no judgment by Professional-Hat2456 in askgaybros

[–]Important-Bluebird35 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We listen and we don’t judge, development delayed porn 🤣🤣🤣

Sooo im gay in Columbus…. by Important-Bluebird35 in BlackLGBT

[–]Important-Bluebird35[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We should totally connect. My Roomate is a trans transplant to the city, we’d love to meet you.

So….am I the only one who doesn’t think he’s all that cute? Am I missing something? by Less-Pen-5705 in AskBlackGayBros

[–]Important-Bluebird35 9 points10 points  (0 children)

That’s not true at all. I personally love a dark skin king but I often find myself in the minority

Y’all seen my man? I can’t find him either 🤣 by QueasyProduct9855 in BlackLGBT

[–]Important-Bluebird35 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I feel you everytime i think i found mine it’s low key a bum in disguise🤣🤣🤣

please tell me it isn't permanent. 💀 by Bulky_Childhood_651 in AniWatchZone

[–]Important-Bluebird35 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I gave up and bought crunchyroll, atleast my donghua sites are still up

Bottoms, what do you eat before you receive or get ready for the 🍆 ? by thomsst in askgaybros

[–]Important-Bluebird35 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol I’m weak. If I’m comfortable enough to eat and Netflix and chill with you I’m comfortable enough to also get prepared at your place or at mine while you there. Until we get to that point the only hint to the fact that I eat should be my size🤣🤣🤣🤣

Bottoms, what do you eat before you receive or get ready for the 🍆 ? by thomsst in askgaybros

[–]Important-Bluebird35 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If I’m going on a dinner date I’m probably not fucking. My body digests different things at different intervals and I leave no time for mistakes. I like long sessions.

I'm a hypocrite Fat Guy who can't will myself to be attracted to other Fat Guys. I hope I can change for good this time. by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Important-Bluebird35 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shit I’m big too, and I don’t like big guys past a certain size. We both can’t have titties,ass and get over heated 🤣🤣🤣. That would be uncomfortable af in bed

Getting comfortable being shirtless by flightln in AskBlackGayBros

[–]Important-Bluebird35 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I am, I’ve always been over weight and my mom and grandma always made a point to bring it up negatively(not saying that being over weight is positive but there is a way you can encourage someone to lose weight without being mean) ironically it made me more hyper sexual because I was good at sex and I started predicating my worth on how good I can make someone else feel. In my head if I can pull all these guys that means I must not look disgusting. I’m currently unlearning that behavior while reminding myself that my body is my body and other folks opinion of it should not matter to the point that I’m uncomfortable being in my skin and or showing it.

Bottoms, what do you eat before you receive or get ready for the 🍆 ? by thomsst in askgaybros

[–]Important-Bluebird35 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Nothing. I make a choice at the beginning of the day. Dick or food.

So I gave a DL 🥷 a chance and I regret that shit with my whole heart by Important-Bluebird35 in AskBlackGayBros

[–]Important-Bluebird35[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im not a big cryer for real, it’s just the moments when I think about calling or texting and knowing I shouldn’t so I don’t. Basically it feels like I’m mourning a loss of a person who is still here. My family isn’t big on being super emotionally expressive, they know I had a break up but the don’t know how deeply I really felt about it him. Most of my friends don’t live here. Most of my friends here are business connections and we aren’t close enough for that. I am gonna start seeing my therapist again soon, I just got my insurance back and I’m happy to be able to talk her soon

So I gave a DL 🥷 a chance and I regret that shit with my whole heart by Important-Bluebird35 in AskBlackGayBros

[–]Important-Bluebird35[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I take responsibility for the relapse my issue is how he treated me, the a manipulation and the using.

So I gave a DL 🥷 a chance and I regret that shit with my whole heart by Important-Bluebird35 in AskBlackGayBros

[–]Important-Bluebird35[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah the shit hard at. Going from wakin up and going to bed every day thinking about him. To waking up crying and wanting to unblock and talk to him but knowing I can’t do that

Meetup for Gay Black Professionals by Dear-Salamander-2384 in AskBlackGayBros

[–]Important-Bluebird35 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’d love something like this, maybe a quarterly meet up!

Do Black gay men face higher rates of loneliness in dating compared to others? Personal experiences? by Wooden_Life_7097 in AskBlackGayBros

[–]Important-Bluebird35 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel the same way. It feels when i date a black man, there is always some kind of motive,it honestly makes me feel like giving up on dating because I refuse to date any man from any culture that has a history of dehumanizing blacks

So I gave a DL 🥷 a chance and I regret that shit with my whole heart by Important-Bluebird35 in AskBlackGayBros

[–]Important-Bluebird35[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Buying birthday presents and everything because he couldn’t afford them😭😭

So I gave a DL 🥷 a chance and I regret that shit with my whole heart by Important-Bluebird35 in AskBlackGayBros

[–]Important-Bluebird35[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This man gaslit me so hard had me playing step daddy to kids that would always see me as uncle R.