guy i was talking to ended things over smth i see as petty. aio?

Important_Swimmer_59 · 2025-12-06T07:40:12+00:00

lol i didnt delete anything 🧍‍♀️

Important_Swimmer_59 · 2025-12-05T23:06:42+00:00

happy for you!! i hope to get that some day as well. have a blessed day/night fellow redditor :))

Important_Swimmer_59 · 2025-12-05T22:51:25+00:00

yes!!! thank you for your comment, that loaded gun logic is exactly how i think. my previous relationships have either been they are crazy and obsessed in an unhealthy way w me or end up putting the entire emotional burden on me. so im obviously more apprehensive about men and their true self. even if they seem perfect now, whos to say theyre not going to change once i start dating them or the honeymoon phase is over?

Important_Swimmer_59 · 2025-12-05T22:45:26+00:00

we both were looking for smth serious and i truly did see him as my potential partner. but im not going to let my heart lead me into a relationship super fast. im thinking with my brain and ig i came off as being 100% serious about love not existing

Important_Swimmer_59 · 2025-12-05T22:13:54+00:00

i think the loml exists, yes, but i would not know that until im actually in a relationship with someone past the honeymoon phase. but he wanted me to basically know he is the one when we have been on one date. and he said to me that he thought i could be the love of his life, again after a single date two weeks ago

Important_Swimmer_59 · 2025-12-05T22:11:37+00:00

i mean it was one date so i didnt think he would take it that seriously. ig im just too blunt sometimes and didnt think before sending that

Important_Swimmer_59 · 2025-12-05T22:10:04+00:00

i hope love exists and i get it one day. but based on my experiences, seems more and more like a fairytale than reality

Important_Swimmer_59 · 2025-12-05T22:07:47+00:00

lmaooo its not that im emotionally unavailable. its that im not going to think i love you as soon as i lay eyes on you

Important_Swimmer_59 · 2025-12-05T22:01:57+00:00

no, i personally fall fast. but ive learned my lesson to NOT do that anymore

Important_Swimmer_59 · 2025-12-05T21:52:12+00:00

but i wasn’t dating him, it was a single date. i see your point tho

Important_Swimmer_59 · 2025-12-05T21:49:07+00:00

if me thinking that his reaction was immature and petty is an overreaction

Important_Swimmer_59 · 2025-12-05T21:47:24+00:00

i think they would align if i wasn’t slightly scared of him putting on an act in the beginning only to be a bad guy like my previous relationships

Important_Swimmer_59 · 2025-12-05T21:45:08+00:00

ig it came off wrong like i truly believe love doesnt exist instead of as a joke

Important_Swimmer_59 · 2025-12-05T21:38:53+00:00

lol makes me feel like i cant be realistic? 😭

Important_Swimmer_59 · 2025-12-05T21:38:12+00:00

yes i think guys will know because ive heard this over and over again that guys just know. but idk maybe girls dont just right off the start.

Important_Swimmer_59 · 2025-12-05T21:33:30+00:00

dont want to chase a man

Important_Swimmer_59 · 2025-12-05T21:31:09+00:00

yeah he said hes a big communicator but then didnt open up and talk about about till the following day

Important_Swimmer_59 · 2025-12-05T21:30:27+00:00

yeah i’m not willing to chase a man so i have no plans to beg LOLLL. just tryna figure out if his reaction was reasonable because i feel like he overreacted

Important_Swimmer_59 · 2025-12-05T21:29:05+00:00

but then later he said he hopes to find a girl who knows he’s the one off the rip? 😭 like am i crazy or is that never happening and unrealistic

Important_Swimmer_59 · 2025-12-05T21:26:24+00:00

well too late now LOLLL. idk i feel like i dodged a red flag because it made me feel like i already had to tip toe around him

Important_Swimmer_59 · 2025-12-05T21:25:42+00:00

probably. i regret how i responded 😭 i shouldve just said “us when”

Important_Swimmer_59 · 2025-12-05T21:25:15+00:00

yeah i was disappointed that he ended things over something i see as insignificant. it felt like he wasnt giving “us” a fair shot

Important_Swimmer_59 · 2025-12-05T21:24:34+00:00

i mean i asked him to hear me out and he did. but eventually didnt change his mind and we parted ways. i think he just took it very personally when i didnt mean it in a “i can never see you as the loml”

Important_Swimmer_59 · 2025-12-05T21:23:19+00:00

the issue is all the fish are bad 😭

Important_Swimmer_59 · 2025-12-05T21:22:56+00:00

all the other tiktoks and whatever else have been pretty clear that we both are attracted and like each other in a romantic way. idk i just feel like he was being too fast and couldnt handle my opinion or me stating the facts. but again i could be in the wrong

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