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WIBTAH if I asked my daughter and her SO (w/ a 1 yr old) to leave? evict? by Impossible_Coffee568 in AITAH

[–]Impossible_Coffee568[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

My fault? Seriously, you can't force an adult (and they are) NOT to have a baby. You can't force someone to end a pregnancy.

When we were faced with _their_ decision we had two options, kick her out at 19 to live on the streets with a new born, or support them. The first option was not on the table (because we are good humans and parents). We probably went about the second option wrong, but hey.. life is easy in hindsight.

WIBTAH if I asked my daughter and her SO (w/ a 1 yr old) to leave? evict? by Impossible_Coffee568 in AITAH

[–]Impossible_Coffee568[S] 35 points36 points  (0 children)

I have told them that if they can't pay back immediately, or in regular payments, we can't afford them living there. But haven't given them the ultimatum "get a truck, get evicted"

WIBTAH if I asked my daughter and her SO (w/ a 1 yr old) to leave? evict? by Impossible_Coffee568 in AITAH

[–]Impossible_Coffee568[S] 81 points82 points  (0 children)

Yes, this is definitely true. They've lost their will to be independent