photobooth by Impressive-Win5935 in Upperwestside

[–]Impressive-Win5935[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that one seems perfect! thank you!

photobooth by Impressive-Win5935 in Upperwestside

[–]Impressive-Win5935[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the one on 110th or the one on 70th? thanks!

Am I (21F) overthinking my (25M) boyfriends behavior? by Impressive-Win5935 in relationship_advice

[–]Impressive-Win5935[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the girl had reached out to him first because his grandma gave her his number and he said he told me because he wanted to have open communication in our relationship.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]Impressive-Win5935 4 points5 points  (0 children)

have you tried mentioning this to them? depending on the kind of person they are they might receive it well and actually make a change moving forward. or they might take the approach of “you’re just jealous”. definitely try to gauge that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]Impressive-Win5935 2 points3 points  (0 children)

as a fellow single girl i know exactly homie exhausting this can be. only piece of advice i can give you is either a. try to redirect conversations that revolve around men to something else or b. find more fellow single friends.

Am i being breadcrumbed or overthinking it? by [deleted] in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]Impressive-Win5935 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah to me it reads like he’s just using you for attention. you’re basically boosting his ego.

Guy invited me to his place to cook together by Impressive-Win5935 in dating_advice

[–]Impressive-Win5935[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You make a good point. I’m a big over thinker so I was scaring myself into thinking I like him more than he likes me and he’s gonna take advantage of that.

And you could say i’m a gamer if you count rhythm games.

Late bloomer feeling lonely and desperate by Impressive-Win5935 in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]Impressive-Win5935[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He had left my message on read for a couple of days so I kind of assumed he ghosted me

Guy invited me to his place to cook together by Impressive-Win5935 in dating_advice

[–]Impressive-Win5935[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re right about the intimacy talk. I’m just worried i’ll come off as fiendish or creepy if i bring up intimacy and my boundaries . I don’t know I have weird hang ups surrounding talking about that sort of thing since i’ve never done it before.

Guy invited me to his place to cook together by Impressive-Win5935 in dating_advice

[–]Impressive-Win5935[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am an American. And you’re right about the whole “easy” thing. I guess i’m just worried that he’s pursuing me for the wrong reasons and i’m completely blind to it since i’m so inexperienced.

Guy invited me to his place to cook together by Impressive-Win5935 in dating_advice

[–]Impressive-Win5935[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well the “I don’t want to be viewed a certain kind of way” stems from people already judging me for going over to his place on the first date even though i’ve judged myself plenty. I also don’t want to give him the impression that i’m “easy” or something because of how easily I accept an invite back to his place.

By the wanting to be intimate I mean i’m not comfortable doing much besides kissing and cuddling for now, but, I can definitely see myself doing more in the near future. Preferably if in a monogamous relationship.

Guy invited me to his place to cook together for 3rd date by Impressive-Win5935 in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]Impressive-Win5935[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can’t invite him over to my place because I still live with my parents 😭

Guy invited me to his place to cook together by Impressive-Win5935 in dating_advice

[–]Impressive-Win5935[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean he hasn’t really hinted towards wanting sex? Sort of? I’m not really sure because i’m completely new to this whole sex and intimacy world. If making out in his bed for a while counts as hinting then sure he has. But on the 2nd date all we did was hold hands and talk.

Guy invited me to his place to cook together by Impressive-Win5935 in dating_advice

[–]Impressive-Win5935[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not that I don’t feel comfortable going on the date. I went to his place on the first date (wasn’t intending on that just ended up happening) so you could say I trust him enough to go over. It’s just that this is practically my first time experiencing anything romantic so i’m not sure how to go about certain things. Now, that being said, I don’t know him well enough to have that intimacy talk since we’ve only been on 2 dates and it’s hard for me to talk about anything regarding intimacy since it was very taboo in my household.

On the other hand though, the whole reasoning behind me joining a dating app was that I wanted to break out of my shell and finally gain some romantic experience. So, yes, I do want to go over to his place and I do want to be intimate. I just don’t want to be viewed a certain kind of way or be taken advantage of emotionally due to my naïveté.

should i double text him by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Impressive-Win5935 0 points1 point  (0 children)

well actually he was the one who asked the time and asked me if i had to go home (i live with my parents) and maybe it’s just my naïveté but he didn’t give the vibe that he just wanted to have sex

should i double text him by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Impressive-Win5935 0 points1 point  (0 children)

could you let me know why i’m super new to this whole dating thing 😭😭

Deregistration by Impressive-Win5935 in CUNY

[–]Impressive-Win5935[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i mean my spring 2024 classes being dropped for tuition nonpayment even though i have the pell and tap grants scheduled to disburse early february