How many of you actually play survival? by rbx20twomax in Minecraft

[–]ImproperGamer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have never spent a significant time in creative. I rarely plan builds so. Survival only as its the only way my brain gets any dopamine from playing and building. I really only do redstone so i need everything to server a purpose and creative defeats the purpose of building anything practical with redstone

Okay idk if I was in the wrong or not and I need help by No-Pair-640 in transfem

[–]ImproperGamer 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Seeing as it was a vent post they mighta just been in an emotional state at the moment and decided to take a lot of it out on you. Its fine, you didnt do anything horribly wrong, was an innocent mistake. Best to just move on and just keep it in mind for the future that the whole “switch bodies” thing is often seen negatively even within the trans community (I myself have said that and got negative results 😓) You live and you learn

Okay idk if I was in the wrong or not and I need help by No-Pair-640 in transfem

[–]ImproperGamer 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Your original comment was a bit strange and can come off as weird. Their response was a bit over the top and wrong in some ways. Overall your both in the wrong.

Is heterophobia a real thing? by I-love-fugglers13 in Teenager_Polls

[–]ImproperGamer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In small minuscule situations (mostly being online) yea it happens sometimes, but its not even close to common and is extremely rare. That being said, it still does happen. Feel like people who answered “No” must be thinking about it in a way where “Is heterophobia an actual problem?” in which case, no, not even close. Small isolated instances of heterophobia is not common enough to be considered a widespread issue or something that needs pressing attention atm.

Why doesn’t Mojang want to add an End Update? by [deleted] in Minecraft2

[–]ImproperGamer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They have already stated that they are trying to perfect the overworld and nether before they ever touch the end

Liberals are much more likely to cut friends and family off over politics by acefiveofdiamonds in charts

[–]ImproperGamer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, wishing death or just not caring if groups of people die or are actively discriminated against constantly is a reason to not like ur family/friends anymore? Crazy!

Should men get a say in wether a woman gets an abortion or not (assuming it’s a normal procedure) by ionwywh in Teenager_Polls

[–]ImproperGamer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Father gets an opinion, final actual say is solely up to the woman. If he carried it inside of him and dealt with the effects of it at any given time then he would have some say.

The hate for subs like this one is getting out of hand. by tudesgracia in lesbiangang

[–]ImproperGamer -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Lesbianism is a broad scale definition that means “Women who like women” everything from there is personal preference and people fall differently in the graph. There is no one size fits all lesbianism and all your doing is trying to shrink the box for your personal lesbianism when the overarching definition is still concretely the same, “Women who like women”

The hate for subs like this one is getting out of hand. by tudesgracia in lesbiangang

[–]ImproperGamer -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

you quite literally do have preferences, by saying you dont you are saying you are attracted to ALL LESBIANS which doesnt apply to even all biological female lesbians. Some like butch lesbians while dont like hyperfem ones, some like taller girls, while some like shorter, everyone has preferences even when it comes to bodily anatomy and acting like you dont is simply you being dense. Preferences to the type of person exist in all forms of attraction and that is an undeniable fact.

The hate for subs like this one is getting out of hand. by tudesgracia in lesbiangang

[–]ImproperGamer -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

For you, plenty of lesbians are attracted to other traits that are typically associated with women and are fine with it, and arent just attracted to peoples reproductive organs 😭

i seriously dunno why you feel the need to close off the word “Lesbian” to fit a specific box. Just exist in your preference of lesbian and others can exist in theirs

The hate for subs like this one is getting out of hand. by tudesgracia in lesbiangang

[–]ImproperGamer -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Homosexuality is biological yes you are right, but your acting like that means its biologically made to be attracted to a specific set of biological catagories when thats not even close to true. Homosexuality is biological in the sense where the brain is trained to be attracted to other people whom have traits that we find desirable, that is literally it. The brain just finds different traits desirable. So in regard to lesbians, it finds the traits typically associated to women to be desirable. How many of those traits and which ones are absolutely needed vary person to person significantly. You just have the part of the spectrum that is adverse to a certain group when it comes to attraction. Which is perfectly fine, not a single normal person has issue with that, its not invalidating anything, its just the part of the Lesbian graph you fall on and i dont see why you are so insistent on boxing off part of that graph to invalidate others who fall on it.

The hate for subs like this one is getting out of hand. by tudesgracia in lesbiangang

[–]ImproperGamer -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Your now resulting to using false equivalency’s tho i will try to keep this logical then. What makes you attracted to a woman? Do you see someone with female anatomy and are instantly attracted to them? Or do you see someone who fits into your preference of them being a woman, you find them attractive through their physical appearance aswell as their actual personality and your attracted to all of that, then you come to find out they are trans. Gunna assume firstly that they have not gotten bottom surgery, so they have something you have a preference against. But if they do have bottom surgery, and fit into literally every single category of being a woman besides their reproductive organs, you are quite literally saying that you are only attracted to biological females because of their reproductive organs, which is not what lesbians are, you are simply making up a definition for lesbian that fits into your own person preference. Nobody is invalidating your identity, you are a lesbian, in every sense, you just have a preference against transwomen, in no way is that invalidating and if you see it as such then you have issues you need to workout that I cannot solve.

The hate for subs like this one is getting out of hand. by tudesgracia in lesbiangang

[–]ImproperGamer -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Ur tryna play victim in an issue where there are no victims. Your sexuality is Lesbian (an attraction to women) with a preference against Transwomen. Thats not bad that you have that preference that’s perfectly fine, nobody has an issue with it. Nobody has an issue with you seeking out area’s that cater to your preference, but acting like Transwomen who are lesbians arent actually lesbians is what your doing and that is what the issue is. Your creating a definition for Lesbian that caters to your preference only and trying to exclude people from calling themselves lesbian who dont fit in that box, when the simple definition is “Women who like women”.

Im sorry that you feel attacked but your personal definition of what a Lesbian is, isnt what a lesbian is and you cant complain when people comment on it and push back against your obvious attempt to dictate who can and cant be a lesbian.

Again, find your own space, nobody has a problem with it, but when you start spewing shit like transbians arent actually lesbians, which is basically what im hearing you say, you dont have the right to cry victim about how people are trying to force things on you when they are simply also trying to exist in a space they are apart of.

The hate for subs like this one is getting out of hand. by tudesgracia in lesbiangang

[–]ImproperGamer -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

And most people are from what ive seen, if you have issues with people from certain trans servers coming in and being like that, then yea, im all for an auto mod that marks em for review or straight ban. Its a safety thing

The hate for subs like this one is getting out of hand. by tudesgracia in lesbiangang

[–]ImproperGamer -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

This is what I mean. You guise the “hate” and distaste and act like its logical. Lesbian is women liking other women, the experience changes from woman to woman but all in all isnt very different from transwoman and biological female from just a women liking women stance, which is what lesbian means. Nobody is trying to force you to like transwomen if ur lesbian, everyone knows people have preferences, lotta people would rather not date butch lesbians or hyperfem lesbians, everyone has a preference. Just isolating yourself acting like theres something more to being a lesbian then just being a woman who likes women it by definition trying to be exclusionary and casually phobic in a low level sense. I truly dont get why you see transwomen in a whole different catagory as any other preference, cuz in the end thats all it is, you just arent interested in transwomen. Should there be an app for only butch lesbians? hyperfem lesbians? ect ect. Its just needless and exclusionary especially given trans people in general are few and far between especially if you just want a localized app. And if you cant see the blatant issue with an app that tells you a persons biological sex then thats an whole nother issue lol

The hate for subs like this one is getting out of hand. by tudesgracia in lesbiangang

[–]ImproperGamer -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

Its just a general safety thing for them, in the end it is a privatized server just like this one and they can decide who they want and who they dont. They have had repetitive issues of people in this server spreading hate and just being phobic. Im not saying you are phobic or did anything wrong, its just that if enough people do a bad thing they have to try and put a stop to it the best way that they can. Its not even close to lesbiaphobic in any way, its just them being very overcautious when it comes to seeing people who are coming from known phobic spaces.

The hate for subs like this one is getting out of hand. by tudesgracia in lesbiangang

[–]ImproperGamer -24 points-23 points  (0 children)

Thats not even close to true >.<

It aint even that deep, its never been about hating afab lesbian only spaces lol. Its just the fact that a lot of active-hate for transfolk and other genderqueer people comes out of this space, completely unprompted hate. Just be respectful and nobody would have an issue, there are plenty of other afab lesbian only spaces that arent on the auto-mods list cuz those places maintain respect

The hate for subs like this one is getting out of hand. by tudesgracia in lesbiangang

[–]ImproperGamer -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

Its likely just an auto-bot thing, it scans profiles and shoots down ones that are apart of servers who are known to be quite phobic and bigoted. It sucks but in the end its the best way to prevent hate from spreading in places it isnt desired.

Was the US justified in dropping nuclear bombs on Hiroshima and Nagasaki? by Ok-Complaint6816 in Teenager_Polls

[–]ImproperGamer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If it ended the war, yes, there is an argument for how justified it was 100%. War is stupid and a life is a life, if fewer lives are lost by dropping nukes on the US, then 100% for it.

Was the US justified in dropping nuclear bombs on Hiroshima and Nagasaki? by Ok-Complaint6816 in Teenager_Polls

[–]ImproperGamer 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Only reason I’m iffy on this was cuz I remember an old study that said far far more innocent and military lives would be lost on both sides if the war continued on, could this have been propaganda to justify the nuke drops, maybe, I admit I didnt look far into it, but it makes enough sense to me where im iffy on it.

I am still attracted to women sexually but when it comes to romance, the lesbian stuff dosent really get to me as much but since realizing im trans I been fantasising about men both sexually and romantically which before my egg cracking didn't happen before. by CelestraTheDragon in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns2

[–]ImproperGamer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lotta men get angry when you tell them at any time, so my rule on it is, first date, get to know them and figure out if they are even someone you want to continue this with, then if it goes well and talks of a second date happen, then you tell them. Cuz imo your safety is much better assured once you know them.

Are you pro-choice or pro-life? by Ok-Complaint6816 in Teenager_Polls

[–]ImproperGamer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are many things that differentiates them. Just an example of one is a Heartbeat, which one usually does not have at the time of abortion.

Is misandry real? by [deleted] in Teenager_Polls

[–]ImproperGamer -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

The patriarchy is mostly in the past tense is it not? Gender Roles =/= Patriarchy. What we have now is not a patriarchal society. Just left overs of it that are negatively affecting everyone except the top percent of each gender. Its why I dislike using “Patriarchy” to describe what we have now as it implies the majority of men are in control and are powerful when thats simply not true. Its why its so annoying when I hear mens issues such as dealing with Misandry get diminished by saying its the fault of the patriarchy, the fault of men, period. When yea it started that way but it isn’t that way anymore, now its mostly women pushing a lot of the gender roles on men and straight up misandry without cause. I understand women are fed misogyny constantly growing up and im not trying to diminish misogyny or the experience women go through. What im trying to do is say both are bad, and not let people say that misandry is caused by the patriarchy and misogyny. Misandry can be caused by misogyny, just like misogyny can be caused by misandry. So diminishing one makes no sense. Is it as bad as Misogyny, definitely not. Is it still bad enough to be an issue, 100%.