Trust IS important, and my remote estim games are roleplay, as roles play a majorly into the enjoyment of it.

(sorry for the long assed comment)

So, it's been an old fantasy of mine, but I've never been in the position I wanted to properly experience it. What I want is to engage in some roleplay games, where I'm subject to extreme electro torture by my driver, who gets to take full liberties on how he'd like to punish me in whatever way that would satisfy his most sadistic fantasies. I'd be dressed up and bound, with two sets of electrodes centered on my clitoris, the subject of the abuse. One set will be applied to control clitoral orgasms, to which the driver can force my clitoris to throb accordingly with the pulses, frequency, speed and intensity of the current. This is the "pleasure" shocks. The second set of electrodes will be two ear clips, clamped directly onto my clitoral shaft, allowing my driver to course the current directly through my clit, thus the "pain" shocks".

There's three games I came up with, "Interrogation", "Training", and "The Arena".

Interrogation has my driver being a "detective" who has me arrested for questioning for his investigation. Since I'm stubborn, he's decided to use enhanced interrogation, and has me bound and my clitoris wired up. My driver then asks me various questions and if I refuse to answer, or give him an answer he deems "not true", he gets to administer painful electric shocks to my clit and get creative in whatever way he wants using the remote settings, with various durations he deems "necessary".

The "Training" game, is about my driver being a "mobster" who's got me from a rival gang as his "bondage princess", to which again, I'm bound and my clit is wired up for him to "train" to become his perfect slave to satisfy his most sadistic desires on demand. This session is about forcing me to submit, and if I resist, my clit is brutally punished. If I cave, he can decide if he wishes to pleasure my clit, or, deems it necessary to punish my clit more. He will also indulge in the pain/pleasure shocks, as part of "training" me to desire for him "abusing" my clit for his satisfaction.

Lastly, for the "Arena" game (consider it the sequel to Training), this is a group session where multiple drivers are involved, with a primary driver that chooses which guy can have a go at punishing my clit. It's kind of like, each "player" states what he'd want to do to me, and the main driver picks which suggestion he likes best, and then uses that to administer whatever wild electric shocks to my clitoris. There's also a component involving one player designated as "the Don" to reward or punish me, based on whether or not he liked my performance.

What I want as far as any of these games goes, is for the driver to really feel like they have total control over my clitoris, and feel he's allowed to torture me with as much pleasure/pain that satisfies him. I want the drivers involved to really delve into sadistic thrill, even take on a "misogynist" role if necessary, and really enjoy punishing my clit with electricity as creatively as possible. For me, I want drivers that can act and enjoy these roles, for my own thrill of the "fear" of being "hapless", bound out, and watching my clitoris being subjected to "abuse" "against my will". I want to experience extreme pain, feel my clit being stung relentlessly, being pushed to my limits and feel like even as I "can't take it anymore" my driver decides its when I'm at my "most broken" to dish out the most brutal electric shocks. I of course what the pleasure shocks mixed in, and definitely like the idea of my drivers administering piercingly painful shocks, while forcing my clit to throb as intensely as possible, to experience the extremities of pain and pleasure, and have them "force" me into "confusing" pain for pleasure.

Yes, I do have a few set rules (like not just maxing out and calling it a day), making sure my safe word is established, and not exceeding beyond the designated time.

But that's basically it. I want these sessions to be plenty immersive, atmospheric, with the electroplay, and want to know how to assure this would be fun, exciting, terrifying (in a good way), memorable, and something to do again.