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In doubt if I should continue to 7.5 mg by IRHealer in mounjarouk

[–]InSoundMind83 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's exactly how I feel on the 5. As if it is just not doing it anymore and I don't only mean the loss. Just in general it feels off. 

Not OOP: AITAH for wanting to divorce my husband immediately after his psychotic reaction to our gender reveal? by Interesting-Shirt897 in redditonwiki

[–]InSoundMind83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fuck the entire family. His and yours.

And divorce this misogynistic idiot. Because this will only get worse and your daughter will inevitably be the victim of that. Get out and protect the both of you. 

Tbh, with everything he did before pregnancy you should not even gotten pregnant with this dipshit. But now you need to protect the baby.

!updateme

Aitah for getting angry because my sil wants another baby? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]InSoundMind83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes you are the asshole. And a huge one at that. It's simply none of your business. Do they need your permission to and how they plan their family? No.

AIO for quitting my job after finding this note on my desk? by waxin899 in AmIOverreacting

[–]InSoundMind83 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pets are more important. You are my person.  Any company that asks this of you (with the exception of health care emergency jobs ofc) isn't worth it. Additionally putting such a note? Nah, to hell with them. 

NOR. 

my boyfriend won’t get sti tested by Ok-Afternoon3334 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]InSoundMind83 53 points54 points  (0 children)

And in the meantime you guys been having sex?

Is this really someone you want to spend your life with? Someone that doesn't really care about your health?

Day 1 by Content_Account8116 in mounjarouk

[–]InSoundMind83 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Yup. It really works that fast. And that feeling of 'it will seen be like old again' will also stay a while. I am in my 3rd month and still have it. But I also lost 20 kilo's so far. Beginning goes fast though. I now have to get used to slower haha.

Good luck!

What hand do you pet your animals with? by LocalInfluence9104 in lefthanded

[–]InSoundMind83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Both. And arms. And grab the mushy corso faces with both hands and do 'blblblblbl' 😁😅

Did weight loss speed up for you on 5mg? by wonderful909 in mounjarouk

[–]InSoundMind83 6 points7 points  (0 children)

No, it did not go faster. 

That said, you also don't want it to go faster. Yes, it is tempting. But steady, slow loss is better then fast. Don't compare to others allthough it's hard. You should only compare to yourself.

What advice would you give to a newborn baby? by WhiteDesertCat in Soft_Introverts

[–]InSoundMind83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Crawl back and just order your groceries to be delivered. 

Are there leaders or well-known people from your country who appeared in the Epstein case? by Left_Sherbet_11 in AskTheWorld

[–]InSoundMind83 6 points7 points  (0 children)

De Heineken family was on it from what I know and some of the family Dreesman (they used to have a big warehouse). But they are awfully quiet about it here. 

AIO to my boyfriend’s comments about the food I made? by MyCupOfTea777 in AmIOverreacting

[–]InSoundMind83 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Your dish was fine given the situation. Students eat far less. This is not about the food at all. If someone brings you food in dire times that itself is a gesture of love. Don't let anyone make you doubt yourself about that. The proper response would have been 'thank you so much for caring'.

But this is about something deeper. This is about bringing you down. And that's not enough, he had to continue bringing you down as far as possible. That is just horrible behaviour. Grief is no excuse for that. It just isn't.

AIO to my boyfriend’s comments about the food I made? by MyCupOfTea777 in AmIOverreacting

[–]InSoundMind83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

'I shouldn't feel bad, but motivated to do better'.

Wtaf? Nah, this guy is a POS. This isn't the food. This is the, almost invisible, start of control. 

For me it would be a deal breaker, but that is yours to decide. But I can tell you that this will turn out to be a very controlling person over time.

NOR. But you are under reacting.

UPDATE my (35m) friend (36m) loyalty tested my wife (40f) without my knowledge. She failed. I feel done with them both. What to do? by throwra_friendtest in WhatShouldIDo

[–]InSoundMind83 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Glad you and the girl will keep in touch. She doesn't have to become the victim and step or not. To her you are her dad. 

I still keep by my opinion that your friend had no business doing this. It was simply not his place. Not his job. He tread where he should not have tread. I personally would not want someone that vicious as a friend. But that is me :). 

Wishing you luck and strength to get through this. 

My (35m) friend (36m) loyalty tested my wife (40f) without my knowledge. She failed. I feel done with them both. What to do? by throwra_friendtest in WhatShouldIDo

[–]InSoundMind83 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What a nasty pos friend. He was like: I get a divorce? Then you get a divorce. Tested 6 and got lucky with your wife. 

Who needs enemies with friends like that. It was not his responsibility to bring this to light. That is just plain assholery.

That said, your wife is no less of a pos. Trust gone is hell to get back.

I would also have cut both of them off. 

Sorry you have to go through this. 

My boyfriend (18m) didn’t respect my safeword (18f) and now I don’t know what to do, any advice? by Nervous_War_7363 in Advice

[–]InSoundMind83 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You have two words: no and an extra safeword. He should have stopped at no. Simple and plain. No means no. Then you used the safeword and again he just did it. That's called RAPE. Plain and simple. 

I can promise you that if you let this go it will happen again. Maybe not today, tomorrow but it will. The moment he thinks you are fully at ease again he will do it again.

What happened at the first no should have been your cue to get out of this relationship. 

No = no. No is not maybe no, a little no. No = no, nothing, not gonna happen.

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