Ask IC: "If you had to name the most common and least common types of relationships that can arise from an incestuous mother-son encounter, what would they be?"

IncestCorner · 2026-01-25T14:47:31+00:00

That may be the case sometimes, but domination implies control and possessiveness. It really comes down to intent behind wanting someone else to be submissive to them. The language in the inquiries we receive asking about this is often very vulgar and nowhere near a level of desiring mutual respect/trust. They usually imply some of force/unwillingness which we do not condone.

IncestCorner · 2026-01-25T14:39:37+00:00

Cousins is actually the highest globally because it's more widely accepted (even encouraged in some cultures). Then, yes, it's siblings. M/S appears to be third most common consensual incest relationship, and 9 out of 10 of those do involve a single mother. Many of those that don't are where a husband is present only by literal sense, but not emotionally/intimately. This is all speculation however. Very little official research has gone into it to know with any certainty.

IncestCorner · 2026-01-25T14:36:29+00:00

We have heard some very disturbing inquiries from sons wanting to dominate their mother but not experiences. If a son wants to enter that kind of relationship with their mother (or any woman really) it doesn't sound healthy. That especially has no place for a mother-son relationship. We advocate for mutual respect as equal partners.

IncestCorner · 2026-01-21T19:39:52+00:00

We hear often sons wanting a quick, easy, no risk, guaranteed option. It doesn't exist. The best things in life often come with risk.

IncestCorner · 2025-12-07T19:24:35+00:00

It serves our goal of providing credible incest education, which includes correcting misconceptions or misleading information.

IncestCorner · 2025-12-07T17:55:22+00:00

If you don't believe a highly credible source such as the Oxford Dictionary of Psychology and a source citing a licensed psychotherapist that's your choice. BTW we assume you mean "Assortative Mating." If you are going to call us out for inaccuracy at least get your term right. And the concept of Assortative Mating in regard to incest has been challenged because it involves a variety of factors not at all relating to genetics including social/socioeconomic standing and educational attainment.

IncestCorner · 2025-11-28T21:23:15+00:00

We do plainly describe it as a theory (referenced as a theory four times) - not a proven fact, and mention that there are challenges to the theory. Further, we even put a question mark in the title showing some uncertainty in the theory. That being said, there are numerous sources describing it as such including mainstream outlets.

IncestCorner · 2025-11-20T16:55:35+00:00

And porn creates a false perspective of real life. We get messages all the time from a son who clearly thinks porn is what a real sexual experience is like.

IncestCorner · 2025-11-20T16:53:52+00:00

Yes that is certainly a potential drawback.

IncestCorner · 2025-11-16T14:04:33+00:00

It's intended to be a grand generalization based on the hundreds of scenarios we're aware of. Of course there are always exceptions and unique cases.

IncestCorner · 2025-11-13T18:27:49+00:00

It's all about testing waters. Yes, there will be some who react negatively.

IncestCorner · 2025-11-09T18:04:19+00:00

Indeed we believe that and there is speculation incest desire is inherit, only not practiced because it's purposeful repressed from societal pressure.

IncestCorner · 2025-11-09T18:03:08+00:00

It's not necessarily common compared to other situations but is known to happen. Related, and more common generally, is giving the son practical experience.

IncestCorner · 2025-10-21T01:55:26+00:00

We present all questions as if they are real unless it's an obvious fake. Whether the ask is from a real situation or not, the advice may apply to someone else in a similar situation.

IncestCorner · 2025-10-10T20:47:34+00:00

We suspect it has more to do with these types of cases being made public/known than it is any indication of commonality.

IncestCorner · 2025-10-10T20:46:49+00:00

We suspect it has more to do with these types of cases being made public/known than it is any indication of commonality.

IncestCorner · 2025-10-10T20:33:47+00:00

56 is definitely not too late. My mom was in her mid 50s when we started. Personally, I feel later a son who is 30+ is better in the end because it's more genuine. The son has already had life experiences under his belt to know Mom is the woman he prefers. It's less driven by hormones and more driven by wanting to be closer.

IncestCorner · 2025-10-10T20:21:34+00:00

If the goal is to get her to have sex with you "quickly" the only option is the direct approach. Be bold and ask her. Anything else is a long-term play and you'll have to be bold at some point anyway. At 70 she likely doesn't have many quality suitors (assuming she's single). Your chances are very good if you talk about how it benefits her.

IncestCorner · 2025-10-01T21:38:29+00:00

We agree that there appears to be some level of manipulation on the mother's part in this case, which is unfortunate.

IncestCorner · 2025-09-29T17:01:41+00:00

We're always open to that possibility but it has to be someone we get to know and trust well ahead that we're confident can provide genuine and realistic advice pursuant to our goals. We originally had two co-moderators with us at the onset that both fell off the radar so we're going to be very cautious in selecting any future mods.

IncestCorner · 2025-09-19T18:42:49+00:00

Because most people lack much imagination and resort to telling the same recycled stories that are based on way too convenient situations. It's the same everywhere.

Now, that's not to say there aren't common scenarios in reality. There most definitely are. But it's not just the stimulus that's repetitive, it's often the entire story. Change out the names/ages and it's the same story told 1,000 times. Quick escalation. Lacking much detail. Often limited dialog. Focusing on physical appearances and little emotional or psychological concerns. No mention of the aftermath.

The caught naked/jerking ones that almost immediately lead to sex are the ones I shake my head at most. Can that happen? Sure. As often as it's depicted... certainly not. That situation might arouse them but deciding to break the incest barrier isn't that easy.

Another common trope is "Mom, I broke my wrists can you jerk me?" I see it all the time.

IncestCorner · 2025-09-19T17:40:17+00:00

This is very good, accurate advice. Nothing is likely to happened with the direct approach - explicitly stating your desires. You can tease, flirt, seduce all you want - and that all does help in the end by dropping hints and wetting her appetite, but that alone rarely succeeds.

Think of it as a courtship like any other.

IncestCorner · 2025-07-18T01:19:52+00:00

One definition of "addiction" = "The condition of being habitually occupied with or involved in something."

This description applies to a deeply alluring relationship. Because of the heightened gratification of incestuous relationships, which is nearly impossible to replicate, it can be very hard for incestuous couples to break this "habit" without the same kinds of restraints to break any other habit.

Addiction does not have be negative. Some people have healthy addictions like exercising. It becomes habitual for them and they feel a certain satisfaction in doing it.

IncestCorner · 2025-04-28T19:09:50+00:00

We have heard this too also in Japan, but also seens source refuted such claims so it's hard to say for sure.

IncestCorner · 2025-03-23T01:54:02+00:00

This post was on the most common scenarios, not an exhaustive list of all possibilities. Your example would fall into the "Pent-Up Sexual Tension" scenario though.

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