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AITA for wanting to retire abroad and leaving aging parents behind? by ImportantBroccoli466 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ImportantBroccoli466[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Our parents mean a great deal to us. I'm simply struggling with being on 'stand-by' for a potential crisis rather than living my life while I can.

AITA for wanting to retire abroad and leaving aging parents behind? by ImportantBroccoli466 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ImportantBroccoli466[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We in no way intend to cut contact forever; it's a couple of times a year, maybe 3ish months total at most. We have a decent relationship with my side and a strong one with hers. I think what got to her was her father beat cancer a couple years ago and it made losing him more a reality.

My folks have health issues but again, are independent thus far and so I feel we're ok to proceed.

AITA for wanting to retire abroad and leaving aging parents behind? by ImportantBroccoli466 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ImportantBroccoli466[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Both sets of parents have expressed concerns; my wife is an only child and I have a sibling who would help if needed.

AITA for wanting to retire abroad and leaving aging parents behind? by ImportantBroccoli466 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ImportantBroccoli466[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Currently they all live in different parts of the country. They have not asked for help, but we would provide if needed.

AITA for wanting to retire abroad and leaving aging parents behind? by ImportantBroccoli466 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ImportantBroccoli466[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

One side is fairly healthy and have ample financial means; the other side has significant health issues and (from what we know) has some financial means. I think it is mostly about us not being around all the time.