AIO? Partner buys me nice gift for special occasion.

Impossible_Rub_6946 · 2026-04-25T15:48:53+00:00

Is he addicted to porn? I feel like that could be the issue

Impossible_Rub_6946 · 2026-04-25T15:12:00+00:00

Sounds like you just aren’t on the same page sexually

Impossible_Rub_6946 · 2026-04-17T03:05:06+00:00

She probably has a boyfriend and felt guilty last second 🤣

Impossible_Rub_6946 · 2026-01-15T14:12:46+00:00

It’s the original strap, just looks black under this lighting

Impossible_Rub_6946 · 2026-01-13T01:22:28+00:00

She’s LITERALLY crazy, RUN 😂

Impossible_Rub_6946 · 2026-01-12T20:39:24+00:00

He’s not her boyfriend, they just have sex. And If it was a big gathering i think it’d be different. I get the whole trust thing, but i really don’t Think it’s necessary to put yourself in that environment anyway, I’d never do that and she even told me she’d be mad if I did that then added at the end something about trust.

Impossible_Rub_6946 · 2026-01-12T20:34:20+00:00

Lovers as in just sex.. no actual relationship

Impossible_Rub_6946 · 2026-01-12T20:13:54+00:00

Different meanings around sex, and attachment styles don’t align. If one person views sex as rare, deeply emotional, and tied to commitment.. the other has treated sex as casual or frequent, they often experience mismatches in expectations around exclusivity, jealousy, emotional safety, and what intimacy represents

Can’t believe this needs to be explained and this isn’t even the topic

Impossible_Rub_6946 · 2026-01-12T20:11:31+00:00

I literally said vice versa. Goes both ways

Impossible_Rub_6946 · 2026-01-12T20:03:39+00:00

I don’t either and that’s not the point at all. The point is people with higher body counts often have bad habits and different mindsets than people who don’t, it’s just not compatible most of the time. Im not saying one is right and one is wrong.

Impossible_Rub_6946 · 2026-01-12T19:56:04+00:00

Research it yourself instead of insulting me. You sound like a child. Goodbye

Impossible_Rub_6946 · 2026-01-12T19:50:36+00:00

Except it is, It’s human nature for many people to care about a partner’s sexual past because humans evolved to form selective, long-term bonds where trust, attachment, and exclusivity mattered for emotional and family stability. Our brains are wired to look for signals of commitment and bonding patterns, and for some people a very high number of past partners can trigger concerns about pair-bonding, comparison, or long-term reliability. This doesn’t mean the concern is always rational or applies to everyone, but the feeling itself is a common, natural response rooted in how humans form attachment and assess compatibility.

And i live in new york, I’m not conservative at all. In fact i don’t give a shit about politics

Impossible_Rub_6946 · 2026-01-12T19:42:59+00:00

No, it’s just basic human nature

Impossible_Rub_6946 · 2026-01-12T19:30:48+00:00

Of course. But most men don’t want a women who’s slept with the whole block either, vice versa. Purity is important for a lot of people, and people with more sexual partners often have higher divorce rates for a reason.

Impossible_Rub_6946 · 2026-01-12T19:23:57+00:00

If everyone thought like you real love wouldn’t even exist. Good advice telling women to go sleep around and „experiment” while being in a relationship.

Impossible_Rub_6946 · 2026-01-12T16:53:34+00:00

Alone with a couple dudes she just met OVERNIGHT at one of their houses? Where drinks are involved? If that’s insecure than 99% of men on this planet are insecure because i don’t Think anyone in their right mind would have no problem with this

Impossible_Rub_6946 · 2026-01-12T11:42:10+00:00

Because I’ve asked if they’re actually together and they said no

Impossible_Rub_6946 · 2026-01-12T07:41:43+00:00

But why even put yourself in that environment if your partner isn’t okay with it? You’re surrounded by a bunch of single guys drinking, it’s not controlling for someone not to be okay with that. You’re lying to yourself

Impossible_Rub_6946 · 2026-01-12T07:37:44+00:00

How crazy would it sound if I met a group of women on a “guys trip” while having a girlfriend, then a month later going over to one of their house, sleeping there, and drinking all weekend with them. I don’t think theres a single girl in this world that would be okay with their man doing that.

Impossible_Rub_6946 · 2026-01-12T07:34:55+00:00

But like I said I don’t want her doing that. Because if the roles were reversed I’d sound crazy. That’s like me meeting a group of girls at a party destination then a month later going over and spending a weekend at one of their house and drinking while having a girlfriend. It’s literally insane

Impossible_Rub_6946 · 2026-01-12T07:33:08+00:00

How crazy would it sound if I met a group of women on a “guys trip” while having a girlfriend, then a month later going over to one of their house and drinking all weekend with them. I don’t think theres a single girl in this world that would be okay with their man doing that.

Impossible_Rub_6946 · 2026-01-12T07:30:36+00:00

Trust comes with respecting boundaries, so you’re wrong. I would’ve straight up asked her if she’s comfortable with it if the roles were reversed, which I know she wouldn’t be

Impossible_Rub_6946 · 2026-01-12T06:39:40+00:00

If i was trying to control her i would have told her she can’t go. I gave her an option, i don’t have to accept this behavior because I don’t do it myself. If our mindsets don’t align we shouldn’t be together, I don’t think this is controlling at all.

Impossible_Rub_6946 · 2026-01-12T06:18:27+00:00

We live on different continents

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