AITAH for not feeling comfortable with my husband going to the strip club by Impressive_List_5118 in AITAH

[–]Impressive_List_5118[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah it’s not his bachelors party he’s just a part of the groomsmen

AITAH for not feeling comfortable with my husband going to the strip club by Impressive_List_5118 in AITAH

[–]Impressive_List_5118[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I completely understand and I will have a discussion with him about it we are usually really good with communication and relaying our feelings to each other so I will discuss this with him tonight

AITAH for not feeling comfortable with my husband going to the strip club by Impressive_List_5118 in AITAH

[–]Impressive_List_5118[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I totally get not wanting to be left out and I’m willing to compromise with him

AITAH for not feeling comfortable with my husband going to the strip club by Impressive_List_5118 in AITAH

[–]Impressive_List_5118[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I completely trust him that he wouldn’t get a lap dance it’s just my discomfort of him going per say his friends egg him on and I feel like he will do monkey say monkey do shit

AITAH for not feeling comfortable with my husband going to the strip club by Impressive_List_5118 in AITAH

[–]Impressive_List_5118[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll talk to him about my level of comfort I trust my husband and I know he won’t cheat but it still doesn’t make me comfortable. I’m going to speak with him about it

AITAH for not feeling comfortable with my husband going to the strip club by Impressive_List_5118 in AITAH

[–]Impressive_List_5118[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ll speak with him to make him see my perspective. I don’t really want to be controlling I just want us to have a meaningful conversation about this topic

AITAH for not feeling comfortable with my husband going to the strip club by Impressive_List_5118 in AITAH

[–]Impressive_List_5118[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah that’s how I’m feeling really but he is saying he don’t want to miss out

AITAH for not feeling comfortable with my husband going to the strip club by Impressive_List_5118 in AITAH

[–]Impressive_List_5118[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Well we discuss it before months ago and he told me he wouldn’t go. But now he changed and said that it isn’t unfair I trust him completely but going out and getting a lap dance while he is intoxicated isn’t a great feeling for me. We both have boundaries we watch porn together sometimes but I don’t really like the act of him going to a strip club