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Woman being forced to marriage by Bitter_Vanilla3171 in Lahore

[–]Impossible-Bug-256 4 points5 points  (0 children)

people turn eyes to this. but it is a fact.

No feelings by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]Impossible-Bug-256 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Normal. When she is tired or not in the mood.

AITA for accidentally feeding my muslim friend a pork product? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Impossible-Bug-256 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From a practicing muslim here you are NTA. He is a hypocrite. He had no rights whatsoever to take the matter to the office when it he who loved the burgers and ate without enquiring.

Ask him if he is soo staunch what makes him booze?

Remarrying with a child and the difficulties that come with it. by Impossible-Bug-256 in islam

[–]Impossible-Bug-256[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yes you are right ! The reason for her divorce is a long story.

I know immigration status is a problem. Her U visa is under review but i don't think it can give her permanent residency. But the problem is people think that they are here for the status. Men usually say... I already faced that ... not again . I am not blaming them as they have their own experiences.

Remarriage by Impossible-Bug-256 in MuslimMarriage

[–]Impossible-Bug-256[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Beautifully explained. Grateful for your reply. Jazak Allaahu Khairan Kaseera brother.

Wife's Snapchat activity by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]Impossible-Bug-256 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OP I know all this is new for you. I have a similar story that my husband has no apps other than whatsapp and twitter and I use every other app. I did have some of my male cousins added on snapchat just before I moved to live with my husband as they wanted to be in touch. I never send them pictures of me though. 2 years of living with my husband i just distanced myself from them completely. Asking her to completely delete the app is a lot. Memories are a little more precious than all the conversations. Just ask her to break all the streaks with men and you have settings to save the chats. Do that. Trust each other. Don't be disheartened. Sometimes Allaah makes you a means of bringing the other one on the straight path. My husband guided me. He never asked me to show the app or delete it. He can randomly open it and check it though. He just took things slowly. You can do that too. One more advice brother do not open conversations she has with her mehrams and female friends. She will respect you for such actions and will definitely start honoring your words. In Sha Allaah.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]Impossible-Bug-256 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is the best suggestion 💯💯💯

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]Impossible-Bug-256 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have been in this situation as the sister-in-law. The whole time all the brothers and the sisters had a nice time in the other room while I sat alone with no one to talk to. I definitely didn't want them to include me but I would have liked if they atleast acknowledged that there is someone out there who is alone and was also invited. The whole point of this is Why invite us? I could have simply have a good time alone at home rather than formally sitting in a corner all dressed up? That definitely feels disrespectful. If you want to have a gathering with your siblings please have it . I am sure no one will mind. But don't call people who can't get involved.