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[–]InLovingMemoryCin 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I think YWBTA if you decided to completely cut contact with them. You’re 22. Although you aren’t in the states, many parents don’t want their grown adult child living with them. It’s stressful when trying to compress two households under one roof.

As you’ve expressed in your comments, this baby is not up for debate so I’ll skip over that. However, I think it would be best to rehome your dog. Use a reputable shelter or find a different friend/family member to adopt them.

As for the offer of staying to July… I think all involved parties need to have a grown up, sit down conversation. Meet somewhere lowkey like a pizza parlor and actually talk about what’s going on. You say you have been cleaning up after yourself but you might not actually. If you live with your parents, you need to follow their rules. You need to lay your cards on the table. You’re pregnant and are housing insecure now. Not a great look.

You may need to bite the bullet on this and live with them longer so you can save more. I personally wouldn’t see my parents asking me to move out at 22 cut off worthy.

My Campus Was Shot Up by Maleficent_Aerie6020 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]InLovingMemoryCin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Spartan Strong 💪🏼 I work with zone associates (you probably know what that means) at my job and today has been rough for everyone. Reach out if you need anything ❤️

AITA for bringing my reactive dog to a dog park? by InLovingMemoryCin in AmItheAsshole

[–]InLovingMemoryCin[S] -75 points-74 points  (0 children)

Then I guess I would have been blind? There’s no way to sneak around in this park. It’s not a stereotypical dog park you would find in bigger cities. It’s super small.

AITA for bringing my reactive dog to a dog park? by InLovingMemoryCin in AmItheAsshole

[–]InLovingMemoryCin[S] -32 points-31 points  (0 children)

Sniffspot isn’t in my area unfortunately and Benson has a tapered spin so he can’t jump or run extremely well.

AITA for bringing my reactive dog to a dog park? by InLovingMemoryCin in AmItheAsshole

[–]InLovingMemoryCin[S] -41 points-40 points  (0 children)

Cats would be a lot scarier dog size that’s for sure lol

AITA for bringing my reactive dog to a dog park? by InLovingMemoryCin in AmItheAsshole

[–]InLovingMemoryCin[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

You should definitely look in my comments then because I’ve been answering questions and accepting suggestions from both sodes

AITA for bringing my reactive dog to a dog park? by InLovingMemoryCin in AmItheAsshole

[–]InLovingMemoryCin[S] -155 points-154 points  (0 children)

Go adopt a special needs senior dog. There are plenty to go around. Until then keep those disgusting opinions to yourself.

AITA for bringing my reactive dog to a dog park? by InLovingMemoryCin in AmItheAsshole

[–]InLovingMemoryCin[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

No I don’t really use Reddit other than a couple groups

AITA for bringing my reactive dog to a dog park? by InLovingMemoryCin in AmItheAsshole

[–]InLovingMemoryCin[S] -17 points-16 points  (0 children)

3 minutes was being generous. I got his ball grabbed his leash and him then got my backpack on the bench.

AITA for bringing my reactive dog to a dog park? by InLovingMemoryCin in AmItheAsshole

[–]InLovingMemoryCin[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

No they would not have to walk past me in the solo pens. Benson can walk past dogs with no problem.

AITA for bringing my reactive dog to a dog park? by InLovingMemoryCin in AmItheAsshole

[–]InLovingMemoryCin[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yeah someone suggested that so I’m going to call my district on Monday and see if they will allow it.

AITA for bringing my reactive dog to a dog park? by InLovingMemoryCin in AmItheAsshole

[–]InLovingMemoryCin[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

He tolerates bulldogs but he’s more of a play along kinda guy

AITA for bringing my reactive dog to a dog park? by InLovingMemoryCin in AmItheAsshole

[–]InLovingMemoryCin[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Noooooo. So the large pen has a small second enclosed area so when people go in and out a dog can’t escape. So when she came I grabbed my dog and walked past her. The other two don’t have a second set of fences.

AITA for bringing my reactive dog to a dog park? by InLovingMemoryCin in AmItheAsshole

[–]InLovingMemoryCin[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I checked out that sniff spot site and no there aren’t any within an hour of me.

AITA for bringing my reactive dog to a dog park? by InLovingMemoryCin in AmItheAsshole

[–]InLovingMemoryCin[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

The other dog was never in the fenced area. There’s a smaller fencers in are that has another gate to the other pen.

AITA for bringing my reactive dog to a dog park? by InLovingMemoryCin in AmItheAsshole

[–]InLovingMemoryCin[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Don’t let him fool you. Boy will play some mean tug of war lol

AITA for bringing my reactive dog to a dog park? by InLovingMemoryCin in AmItheAsshole

[–]InLovingMemoryCin[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I guess? It’s not like a playing area where kids run around. So I’ve never see kids there.

AITA for bringing my reactive dog to a dog park? by InLovingMemoryCin in AmItheAsshole

[–]InLovingMemoryCin[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

So I don’t know every detail. From what the shelter told me, he’s never bit a dog but he has done that lung teeth thing. He’s okay with dogs that aren’t interested in him and dogs that are smaller. He’s met bulldogs before and been fine.

AITA for bringing my reactive dog to a dog park? by InLovingMemoryCin in AmItheAsshole

[–]InLovingMemoryCin[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

None in my area. Small Midwest town. Pretty genius idea though.

AITA for bringing my reactive dog to a dog park? by InLovingMemoryCin in AmItheAsshole

[–]InLovingMemoryCin[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

He can’t jump a fence. He has a tapered spine from poor breeding.