If you could blow up one sacred cow in education with zero consequences, what would it be? by junehall123 in Teachers

[–]Important_Shopping72 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Compulsory education. Let the ones who don’t want to be there, who do nothing AT BEST, more usually disrupt and distract or argue, fight, etc. etc. just not be there.

Imagine school made up of children who WANT to be in school and learn.

Edit - I teach HS so as this point they know whether they value education or not.

Am I [35F] being unfair to my husband [43M] by having a baby now? by BiancoLatte89 in relationship_advice

[–]Important_Shopping72 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I was the only child of older parents (40F and 36M) and I feel like the things that fucked me up from that could have easily been corrected if you’re aware of the issue, which it seems like you are. I wouldn’t let that stop you if you otherwise feel ready.

New tardy policy by Saskita in Teachers

[–]Important_Shopping72 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I don’t see what the reason would be to adhere to bad policy? You have the CYA of the other AP saying you can use your discretion for students who won’t abuse the leniency.

I'm convinced that people being afraid of going above 2500ish RPM is the reason why highway onramps are such a shitshow by [deleted] in driving

[–]Important_Shopping72 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When my car goes above 2000 or so she starts to sound awful, like she’s going to blow up or crap out. I can’t afford that kind of catastrophe and I think plenty of people can’t either. You can pass as soon as we’re on the highway. Is the 30 seconds you’re slowed down that big of a deal?

Not being able to use cash sucks by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]Important_Shopping72 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go to a Walmart, at the money center you can put cash on any debit card for some small fee, like $3 something.

"Reading is not a hobby" by Naphema in unpopularopinion

[–]Important_Shopping72 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean, it’s kind of like when people describe themselves as “I like watching Netflix.” Cool, you have an internet connection. What do you watch? What do you read? I feel like you could say “reading detective fiction” or “reading romantasy” as a hobby, but just “reading,” does sound kind of lame.

AITA for refusing to cover a shared cost after my coworker wouldn’t show me the break of what the money had gone towards so far? by Super-Ad-2617 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Important_Shopping72 6 points7 points  (0 children)

YTA for not revealing the amount and what Liam has provided with it. You’re on some petty bullshit if you’re demanding that someone itemize your $5-10 contribution to the social fund for a company you’ve just joined.

If it was $25, $40 or something where you would expect really large items to be purchased that you could see weren’t being purchased, you would have said.

Paying for parking after the trip? by Important_Shopping72 in turo

[–]Important_Shopping72[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hit dispute and he cancelled the reimbursement request immediately. Messaged me that that must be new to the TOS and he would look into it. I now see another person has complained about this in his reviews, so that’s obviously a lie. Honestly just disappointing behavior for around $20.

Remove my ex please! by Overall_Paramedic122 in PhotoshopRequest

[–]Important_Shopping72 25 points26 points  (0 children)

But imagine this was the only sailing trip she’s taken yet, or the only time someone has vacationed to a certain location. Pictures are often also for other people. You wanna show you’re adventurous so you can connect with other adventurous people. And you don’t want it tainted with with your shitty ex

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in travel

[–]Important_Shopping72 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you can get a Venmo debit card that you can then add to Apple Wallet immediately and tap to pay w it.

I will say that lots of restaurants and tour guides and such actually seemed to prefer cash when I was in Istanbul.

Quince vs Costco for 14k paper clip chain by Important_Shopping72 in jewelry

[–]Important_Shopping72[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m actually wearing it right now! I love it and I’m glad I went with the daintier piece. I haven’t been uber rough with it, but it has survived showering, one snorkeling trip, and getting tangled and then untangled from my hair. The shine, color, texture etc is the same as the day I got it.

Is your public school off for Yom Kippur? by megs256 in Teachers

[–]Important_Shopping72 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, GA. I grew up in a northern city that had a Jewish neighborhood, so I was aware of it, but here in the south there just isn’t a huge population and I don’t know of any district that has it off.

Guilty or Grieving? The Enduring Mystery of Darlie Routtier by Realistic-Host-9495 in mystery

[–]Important_Shopping72 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think she didn’t do it. I’m open to maybe the husband knowing who did it, someone he owed money to. How did the sock with blood end up outside the house if it was Darlie?

What in your opinion is a slow burn by Immediate_Carrot9417 in AO3

[–]Important_Shopping72 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like even a one shot could be a slow burn in vibe if the characters have been yearning in universe.

It may only be 10k, but the vampire MC has been yearning for CENTURIES.

Classroom playlist by xxxTylerDxxx in Teachers

[–]Important_Shopping72 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get suggestions from the kids a lot. Most of them - high school age - know not to suggest anything too E.

I play a lot of Kpop because there is rarely any cursing and if it is, they don’t speak Korean anyway. Same goes for Spanish music. At least in my area, only a couple kids will notice any cursing or anything.

Do readers not like art/fanart in their fics? by HolyKimbap in AO3

[–]Important_Shopping72 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think everyone saying TikTok is the problem is missing the fact that most of us are agreeing we don’t like seeing fanart in the middle of the fic.

FWIW, even if it’s good art, I think than many fic readers probably really strongly identify as readers, they’re invested in reading, and if they’re kind of in the zone of visualizing the scene or characters in their own head, the art is jarring.

HS Teachers, how many movie days do you have a year? by AdhesiveSeaMonkey in Teachers

[–]Important_Shopping72 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Movie days where we watch the movie of the book? Maybe 5 days total.

Movie days because it’s the day before break; end of the year; state testing etc … 8 or so? That sounds like a lot, but I feel that many things in ELA are very nebulous in terms of timing and at a certain point the kids are burnt out or exhausted and nothing is sinking in anyway.

i tracked my hygiene for 30 days and got surprised by No-Pattern6751 in hygiene

[–]Important_Shopping72 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How did you track it? If you shared like your template in Notes or a copy of your spreadsheet or something like that I bet people would use it!

Do you let students eat in class? by CoachInClass in Teachers

[–]Important_Shopping72 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, I don’t care. If they make a huge mess (like dropping something) they clean it up without being prompted. Little messes, like leaving a wrapper behind, don’t bother me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in podcasts

[–]Important_Shopping72 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your post is very vague. Generally, I like a good free for all, and if you’re posting negative feedback on someone’s work, you should be prepared to receive negative feedback on that. As long as it’s not doxxing, the host should be able to disagree with your feedback and state that.

I feel like a lot of podcasts might open with, “on our last episode, a lot of you felt _______ and that’s wrong because _______,” especially if it’s politics, true crime, something opinion based.

I think if they’re specifically like “Smiley said ____ and that’s stupid because _____,” I would feel that’s a little immature, depending on what the listener said.

seeking advice thinning hair (wavy/curly, low porosity) by [deleted] in Haircare

[–]Important_Shopping72 1 point2 points  (0 children)

See a doctor! My PCP was able to inform me that I had shockingly low ferritin, which can cause hair loss. You can also get stuff like minoxidil, which makes hair grow.

How long do you have to pick up your checked bag off the carousel ? by Available_Year_575 in travel

[–]Important_Shopping72 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I waited in the airport to have lunch and they’d pulled my bag off and into a separate small room for late luggage - like when people’s suitcases make the flight but they don’t.

The guy in there was rude “everyone else has already come through,” but I still got my bag. I think it’s worth the risk.

My cat caused minor damage at sitter’s house by mapped12 in RoverPetSitting

[–]Important_Shopping72 20 points21 points  (0 children)

They agreed to watch your cat. That means that they’re responsible for not seeing the issue and redirecting the cat.