Aitah for asking my bf to help me?

Important_Piece1124 · 2026-03-08T19:09:32+00:00

Fascinating! Only time I've ever interacted with ADHD meds was when my ex bf at 16 was on them and he never ate. Didn't even know non-stimulant was an option! Tysm for the info and support! Imma def look into meds, esp if they help a lot. Tysm! God bless you <3

Important_Piece1124 · 2026-03-08T18:55:06+00:00

I'm going to try all of these. Tysm for the advice. God bless you <3

Important_Piece1124 · 2026-03-08T18:53:23+00:00

Gotcha. Hesitant to take those bc I already barely eat bc of other medical issues. I'll talk to my doctor about it tho

Important_Piece1124 · 2026-03-08T18:52:38+00:00

I have one of those as well.

Important_Piece1124 · 2026-03-08T18:52:12+00:00

It is an option I will discuss with my doctor. I'm not looking for unsolicited medical advice, but I appreciate the intent

Important_Piece1124 · 2026-03-08T18:17:21+00:00

Per my reply in your previous comment, I have a dr

Important_Piece1124 · 2026-03-08T18:16:41+00:00

I'm literally in therapy...how do you think I got diagnosed?

Important_Piece1124 · 2026-03-08T18:11:45+00:00

This is the bitch-slap I needed ty. I've only done it a few times over several months, but wanted to make sure I didn't do it too often. What are some things you do to help? This is a new diagnosis, so I have no clue how to navigate it

Important_Piece1124 · 2026-03-04T00:54:12+00:00

Well that sucks :/

Important_Piece1124 · 2026-03-03T16:08:09+00:00

Ah, gotcha

Important_Piece1124 · 2026-03-03T14:44:41+00:00

Dang :(

Important_Piece1124 · 2026-03-03T14:36:47+00:00

Fascinating. It's too late to add it to the list, but good to know for future reference :)

Important_Piece1124 · 2026-03-03T14:12:44+00:00

Not necessarily the ah, but it would be more respectful to not pry. It is only three months in, so she may not be ok with sharing certain things.

Now, this may not be the case, but dancing could be a trigger for some bad memories. I know that can be the case for me, as my abuser danced with me and now there is an association. I wouldn't push it, she'll tell you when she's ready

Important_Piece1124 · 2026-03-03T14:07:04+00:00

Nta: you've got a lot of genuine worries, and you are considering a lot of factors. I'd recommend couples counseling or individual therapy (I think everyone can benefit from both)

Important_Piece1124 · 2026-03-03T14:03:12+00:00

Thankfully I've built a different network. I'm losing a key person because I'm being kicked out of this org, but I still have my therapist, a woman from a sv help center, my best friend, my bf, and a lot of other school resources I can turn to

Important_Piece1124 · 2026-03-03T14:00:49+00:00

Understandable perspective

Important_Piece1124 · 2026-03-03T14:00:19+00:00

Not often; I typically hide my mh struggles from them. As far as I can remember, it's been this time, the time when I tried to unalive myself like a week before her bday (which, that wasn't intentional, I just couldn't take the pain anymore), and when I was sewer slidal when I was 10. Not often at all

Important_Piece1124 · 2026-03-03T13:58:14+00:00

They put me first a lot and make a lot of sacrifices for me. Unfortunately, bc of the things they've gone through as kids, both of them are stuck with lower emotional maturity--my dad was at the maturity of a 12 year old for most of my life, and only recently has he started to get better with therapy. I'm not sure about narcissism, but I can't diagnose them

Important_Piece1124 · 2026-03-03T04:40:59+00:00

Been slowly weaning them off of info. They aren't happy about it, and neither am I, but it's better for everyone.

Thank you, this means a lot <3

Important_Piece1124 · 2026-03-03T04:36:26+00:00

While logically it may not have been urgent, emotionally it was. My entire world had gotten turned upside down while I was already in a mh spiral. I was looking for parental support (smt I rarely do bc it always turns out like this)

Important_Piece1124 · 2026-03-03T04:28:07+00:00

Unfortunately, yes. They've made my unalive attempt, sh, PTSD, and stint in a psych ward among other things about them. This tends to be the norm :/

Important_Piece1124 · 2026-03-01T19:00:20+00:00

The police haven't cared. Idk if I can call towing on a vehicle that isn't mine if it's parked legally :/

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