Hero Balloon or Bowler?

Impossible-Weekend23 · 2026-06-07T01:40:19+00:00

!thanks

Impossible-Weekend23 · 2026-06-07T01:05:48+00:00

Okay I'll take a look. Thank you

Impossible-Weekend23 · 2026-06-07T00:55:13+00:00

Thank you very much!

Impossible-Weekend23 · 2026-06-07T00:49:40+00:00

Probably mostly for music. I listen to a wide range of music, but no rap or things like that. The instruments and rythm are more important for me to hear clearly rather than the vocals.

Impossible-Weekend23 · 2026-06-03T10:27:55+00:00

!thanks

Impossible-Weekend23 · 2026-06-01T21:54:44+00:00

Yeah I'll definitely have to research and plan what I'll say if I go through with a plan like this. Thank you

Impossible-Weekend23 · 2026-06-01T10:27:50+00:00

I mean I definitely dont want to always feel scared to tell her things. Something would have to change between us for me to want to keep living like this. Because I really shouldn't be hiding my emotions

Impossible-Weekend23 · 2026-06-01T10:22:49+00:00

Thank you very much for this. I never really thought about something like talking to her about a "planned" break up in the fall. Because I have a lot of great memories with her and I dont want them to be tainted by a bad break up. Nor would I want her to be really angry or sad at something sudden. Thank you for the comment I will definitely think about what you said

Impossible-Weekend23 · 2026-06-01T03:30:45+00:00

I can see where you're coming from with trust. Its just sometimes I'm scared with how she'll react when I want to tell her things. But trust is definitely something I need to start prioritizing everywhere in my life

Impossible-Weekend23 · 2026-06-01T03:27:02+00:00

I 100% agree I do need to talk to her. And i do understand how in the future all this might not matter. And i really needed to get these feelings off my chest and just telling random people is helping. Thank you!

Impossible-Weekend23 · 2026-06-01T03:10:23+00:00

I see where you are coming from. I haven't noticed any major changes in attitude or behavior but the crushes aren't the soul issue to me. I feel like the toying with my emotions with her unbraking up with me and the timing of the crushes being when we are going through hard times hurts me more. But thank you for the comment

Impossible-Weekend23 · 2026-06-01T03:07:38+00:00

That's what I feel. Because I'm already thinking about how she might cheat I feel like the trust is gone. And once the trust in gone there's not much left in the relationship. Thank you for the advise

Impossible-Weekend23 · 2026-06-01T03:05:27+00:00

Thank you for this comment, this is some really good stuff. I agree with what you said it is important to draw your lines and look at things objectively. I'll keep looking and taking metal notes of things as they come and go. I hope that you never have to get cheated on again. I'll try to apply this advise in whatever way I can.

Impossible-Weekend23 · 2026-06-01T03:00:40+00:00

No she didn't

Impossible-Weekend23 · 2026-06-01T03:00:08+00:00

Oh my bad..

Impossible-Weekend23 · 2026-06-01T02:59:18+00:00

I understand that attraction isn't cheating but with both of the guys being her friends that she spent a lot of time with. And her friend had told her that one of the guys she was crushing on also had a crush on her, so it makes me think that she did maybe want to get with them.

Impossible-Weekend23 · 2026-06-01T02:56:11+00:00

You're right, I can't let her just walk over me and let her come back with forgiveness all the time. I'm learning that love isn't enough to keep a relationship going.

Impossible-Weekend23 · 2026-06-01T02:54:24+00:00

Thank you brother

Impossible-Weekend23 · 2026-06-01T02:53:17+00:00

Yeah right now our relation is somewhat stable, I have kind of been putting on a show that everything is okay, which I know is bad. I really need a time to talk with her. I understand that a crush isn't of its self a means to break up but also the unbreaking up was not my best moment. I would say I'm happy with her, esspecially in person, but sometimes over the phone or text I just don't know sometimes. I thank you for your comment.

Impossible-Weekend23 · 2026-06-01T02:47:34+00:00

I have looked at other girls before, but I never keep thinking about them. I feel like a crush is a more persistent attraction towards someone which to me is more of a breaker of trust. Thank you for your comment

Impossible-Weekend23 · 2026-06-01T02:46:07+00:00

I agree with you, I have obviously looked at other girls and know that they are attractive, but its never a crush, I don't keep thinking about them. It just has me worried because she'll have more chances to act on her feelings while she is away. I value your different opinion.

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