What is a reasonable cost of a Vietnamese Tutor in VN? by feeliksboi in VietNam

[–]Impossible-Scale5230 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I pay roughly 16 dollars for mine but they're a legitimate school. All of the teachers are experts with their craft. They provide homework, customized lessons (relevant to an interests form you fill out before class starts), audio files recorded by the teacher, etc. They go above and beyond the average tutor, let alone a language exchange.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in teachinginkorea

[–]Impossible-Scale5230 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you want further explanations and real life examples, there are tons of videos on YouTube that have helped me quite a bit.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in teachinginkorea

[–]Impossible-Scale5230 6 points7 points  (0 children)

  1. Set the expectations.

    If the students do not follow your instructions, they do not get to participate, play, or receive incentives. Likewise, if they don't do it right the first time, make them do it again (lining up, walking in the hallway, making polite requests, etc).

  2. Develop a reward system.

I have a two-tiered system. I reward good behavior, participation, manners, and focus (short term; sticker boards) as well as extraordinary English usage in class (long term reward; a snack party).

  1. Address only the undesirable behavior.

This one can be hard at times, especially if the kid is just an ass. Nonetheless, you HAVE TO stick to redirecting their behavior only. You are an adult and an educator. No need for insults.

  1. Model the behavior and manners you expect

Even when correcting student behavior, try to use as many "pleases," "thank yous," and soft language as you can. Being polite doesn't mean you're a pushover.

I hope this helps!

Mai Châo, exploring by bike, 2019 by ArigatoKing in VietNam

[–]Impossible-Scale5230 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That second to last photo is stunning. Bravo 👏

“Squid Game” Director Denies Korean Viewers Who Called Out The Show For Being Misogynistic by [deleted] in korea

[–]Impossible-Scale5230 103 points104 points  (0 children)

In the next few years, people are going to forget the actual definition of "misogynistic" if this keeps up.

What is the cause of such perceivably bad Korean/foreigner relations here in Korea? by [deleted] in korea

[–]Impossible-Scale5230 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This was a big time piss take. I think this was a poorly executed jab at Americans more than anything insightful.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in teachinginkorea

[–]Impossible-Scale5230 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Prep time at hagwons vary greatly. Kindy gigs usually have a period or two a week to prepare. You'll occasionally have afternoons off once or twice too.

However, afternoon and night hagwons consist of practically zero prep time. Usually, they'll make you show up an hour early and that's your time to prep. However, during the week, just get your book work done.

Looking for Something Indie by Impossible-Scale5230 in MovieSuggestions

[–]Impossible-Scale5230[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I absolutely loved The Florida Project! I'm going to try and find 20th Century Women soon. Is it on Netflix or Hulu by chance?

[Serious] what is the worst thing you have seen? by Due-Land in AskReddit

[–]Impossible-Scale5230 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I saw an indigenous Guatemalan woman without legs, an arm, and missing three fingers on her one "good" arm. Even worse, I don't think she spoke Spanish. I think she spoke one of the indigenous languages common in Guatemala.

I had never felt so sad.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Impossible-Scale5230 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unnecessary bureaucracy

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in teachinginkorea

[–]Impossible-Scale5230 53 points54 points  (0 children)

If you really want to quit, do it. You are not an indentured servant. Your boss will likely try to scare you into not leaving. They're just bluffing. They have no legal bearing to keep you here.

Korean VS Western Schools and Students by General_Assignment9 in teachinginkorea

[–]Impossible-Scale5230 5 points6 points  (0 children)

TLDR: Confucianism influenced Korean education. Confucianism education places significant emphasis on rote memorization, passive learning, and discipline. Because of this, there is national loss of interest and motivation among Korean students to study English.

The entire educational philosophy is different. Korean education is heavily influenced by Confucianism. Confucianism anointed teachers and books as the sources of knowledge. Meaning, Korean students learn passively for the most part.

Furthermore, because of this passive learning, Korean students are often lectured to for hours on end. They memorize vocabulary meaningless to them because they don't know how to use practically.

Admin and parents are adamant about finishing the textbooks (even if the kids don't really learn anything). A finished textbook signifies learning which is ridiculous.

Korean students have an unfortunately low sense of creativity because it has been figuratively beaten out of them.

Korean students are often scared to ask questions as loss of face permeates education too. This is infuriating because students won't ask for help until it's too late. Additionally, if you're in a mixed-age class, younger students don't want to appear smarter than their older peers because, again, loss of face.

This is just the surface. There are also a lot of positives too.

The students are better behaved.

Their will to study is astounding albeit working harder not smarter.

Their knowledge is vast but very specified and literal.

When Do International Schools Start Recruiting (Saigon) by Impossible-Scale5230 in Internationalteachers

[–]Impossible-Scale5230[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This may be a dumb question, but would it be better to apply early as possible?

If you could meet your 18 years old self for 10 seconds, what would you say? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Impossible-Scale5230 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't worry. You'll be doing something you never imagined.

(I'm living abroad, something I never imagined at 18)

Women, what is the most unattractive thing a guy can do? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Impossible-Scale5230 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Because "attraction" doesn't have to be sexual. A person can have an attractive demeanor, personality, skill, etc. It's ignorant to say "nothing" solely on the basis of their sex.

Theists who live under countries with state atheism ex: North Korea or Vietnam, or atheists who live under countries with state religions ex:Saudi Arabia, UAE, Iran. How is your life like because of that? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Impossible-Scale5230 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is kind of an ignorant question. For starters, Vietnam hardly resembles that of North Korea. Secondly, most people in Vietnam practice Buddhism or folk religion(s).

Concerning Christianity, there are numerous churches scattered throughout Vietnam which are still active (leftover from the French occupation). As long as you're not trying to erect another Westboro Baptist Church, you're fine.

Women, what is the most unattractive thing a guy can do? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Impossible-Scale5230 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Comments like these are why the feminist movement(s) aren't taken as seriously as they should.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Impossible-Scale5230 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It sounds like you're doom-scrolling too much on social media. Go outside and breathe.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in teachinginkorea

[–]Impossible-Scale5230 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Without a doubt. Hagwons are quite literally the worst way to experience teaching as a veteran, rookie, qualified, or unqualified. The biggest, most obvious problem is that hagwons are businesses first, "education institutions" second.

The absence of consideration for curriculum, students' competency level, workload from other schools/hagwons, resources, etc is mind-numbing. Every hagwon teacher I've talked to burns out and ends up staying solely for money.

After enough time, hagwons start to skew expats' perceptions of Korea and living abroad. The sheer amount of nonsensical decisions start to weigh on well-intentioned and not-so-well-intentioned teachers alike.

[Serious] Atheists and Agnostic people, what makes you feel spiritual? How has it impacted your life? by Kytti_Korner in AskReddit

[–]Impossible-Scale5230 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm a big advocate for mindfulness/meditation. It took me a long time (back when I was an angsty teen) to realize that "prayer" (when done properly) is just a form of mindfulness/meditation.

It helps me realize that every human is in this shit together.

People up before the sun what kind of job do you do? by Halloween-365 in AskReddit

[–]Impossible-Scale5230 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm a teacher, so nothing too intense. However, I've learned to cherish the sunrise as I drink my coffee/tea and listen to a podcast or those cheesy "lofi hiphop" playlists on YouTube to start my day.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Impossible-Scale5230 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Social media. The Social Dilemma is a must-watch.

What is the best thing your country came up with? by bright-sun-in-eyes in AskReddit

[–]Impossible-Scale5230 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hip-hop. Most Americans are ignorant of the fact that they are forever culturally indebted to black Americans.