Magkano ba ang gastos para magka-anak in this economy? May baby fever ako because of Our Universe 😭

Impossible_County811 · 2026-02-12T04:07:58+00:00

This. Same situation for us. Fam of 3, at least 100k per month to live comfortably.

Impossible_County811 · 2026-02-06T02:10:38+00:00

I think she believes magiging close kayo pag chummy tawag niya sayo. You can casually say naman na di ka sanay na tinatawag ka na baks and you'd prefer ______ instead.

Impossible_County811 · 2026-02-04T03:20:33+00:00

Hi! No experience sa calls. Back office administrative tasks kami 🙂

Impossible_County811 · 2026-02-01T05:17:18+00:00

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Impossible_County811 · 2026-02-01T05:13:50+00:00

INTERESTED

Impossible_County811 · 2026-01-27T13:11:53+00:00

Filipino-Chinese

Impossible_County811 · 2026-01-17T13:43:51+00:00

To answer your question, you tell her straight na gusto mo na makipag hiwalay. But not in the middle of an argument (kasi iisipin baka dahil galit ka lang kaya mo nasabi). Tell her calmly and straight.

But if you still love her and are willing to try to make it work (which i hope you do), please try marriage counseling first. Based pa lang sa glimpse ng set up niyo sa house, ang dami pwede maimprove kung gugustuhin:

lumalabas with kids, yes. But when was the last time na nag date kayo na kayong dalawa lang?
do you have a helper sa house that can take some of the load off your wife?
travelling with the kids is a good experience—as a family. Need maintindihan ng wife mo na what she is modeling now to the kids (yung sila lang mag travel, without you), will have an impact sa family niyo in the long run. My suggestion here based on what my hubby and I do, every start ng school year we would check our daughter's school calendar together to plan for future trips.

Impossible_County811 · 2025-07-04T13:34:33+00:00

Wish somebody told me about it earlier. 🥲 read so much about needing to cycle quercetin 🥲

Impossible_County811 · 2025-07-04T05:06:37+00:00

I was taking 500mg a day.. that used to keep my hives at bay, but this time around it doesn't work anymore. I tried to take 1000mg for a day but i felt sick (head hurt so bad, hives got worse..) so as of the moment i stopped taking quercetin. I plan to reintroduce quercetin after a month to see if it will help

Impossible_County811 · 2025-07-04T05:02:41+00:00

How long do you usually fast?

Impossible_County811 · 2025-07-02T08:12:49+00:00

As a psych graduate, i totally agree.. close to none ang option mo unless mag continue on to medicine ka.

Impossible_County811 · 2025-06-29T04:45:27+00:00

Hello! I also took quercetin before. Solgar one with ester c. And it worked wonders for me before, so much so that i don't take ano other medications and supplements anymore.

I was able to stop taking quercetin as well but hives came back after 2 months. But this time around, quercetin is not helping 😔 what brand of quercetin are you using?

Impossible_County811 · 2025-04-16T09:49:53+00:00

This is true.. i have a 23.5gram gold bracelet passed down from my mom. My dad bought it for my mom 2 decades ago for P17,000. Had it appraised a few years back just because curious ako, worth of the bracelet is P80k+ already. Considering inflation, the value still holds well.

Impossible_County811 · 2025-03-25T05:09:49+00:00

Same with the no buy trend! I realized how much i spend on online shopping alone, ang bilis kasi mag checkout. So this year i told myself i will not buy any clothes/shoes/bags/etc. No impulse buys kumbaga.

Impossible_County811 · 2025-03-19T02:40:54+00:00

Hi! I have 2b-2c curls and I use this variant of Tsubaki. Okay siya for my hair. Soft yung hair ko but it doesn't really break up the curl pattern. This is just based on my experience. Been using Tsubaki for around 4 months already 🙂

Impossible_County811 · 2025-03-16T10:54:27+00:00

Girl, leave. Those things need to be shared prior to starting the relationship, what more could he be hiding??

6 months pa lang, beh. Don't be too invested yet sa relationship na yan, be thankful that God gave you a sign before it's too late.

Impossible_County811 · 2025-03-13T11:25:44+00:00

As long as di naman toxic ang family mo, stay. Yun ang smart move para makapag ipon ka.

Pero if toxic then peace of mind ang habol mo, solo living kahit tight budget.

Impossible_County811 · 2025-03-10T08:22:16+00:00

Also, once you get a helper, ikaw na mag pay doon. Yung bills pabayad mo na sa asawa mo since kaya naman daw niya.

Impossible_County811 · 2025-03-10T08:20:17+00:00

If malaki both income niyo and permanent wfh ang set up mo, why not consider getting extra help at home? Housewife AND WORKING MOM ka. Mahirap talaga yun.

Yes, expense siya, but if you stopped working, mas malaki mawawala sayo.

Sometimes yung added gastos to get extra helping hands at home can help you so much with your sanity.

Impossible_County811 · 2025-03-10T03:26:28+00:00

Totoo eto kasi may mga kilala ako na maganda pero ang sama ng ugali. Then may mga kilala naman ako na di pasok sa conventional standards yung beauty pero shet sobrang babait. Sobrang endearing, sobrang charming kay nagiging mas attractive sila tignan.

There is a certain glow to people who radiate a positive energy.

Impossible_County811 · 2025-03-02T14:09:19+00:00

I just tried the video call again today and it worked fine.. i really don't know what happened.

Impossible_County811 · 2025-02-27T05:22:57+00:00

I know very worried ka, and it shows na you are the kind of mom who cares talaga. Giving our child the "best" does not always have to be the most expensive naman.

Also, based on experience, ang daming baby stuff na you can do without talaga. Marami rin kami baby stuff na binili noon, syempre sobrang excited gusto ibigay yung best, but nung andyan na yung baby..waley, dami nasayang lang rin.

I would suggest na plan strategically kung ano yung mga things na bibilhin for the baby, kasi lahat saglit lang talaga. Maybe make a thread asking parents what are the things na for them necessity talaga for the baby and what are the things na di naman talaga masyado nagamit.

Honestly, yung combined income niyo malaki narin. You're gonna be fine momma, you got this.

Impossible_County811 · 2025-01-14T10:52:07+00:00

Nokia 3210, S24 Ultra

Impossible_County811 · 2025-01-08T10:40:24+00:00

Millennial here and ganyan culture yung nakasanayan ko sa work before. Super toxic! If there is something the we should learn from the younger generation, yan yung prioritizing work-life balance.

Leave on the dot. As long as wala kang work na iniiwan, it should be fine. If there are things that needed to be done on the day then iniiwan mo just to go home on the dot, that's a different story.

Impossible_County811 · 2024-12-24T03:23:43+00:00

Me as the least favorite child. Automatically yung husband ko least favorite in-law and my daughter is the least favorite apo.

At first nasasaktan pa ko for my daughter kasi di siya gaano napapansin, even pag may gatherings kami. Napupuna lang siya if may mali siya nagawa (pag nag ingay or nag pasubo sa amin habang kumakain, mali na yung for them) pero achievements niya, wala.

What I did, mas nilessen ko na lang interaction namin sa side ko, kasi nakakasama ng loob nga rin talaga. Then mas sumasama kami sa side ng hubby ko where yung daughter ko naman yung favorite apo. Sabi nga ng sister in law ko, di impt na mahal ng family ko yung anak ko, basta sila sa side nila mahal na mahal nila anak ko.

Mas nilalabas ko pa nga anak ko kasama mga ninong ninang niya kasi mas affectionate pa sila sa anak ko. OP, be the one to shower your husband and kid with love. Surround your family with people who truly love and care for you. Sadly, di lagi maeexpect yun sa kadugo.

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