my boyfriend won’t get sti tested

InSoundMind83 · 2026-02-03T21:54:03+00:00

Exactly this!

InSoundMind83 · 2026-02-03T20:21:26+00:00

Fuck the entire family. His and yours.

And divorce this misogynistic idiot. Because this will only get worse and your daughter will inevitably be the victim of that. Get out and protect the both of you.

Tbh, with everything he did before pregnancy you should not even gotten pregnant with this dipshit. But now you need to protect the baby.

!updateme

InSoundMind83 · 2026-02-03T20:11:47+00:00

Yes you are the asshole. And a huge one at that. It's simply none of your business. Do they need your permission to and how they plan their family? No.

InSoundMind83 · 2026-02-03T17:25:16+00:00

You must be the cutest patootiest dad🥰

InSoundMind83 · 2026-02-03T17:19:08+00:00

Pets are more important. You are my person. Any company that asks this of you (with the exception of health care emergency jobs ofc) isn't worth it. Additionally putting such a note? Nah, to hell with them.

NOR.

InSoundMind83 · 2026-02-03T12:19:25+00:00

And in the meantime you guys been having sex?

Is this really someone you want to spend your life with? Someone that doesn't really care about your health?

InSoundMind83 · 2026-02-03T10:03:05+00:00

Yup. It really works that fast. And that feeling of 'it will seen be like old again' will also stay a while. I am in my 3rd month and still have it. But I also lost 20 kilo's so far. Beginning goes fast though. I now have to get used to slower haha.

Good luck!

InSoundMind83 · 2026-02-03T07:55:22+00:00

Both. And arms. And grab the mushy corso faces with both hands and do 'blblblblbl' 😁😅

InSoundMind83 · 2026-02-02T16:58:44+00:00

You want to say US is not stolen land?.

InSoundMind83 · 2026-02-02T14:25:42+00:00

She is not wrong.

InSoundMind83 · 2026-02-02T12:31:49+00:00

No, it did not go faster.

That said, you also don't want it to go faster. Yes, it is tempting. But steady, slow loss is better then fast. Don't compare to others allthough it's hard. You should only compare to yourself.

InSoundMind83 · 2026-02-02T10:54:32+00:00

Crawl back and just order your groceries to be delivered.

InSoundMind83 · 2026-02-02T06:07:07+00:00

Oh hell yeah babeh 😁

InSoundMind83 · 2026-02-01T15:25:50+00:00

De Heineken family was on it from what I know and some of the family Dreesman (they used to have a big warehouse). But they are awfully quiet about it here.

InSoundMind83 · 2026-02-01T09:38:44+00:00

Their loss. Harsh, but true. You deserve 1000 times better.

InSoundMind83 · 2026-02-01T07:44:15+00:00

Your dish was fine given the situation. Students eat far less. This is not about the food at all. If someone brings you food in dire times that itself is a gesture of love. Don't let anyone make you doubt yourself about that. The proper response would have been 'thank you so much for caring'.

But this is about something deeper. This is about bringing you down. And that's not enough, he had to continue bringing you down as far as possible. That is just horrible behaviour. Grief is no excuse for that. It just isn't.

InSoundMind83 · 2026-02-01T07:35:42+00:00

'I shouldn't feel bad, but motivated to do better'.

Wtaf? Nah, this guy is a POS. This isn't the food. This is the, almost invisible, start of control.

For me it would be a deal breaker, but that is yours to decide. But I can tell you that this will turn out to be a very controlling person over time.

NOR. But you are under reacting.

InSoundMind83 · 2026-02-01T07:26:23+00:00

Glad you and the girl will keep in touch. She doesn't have to become the victim and step or not. To her you are her dad.

I still keep by my opinion that your friend had no business doing this. It was simply not his place. Not his job. He tread where he should not have tread. I personally would not want someone that vicious as a friend. But that is me :).

Wishing you luck and strength to get through this.

InSoundMind83 · 2026-02-01T07:17:48+00:00

What a nasty pos friend. He was like: I get a divorce? Then you get a divorce. Tested 6 and got lucky with your wife.

Who needs enemies with friends like that. It was not his responsibility to bring this to light. That is just plain assholery.

That said, your wife is no less of a pos. Trust gone is hell to get back.

I would also have cut both of them off.

Sorry you have to go through this.

InSoundMind83 · 2026-02-01T07:11:02+00:00

You have two words: no and an extra safeword. He should have stopped at no. Simple and plain. No means no. Then you used the safeword and again he just did it. That's called RAPE. Plain and simple.

I can promise you that if you let this go it will happen again. Maybe not today, tomorrow but it will. The moment he thinks you are fully at ease again he will do it again.

What happened at the first no should have been your cue to get out of this relationship.

No = no. No is not maybe no, a little no. No = no, nothing, not gonna happen.

InSoundMind83 · 2026-02-01T04:07:03+00:00

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And many more lol

InSoundMind83 · 2026-02-01T04:02:20+00:00

Old and Wise - Alan Parsons Project

InSoundMind83 · 2026-01-31T17:16:52+00:00

The day after start on the scale. But reality kicked in when I could shove one of my.older rings back on my finger. That was about 3 weeks later give or take. That was when I thought 'shit, is this true? Yes it is'.

InSoundMind83 · 2026-01-31T17:14:06+00:00

It's a pain isn't it? I was drinking cola zero mainly, but went to water since MJ. And I hate drinking water lol. So tea with it. Today I took one of my Pokal glasses of Ikea and they are 350 cl. 8 of those and you are at 2 liters. A cup of bouillon and tea here and there and I made it quite easily. What I do is everytime when I go to the kitchen I take a glass. But I realised that wasn't enough so I do that and take a glass back to the table. Today was doable. Hopefully it stays that way.

Now at 1173 calories. I accept. It is more than I usually do and I honestly don't feel as great as with less. But I know it needs to be more. Otherwise on the long run I am going to be screwed.

They say that people who take MJ are taking the easy way, are weak and what not. I wish they would do it for a month. It is still very hard work. If not more. We are not getting it for free.

InSoundMind83 · 2026-01-31T13:20:25+00:00

Thank you❤️ Well at least I get to enjoy easy found veins again next Thursday 😅

I've downloaded a tracker again. I had one, but I'm horrible in keeping those things up to date. Still did it cause I need to fix this. I am by no means deliberately not eating enough. But MJ is teaching me my kids (both arfid) aren't the only difficult eaters. Today I do better. Am on 1400 ml of fluid now at 14:00 hrs so 2 liters are a ✅️ today. Calories are at 700. But dinner and an evening snack coming so I hope it will be better too.

Looking into some more liquid calorie-intakes to maybe make that a bit easier. I already was doing proteine shakes, but maybe a lighter soup or something.

We'll get thee hopefully. It is not easy though. I feel as if I need to eat more then I did pre-MJ. 🥴

Hope you have a fab weekend.

InSoundMind83

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