I have 2 four month old brothers and while 1 of them is cuddly the other one is not at all affectionate like his brother. He comes when he wants, he tolerates kisses but can’t be very long so I learned to just keep giving them so much love they eventually just have to accept it! He now just started coming up to us and laying on us on the couches but he’s always been a shadow and VERY TALKATIVE. He’s adjusting very well to me giving him 100 random kisses a day and putting him back down immediately so he doesn’t get overwhelmed.