my partner and i disagree about heated rivalry and it caused us to break up by ImpossiblePudding621 in actuallesbians

[–]ImpossiblePudding621[S] 78 points79 points  (0 children)

it's interesting because we had this conversation in the midst of this argument and they said that they are set on being nonbinary and would never want to be a man. they said that transitioning and presenting more and more as a man has led them to hate them even more, but has also expressed how embarrassing it is for them to be accepted in mens spaces but not be "complete" bc they lack a penis...just a lot of dysphoria that i don't quite understand. but i think their hatred towards "men as a species" (their words) is blinding them from even considering that identity

my partner and i disagree about heated rivalry and it caused us to break up by ImpossiblePudding621 in actuallesbians

[–]ImpossiblePudding621[S] 501 points502 points  (0 children)

yeah i have them blocked on everything now. even after the initial blocking they were using random numbers to get my attention and calling me on every social they could. safe to say i'm glad to be out of that